Hello Nairaland, pls i need advice from you guys. My boyfriend does not take things serious, He tries to get something done but stops shortly after he begins. He has what i call the "Initial garra-garra" syndrome. I am tired of playing the role of mother who always believes that a child would change for good. I wish i could just walk out but i cant because there is a tie that can not be undone between the both of us. Pls i need tips that would be of help.

is not that he aint serious,probably hasnt found his calling yet, patience is wat u need plus has he finished skool?

NIAPREXT:

Hello Nairaland, pls i need advice from you guys. My boyfriend does not take things serious, He tries to get something done but stops shortly after he begins. He has what i call the "Initial garra-garra" syndrome. I am tired of playing the role of mother who always believes that a child would change for good. I wish i could just walk out but i cant because there is a tie that can not be undone between the both of us. Pls i need tips that would be of help.

una swear oath?

i can just imagine how you feel.
keep encouraging him and when anytime you notice that while he is on a certain project, the zeal in him reduces, keep bugging and talking to him about it.

You only need to be firm yet patient with him

funkybaby:


una swear oath?

i can just imagine how you feel.
keep encouraging him and when anytime you notice that while he is on a certain project, the zeal in him reduces, keep bugging and talking to him about it.

You only need to be firm yet patient with him

I agree with you. Perhaps they did. . .and if that's the case, then i'm sorry for her. Wat you said should work cus some people need a little push from someone who really cares about them and that's where she comes in.

since u have the ''after gra gra'' while not complimet him, by helping complete the task when he comes wit his ''initial gra gra''. and like someone said earlier , he is yet to find his calling. sounds like one of those peeps with a braod mind, coming up with all kinds of ideas, but they will only show zeal, when they finally spot their calling.

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eyaa!, why not encourage him, better still be his personal adviser.

I used 2 be lik dat o! If u luv him complain 2 him about it.It took my mother more dan 3 years 2 make me stop dat habit.I must confess its really bad.I can remember back den in high skool.I did't take my studies so seriously even my friends complained dat i had brains but i was to lazy 2 fully utilize it.All i'll just say is education does not guarantee success in lyf and will start giving examples of rich guys who r not so educated & i'll rather study 4 a grade C when my mates r killin dem selves 4 an A.
Good mother i sumtimes wonder how u do things afta naggin heaven on earth.

have u guy taken an oath?

OYINBOGOJU:

have u guy taken an oath?

Guy? 37 posts and you're already laying yourself down for the English purists in here to crucify? I sorry for you o. . .