So this happened to a dude who happens to be like a brother to me.
He's been dating this lad y for four years now and during the beginning of the relationship he never saw signs of her cheating until late last year when she got pregnant for another dude.
He found out about the sinister affair and she confessed and pleaded with a lot of remorse.

He eventually took her back and things slowly went back to normal after aborting the pregnancy.

Not too long ago, my boy finished school and has more time to focus on his hustle which eventually paid off.

He bought a car and rented an apartment while making plans to settle down then he opened up to me about this lady on how he no longer has his hopes on her because he caught her cheating again.

How will you advice him?

my brother i havent dated one yet thank God but they dont change ooooo, i heard that nothing can change them, once a girl mind no dey one place forget it.

sweetjude:
my brother i havent dated one yet thank God but they dont change ooooo, i heard that nothing can change them, once a girl mind no dey one place forget it.

I told him same thing last year.
Leopards hardly change their spots.
It just breaks my heart that he has invested so much in her and that's why he can't leave her.

He paid her school fees while they were both schooling in a private institution.

Its just sad.

He already made the RIGHT decision... So ,wat kind of advice does he still need?

QueenSuccubus:
He already made the RIGHT decision... So ,wat kind of advice does he still need?

He hasn't taken any action yet.
He is only aware she's a cheat.

BrandNewIV:

He hasn't taken any action yet.
He is only aware she's a cheat.

Tell him to Leave her azz alone.. But if ur friend Is a mumu boi then no matter how u gonna explain it to him, He won't listen... So, any advice will juz go straight to the bin & it's all useless sha.

Dear op,there are somethings one should not be asking,especially on social media...You already know the answer to the question.

Dshocker:
Dear op,there are somethings one should not be asking,especially on social media...You already know the answer to the question.

QueenSuccubus:


Tell him to Leave her azz alone.. But if ur friend Is a mumu boi then no matter how u gonna explain it to him, He won't listen... So, any advice will juz go straight to the bin & it's all useless sha.

I honestly don't like telling people what to do but I trust Nairalanders to be blunt and straightforward.

I intend to show him this link after ya'll give him a piece of your mind.