hello ladies and woman, some weeks back i came across something like this, although the issue got to another level between this woman and her husband, sincerely speaking, the husband has divorce that woman as am talking to you right now, for the sake of friendship, i don't want to hear such things from a friend again in life, that's why am sharing a little out of my experience

here are the tips


1. Stay in shape

Men don’t want bag of bones nor do they ant a woman who looks like she is smuggling beach balls. I suggest 3-4 times a week of cardio-esque activity regarding your diet. You do not need to starve yourself, you do not need those greasy chips either

2. Lay off the body modification

Men gravitate to natural hair colour, tasteful and coverable tattoos [if any at all] and piercing that are out of control and all over the place

3. Make your own money

When it comes to money,men really couldn’t care less if you have the whole list, but you need to be making enough so that you are not a financial drain on him. If you make more than him, more power to you, just refrain from throwing it in his face like some form of one-upmanship


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Men dont look out for those things any more

[quote author=surhaj post=51519116]here are the tips


1. Stay in shape

Men don’t want bag of bones nor do they ant a woman who looks like she is smuggling beach balls. I suggest 3-4 times a week of cardio-esque activity regarding your diet. You do not need to starve yourself, you do not need those greasy chips either

2. Lay off the body modification

Men gravitate to natural hair colour, tasteful and coverable tattoos [if any at all] and piercing that are out of control and all over the place

3. Make your own money

When it comes to money,men really couldn’t care less if you have the whole list, but you need to be making enough so that you are not a financial drain on him. If you make more than him, more power to you, just refrain from throwing it in his face like some form of one-upmanship

4. Sex Life

Men want a woman that has a healthy sex drive and few past sexual partners. That means that you and your past boyfriend had a lot of sex. It does not mean that you were the town bicycle. Life isn’t fair. Get used to it. The average men will never see that many women anyway. Men also do not want a woman that leverages sex as a way to get what she wants. That is a pretty good indicator that she really is not all that interested in sex [with him] in the first place.

5. Be Intelligent

No man wants a woman that cannot flex her mental muscles

6. Be childfree

This is kind of the not-so-secret secret. Men don’t want instant families, nor do they want the ultimate form of cuckoldry that is raising another man’s child. This goes double if you have multiple children and/or if your children are biracial. It does not matter if your child’s father was abusive, a deadbeat, a good man, or hit by a bus tragically. The bottom line is that you have a child, and it does not belong to the eligible bachelors out there

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7 Don't Over-react

We talked about staying in shape, and building a solid body of muscle requires that you eat quite a bit. However, those that aren’t lifting weights will want to avoid pigging out most of the time. Stuffing your face not only makes you look like a slob, but it is also a red flag to a woman that you’re going to be not so slim in the future.

You can still eat all of the foods you like, but not every meal has to be a buffet. Unless you’re dealing with a competitive eating groupie, women don’t particularly find themselves attracted to constant overeaters. Seriously, though, there are competitive eating groupies out there.

8 Be Willing to Cook at Least Three Times a Week

I wish I knew where things had taken a turn for the worst in terms of women’s progress, but apparently the domestic ability of being able to feed yourself without ordering takeout or putting some TV dinner in the microwave has fallen by the wayside.

9 Stop Hoarding Guy Friends

9 out of 10 of your guy friends just want to sleep with you anyway. Men know how other men think. The first guy that comes to comfort you after a big fight will also be the first one to say “he’s not good enough for you” in order to sabotage the relationship, and then he’ll be the first one to try to get into your pants after he convinces you that your man is a creep. It’s not about having trust issues. It’s about knowing how people act. Trust is earned, not immediately granted.

10. Pre-Emptive Answering To Counterargument Sound Bites:

A. “You don’t speak for every man out there.” These attributes operate on a bell curve, and more men sit underneath the curve than amongst the outliers. Obviously not every man wants every single trait on here, but the less that you deviate from the standard the more “marketable” you are.

B.“That goes both ways.” Nice observation. You are fully at liberty to have the same standard(s) for the men you date. You should write an article about it.

C. “Don’t tell me what to do or how to be.” You can take all of this with a grain of salt for all I care. I am just giving you some insight into the minds of men once the filter has been taken off.

D. “My boyfriend loves me just the way I am.” “I don’t have XYZ, and I have lot of men chasing after me.” Good for you. Everybody settles in some aspect. Holding out for the partner that is perfect in every way is a fool’s errand. He has simply learned to accept your faults. Stop deluding yourself. The thirst is strong these days. A saying I heard less than a week ago was, “If you have standards, you’re just cock-blocking yourself.” Some men will take whatever they can get.

E. [Insert random hostile comment that attacks me directly.]” Ad hominem. Debate the ideas presented. You will be more productive that way.

F. I would do this, but….” You can rationalize it all you want. It still doesn’t detract from what men want. You can’t argue someone into finding you attractive.

Sayelabola:
This OP is looking for our trouble...

op?

Lols.. Wierd

afanide:
Men dont look out for those things any more

am very sure you still look for some of these today