Its exactly one month today.
Thank For for giving me the push needed to stop and see the damage I was doing to myself and pains I was causing my loved ones. I have not gotten to where I want to, but I am really happy for the man I am now. Special thanks to all those that believed that the battle can be won. Each day I pray to God to help me to overcome any spirit of complacency and overconfidence. Looking forward to another month of success.

loyallove:
I am not in any relationship presently as I don't i intend to hurt anyone with my lifestyle. I am thinking of settling down as soon as I get over this. I am not acting naive but this is what I have been up to lately. I just have to accept it and fight it.

Get a serious relationship and open up by changing the story. Ur sex habit needs feeding. It won't just die like that , your better half can help you through it. Cos the fear of cheating on her will help u scale through. God will see you through.

Thank you. Just taking it one at a time.

klassic:



Get a serious relationship and open up by changing the story. Ur sex habit needs feeding. It won't just die like that , your better half can help you through it. Cos the fear of cheating on her will help u scale through. God will see you through.

For everyone fighting a battle , just don't give up. Involve God and see things work out.

It has been God. The success is really amazing. Close to two months. I am determined to keep doing my part as I am rest assured that God will always always always do his own.

It is exactly 2 months today. I just want to thank God for the changes I have been able to make so far. It wouldn't have been possible without him. I just want to thank all who were honest and practical. They gave me the needed jolt to fight the weakness. Those overly critical as well because they also inspired me to change too. For any one fighting any battle, don't just give up on yourself. If you try and fail, pick itself up and try again and again. God is seeing your sincere effort and will help you. Its still a work in progress, but I am happy for the kind of man I am today and with God I want this kind of feeling to continue.

Three good months of success. What else can I say. ThankGod for everything.

There is thing am addicted to but there is this gospel song I always play any time I feel it and the title is grace.your Grace shines on me.once I play it everything comes down and I will cry and pray for grace.

loyallove:
Three good months of success. What else can I say. ThankGod for everything.

The Lord is your strength. Keep pushing.

He grants our heart desires (genuine ones)

and remains the rewarder of them that diligently seek Him.

Do not relent!

loyallove:
I can't seems to understand how someone with a sound moral training from a religiously inclined family could start leading a double life that has gotten me hooked with sleeping with prostitutes for the past five years.

Background
It all started when I was in my final year at the university,as a 26 yr virgin I wanted to experiment with sex and since 2011 till date I have not been able to quit no matter how hard I try.
I know about the sad consequencs associated with my promiscuous lifestyle but I still can't get out ofit. Sometimes I just feel like to sleep and never wake again as my life presently has no meaning. My current relocation down to Owerri has not helped matters as I suffered a terrible relapse twice after seven months of total and complete abstainance.
I need help and I need it urgently.

The problem you are having is stopping completely. It's not going to work that was, all addictions is gradually. Cut done to twice a week, then gradually reduced it to twice a month. Everyone need s3x , so trying to stop completely,your are fooling yourself.

dapsonlou:


The problem you are having is stopping completely. It's not going to work that was, all addictions is gradually. Cut done to twice a week, then gradually reduced it to twice a month. Everyone need s3x , so trying to stop completely,your are fooling yourself.

Am sorry but i have to ask what is your basis for such biased assumption that every one needs sex?

do you know that many are out there who have sworn to celibacy? do you know the physical and spiritual union that takes place when you cleave unto another?

The Op's problem is not having to stop sex but he having sex when its right.

please dapsonlou try to search tru the biblical scriptures relating to sex(fornication) then you would understand better that its one of the deadliest sins being committed by you and me.

Meanwhile Op, its nice meeting someone who was in the same shoes as mine, ...pls are u on watsapp lets get chating.

Thank you. Any habit learnt can as well be unlearned. With the right motive and Gods help I am winning this battle.

MummyIMadeIt:


Am sorry but i have to ask what is your basis for such biased assumption that every one needs sex?

do you know that many are out there who have sworn to celibacy? do you know the physical and spiritual union that takes place when you cleave unto another?

The Op's problem is not having to stop sex but he having sex when its right.

please dapsonlou try to search tru the biblical scriptures relating to sex(fornication) then you would understand better that its one of the deadliest sins being committed by you and me.

Meanwhile Op, its nice meeting someone who was in the same shoes as mine, ...pls are u on watsapp lets get chating.

My guy if you are not a Priest and yu are not having Sex then you might be Gay. Sex is the most natural thing, its on the par with food and Water. Life can only be created through Sex.

It has been challenging this few days. But the success I have made and the happiness that it has brought is not something I can just throw away to the wind. Give me a new spirit and a steadfast one.