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Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by nmreports: 8:57am On Dec 14, 2016 |
zed7: Funny I am just seeing this. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 14, 2016 |
It can only get better. It has been an amazing 2 days of success. This changes can only be possible tru God. I just need to continue doing my part and watch him perfect things regarding my situation as he clearly understand our individual situations and make up as well. Once again thank you all for giving me the needed push. lessons learnt : No matter how long you have travelled on the wrong path, the wisest thing to do is turn around. Conscience may not stop us from doing something bad, but it will stop us from enjoying it. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Ngokafor(f): 10:46am On Dec 14, 2016 |
loyallove: ....Keep it up,and God will see you through...Amen. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 8:22pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Another successful day. Started the day on a prayerful note. Went to work and came back on time to do the laundry. Went to the gym and spent close to an hour. Had a chat with friends. Just relaxing while waiting for mid weekpremiership. Wishing everyone a good night rest. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Vikky014(f): 8:57pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
loyallove:dnt worry since u hv decided to stop. God wont forsake you. always meditate on his Word. delete anything dt can trigger the urge from ur gadgets. . |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 10:21pm On Dec 14, 2016 |
Beautiful ..one day at a time. Keeping you in my prayers.... loyallove: |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Jahblessme: 12:59am On Dec 15, 2016 |
Sex twice in 7 months isn't addiction. Now is your problem the fact that you are having sex or is it the fact that you just want to have sex with prostitutes? Is it specifically about sleeping with prostitutes or that you are sleeping with a female who is not your wife? They are two totally separate things.Addiction to prostitutes will probably be almost impossible to cure because the high comes from the anonymity and being as dirty as you like without any hangups.I may be wrong though. If your problem is sex twice in a full moon then hope still dey,at least that one is a natural urge which may be controllable with a willpower of iron. Good luck |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 4:35am On Dec 15, 2016 |
The problem is basically the use of prostitutes. Its a difficult addiction but i sure know it can be stopped. I got myself into it and by Gods help I will get myself out of it. God is still changing lifes Jahblessme: |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Jahblessme: 8:35am On Dec 15, 2016 |
loyallove: So what exactly is your reason for using prostitutes? When you answer that honestly,that is when you may begin to find answers.God will not come down to change you,you have learned a behaviour which has become something you crave,the only solution may be total behaviour modification when the craving arises as per doing something else that gives you a feeling close to the adrenaline rush you get when you pay for sex. Freedom from prostitute addiction is very hard ,its normally a lifelong cross like any other addiction. Normally you have support groups filled with people with the same problem helping each other out and at least having someone to talk to and keep them accountable when the need arises,just like alcohol anonymous. Unfortunately in naija this isn't seen as a problem in many circles. I would've advised to find men in your church who suffer from the same but I know none will come forward. Hope you dig yourself out of this hole,marriage won't make it better ,sex with wife won't help as sex itself is not the issue. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 10:06am On Dec 15, 2016 |
I agre to some extent. However I believe there will be a way out no matter how rigorous it may be. I am stopping at nothing to make sure I become the responsible man I want to be. I strongly believe that this lifestyle was learned and can as well be unlearned. Until then I will just keep doing my own part and see God handle the rest. Failed marriage has been my biggest fear and I know I will be heading to that if I don't stop what i am doing to myself. Jahblessme: |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Lilac91: 1:04pm On Dec 15, 2016 |
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Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 7:24pm On Dec 15, 2016 |
What else can I say than to remain thankful to God for another amazing day marked with success . I am not where I want to be yet , but i am better than I was yesterday. Thanks everyone for the suggestions and pointers. You really may not understand how much they meant to me. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by dandig(m): 8:35am On Dec 16, 2016 |
Mr o.p please get a job that can keep you busy and your mind occupied (2) Get a girlfriend already (3) Go to church and join a working unit like Ushering DEPT..BY the time u get too busy, the devil won't find a way to ur mental faculty[/color]Mr o.p please get a job that can keep you busy and your mind occupied (2) Get a girlfriend already (3) Go to church and join a working unit like Ushering DEPT..BY the time u get too busy, the devil won't find a way to ur mental faculty |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by socrateez(m): 4:30pm On Dec 16, 2016 |
I can see you're making some progress. If you need further support please contact christlifeline@gmail.com |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 16, 2016 |
It can only get better. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 9:50pm On Dec 16, 2016 |
Thanks everyone for the support and encouragement. You all are amazing. I am gradually feeling better and happy with my progress. I feel accountable to all of you and I wouldn't want to let you all down. I have resolved to do my part no matter what the odds are confident that God will assist me since it is my desire to please him once again. Let's continue looking out for each. happy weekend to you all . |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 7:25pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Now I know that you (God)are able to do all thingsAnd that nothing you have in mind to do is impossible for you #Scripturalthoughtsfortheday. Job 42:2 |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 12:28am On Dec 18, 2016 |
loyallove: Excellent scripture quote promise...and they're many, many more promises! |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 7:46pm On Dec 18, 2016 |
#Scripturalthougthfortheday Proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in God with all your heart,And do not rely on your own understanding. In all your ways take notice of him,And he will make your paths straight. Don't fight it alone. Involve God and be faithful to him and to yourself. Thanks everyone. I am trying my best not to allow the spirit of complacency to creep in. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 5:28am On Dec 19, 2016 |
It has been a success story since 7 days ago when I made the decision to stop and think about my future. It has been God who keeps giving me the needed help to push on. I want to keep doing what I did this past days or even more in the days and weeks ahead . #scripturalthougthfortoday Proverbs 13:20 The one walking with the wise will become wise,But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by byvan03: 10:09am On Dec 19, 2016 |
You are doing great, keep it up bro. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 11:37am On Dec 20, 2016 |
Good morning everyone. I hope we are doing well. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Opinionated: 12:12pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
loyallove: Find a good girl you like and strive to be a worthy husband for her and get married. You will be leaving your vice to keep someone you love happy, it might just work for you. Go get tasted for STDs though. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Thank you for those pointers. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Its been another week filled with success. All thanks to God who made it possible. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
It can only get better. One lesson I have taken to heart is to pray for the strength to overcome my weaknesses rather than to give in and start asking for forgiveness. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
I have come to see the hands of God in my life. It wouldn't have been possible without God. Thank you God and help me to fight on this year and the years to come. Thank you for not casting me off . Help those wandering and straying away from you to come back to you before it is too late. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 1:17am On Jan 09, 2017 |
loyallove: Awesome brother...new year...Keep holding on to Him... |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by ChessEnthusiast: 7:21am On Jan 09, 2017 |
Guitarlife:You are too intelligent Bro. your points are well articulated. Thank God we still have sensible Nigerians. Nice one. P. S: Check every thread about sleep paralysis and see the way Nigerians attach spiritual meaning to it. As you said, even things that just require common sense, you can trust Nigerians to attach spirituality to them. In your word "Dammit" |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
God's word is alive and exerts power. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by princevinco(m): 9:58pm On Jan 09, 2017 |
I doubt if you sincerely want to be free. If freedom is your desire, the easiest way out is to submit yourself for deliverance. You think you can be free by your will power. It is not possible because the spiritual controls the physical, so what is influencing you is a spirit being but a deliverance minister of God will cast that spirit from you via deliverance ministrations. You need therefore to submit yourself for deliverance. |
Re: Help A Concerned Sex Addict by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 10, 2017 |
Don't judge for you are not God. I may not tell you in details practical steps I have taken to win this battle. One of my favorite passage in the Bible is proverbs 3:5,6 "Trust in God and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways take notice of him and he will make your paths straight." Learn to be kind to everyone you see. Because everyone has a battle he is fighting. princevinco: |
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