I don't know if this is the right place but I really need advise

Very simple run to Tb Joshua asap I wonder why our men are always like this.I guess he's igbo I am igbo too but seems igbos are good at this shit

Can u go to the SA embassy? They can help you and give u advice...

Domestic violence is a serious matter Ma'am..make sure u report it to the police station and let them log in all ur complains and if u have bruises, make sure u have photos and keep it, that's an evidence u can file against him...



Take care.

QueenSuccubus:
Can u go to the SA embassy? They can help you and give u advice...

Domestic violence is a serious matter Ma'am..make sure u report it to the police station and let them log in all ur complains and if u have bruises, make sure u have photos and keep it, that's an evidence u can file against him...



Take care.

tell here the truth T.B Joshua us the fastest he doesn't play with this kind thing

Mr2kay2:
tell here the truth T.B Joshua us the fastest he doesn't play with this kind thing

If u think tat guy will help her out, then plz call him before something will happen to this lady.

What about your family can't you get them to help you? Can't you get a message to them somehow?

I would also advise that you copy this on the Family section. There are a lot of mature family people there. Look for tehn on nl as well. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I would advise you play the conning fox now which means try your absolute best not to upset him. Let him do what he wants while you figure out away to escape.

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Cococandy

Just wanted to bring your attention to this thread. I thought you guys might be able to advise or help a new mother going through domestic violence.

Let me also call mizmycoli, she is the only person Dat can help u.

I hate violence against women! Sorry for what you are going through.


I'm a tad busy at the moment can't contribute much.

However start with contacting your families back in SA.

Also contact office of the public defender here in Lagos (dont know if you are in Lagos)here's their information.

Iyun Street / Funsho Williams Way

Barracks or Stadium Bus stop

Western Avenue, Surulere, Lagos

Tel: 01-8975571, 01-7926928, 01-7926930

E-mail: opdlagos@yahoo.com




The south African embassy

24 Molade Okoya Thomas Street
Victoria Island
Lagos
Nigeria
Phone
+234-1-461-2067
+234-1-461-2050
+234-1-461-2065
+234-1-461-2052
+234-1-461-2054
+234-1-262-4041
+234-1-461-2981
Fax
+234-1-461-2064
+234-1-461-2066

Email: safrica@nigol.net.ng.


Brb.

Coldfeet God bless you babe

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avani:
I don't know if this is the right place but I really need advise/help. My husband is abusing me physically and verbally. I'm originally from South Africa and he brought me down here to introduce our new born to his family. I noticed the change when I realized he has been having an extra marital affair and right now all I want is to run away back to my home but he has hidden our baby's passport and is threatening me. I feel suicidal but what about my 3 month old baby? I don't know if this is the right forum but please if anyone can see this, may I please have some contacts of people who can help me and I don't have to pay because I do not have any money to pay. He goes for days on end leaving me with the child and no food or money and to make matters worse I am breastfeeding. Please, I am asking for advice. Has anyone been to the synagogue church of all nations? Can the man of God prophet TB Joshua help me in going back to my country? I'm just at the end of the road right now.

You do know you can contact the south african consulate. That is one of the functions of a decent consulate/ embassy.

Better take your baby there and request sanctuary, if you dont have any of your babies papers / passport the baby's nationality can always be verified if he was born in SA and registerd there. It shouldnt be to hard to trace... besides don t you have family back in SA that can also push yoir case from the foreign office back in SA.

The embassy could also arrange repartriation for you and your babay back to SA.


This is the best option i believe rather than trying to meander through the nigerian system

Good luck!

If some men don't want a marriage,why then do they take some women through the process and start messing up?

Avani,contact the South African embassy.That's your best bet for now.

unfortunate victim of 1 CHANCE

We need evidence to prove that you're married and has a child.


And another empirical evidence to prove that you're being abused physically and verbally.

dingbang:
Let me also call mizmycoli, she is the only person Dat can help u.

You go fear village high priestess

Tallesty1:
You go fear village high priestess

lwkmd... she just be like Deborah for bible in the book of Judges

Really? Is this the office of the public defender?

Royalroy, Sir, can you please move this thread to the family section?

Tallesty1:
We need evidence to prove that you're married and has a child.


And another empirical evidence to prove that you're being abused physically and verbally.

Cc Avani. Start from here please.

Coldfeet:
I hate violence against women! Sorry for what you are going through.


I'm a tad busy at the moment can't contribute much.

However start with contacting your families back in SA.

Also contact office of the public defender here in Lagos (dont know if you are in Lagos)here's their information.

Iyun Street / Funsho Williams Way

Barracks or Stadium Bus stop

Western Avenue, Surulere, Lagos

Tel: 01-8975571, 01-7926928, 01-7926930

E-mail: opdlagos@yahoo.com




The south African embassy

24 Molade Okoya Thomas Street
Victoria Island
Lagos
Nigeria
Phone
+234-1-461-2067
+234-1-461-2050
+234-1-461-2065
+234-1-461-2052
+234-1-461-2054
+234-1-262-4041
+234-1-461-2981
Fax
+234-1-461-2064
+234-1-461-2066

Email: safrica@nigol.net.ng.


Brb.

@Op... I advise you follow Coldfeet advice...... call or get to the SA Consulate ... it is their duty to protect you and they will. How can a man even if he is drunk abuse his wife with such a young baby?... you thought you married a man.... that's a beast lady. .. pack up and move out... in fact ...just go to the consulate.

Smh....too bad...

Dunno what someone can gain from maltreating his wife...even animals don't act that way...

Mr2kay2:
Very simple run to Tb Joshua asap I wonder why our men are always like this.I guess he's igbo I am igbo too but seems igbos are good at this shit

Don't be silly. Even if you are such a person must you tag it to the igbos or any tribe?

#NoToDomesticViolence

#NoToDomesticViolence

Mimzyy:
Really? Is this the office of the public defender?

None of the above...



I have read a lot of stories like this and many of them are scam. Funny enough they're all Southy people.

avani:
I don't know if this is the right place but I really need advise/help. My husband is abusing me physically and verbally. I'm originally from South Africa and he brought me down here to introduce our new born to his family. I noticed the change when I realized he has been having an extra marital affair and right now all I want is to run away back to my home but he has hidden our baby's passport and is threatening me. I feel suicidal but what about my 3 month old baby? I don't know if this is the right forum but please if anyone can see this, may I please have some contacts of people who can help me and I don't have to pay because I do not have any money to pay. He goes for days on end leaving me with the child and no food or money and to make matters worse I am breastfeeding. Please, I am asking for advice. Has anyone been to the synagogue church of all nations? Can the man of God prophet TB Joshua help me in going back to my country? I'm just at the end of the road right now.

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.picture.. primary school
.family name .. church address.
.parent address .. email adddress..gran parent address as and pet names.....we take care of the rest and he is history! !(REAL TALK)

MrCork:


...sweeeery gimmmme his name.. address height ..cooomplexsion
.picture.. primary school
.family name .. church address.
.parent address .. email adddress..gran parent address as and pet names.....we take care of the rest and he is history! !(REAL TALK)

avani:
I don't know if this is the right place but I really need advise/help. My husband is abusing me physically and verbally. I'm originally from South Africa and he brought me down here to introduce our new born to his family. I noticed the change when I realized he has been having an extra marital affair and right now all I want is to run away back to my home but he has hidden our baby's passport and is threatening me. I feel suicidal but what about my 3 month old baby? I don't know if this is the right forum but please if anyone can see this, may I please have some contacts of people who can help me and I don't have to pay because I do not have any money to pay. He goes for days on end leaving me with the child and no food or money and to make matters worse I am breastfeeding. Please, I am asking for advice. Has anyone been to the synagogue church of all nations? Can the man of God prophet TB Joshua help me in going back to my country? I'm just at the end of the road right now.

Madam don't go anywhere other than ur embassy. Because if ur husband finds out about ur plan things will get difficult. I suggest u delete this post now or take out some info that could give him any clue in case he or his friend is a Nairalander or reads this. I don't know about T.B Joshua but the essence of ur embassy in Nigeria is for cases like this.

Hurry.

prettyAdaolisa:
Smh....too bad...

Dunno what someone can gain from maltreating his wife...even animals don't act that way...

I can't imagine myself maltreating you

But how do you ladies, just manage to get hooked up with such irresponsible men? Some men are something else though.

avani:
I don't know if this is the right place but I really need advise/help. My husband is abusing me physically and verbally. I'm originally from South Africa. I feel suicidal but what about my child?I don't know if this is the right forum but please if anyone can see this, may I please have some contacts of people who can help me and I don't have to pay because I do not have any money to pay. Please, I am asking for advice. Has anyone been to the synagogue church of all nations? Can the man of God prophet TB Joshua help me in going back to my country? I'm just at the end of the road right now.