Out of curiosity, Am on two years of marriage and have friends who insist that it is impossible to keep it in for longer than 5 years... And it got me thinking, I love my wife and wouldn't want to cheat on her.. Please tell me your stories and how should I keep the fire burning

By reading ur bible bro...

Let ur wife become ur best friend. Spend quality time with her than friends who may have nothing meaningful to tell you. Cut-off friends that tells u cheating on ur wife is normal and finally pray to God.

its possible bro... Make her your best friend. You'll see.

Y cheating in the first place when she is readily available to give it to you, even if she is not there, hug Jesus and you will be fine.

Job 31
[1]“I made a covenant with my eyes     not to look with lust at a young woman.

As a married man, you should distant yourself from friends with such mentality.
Did they all forget their wedding vows?, what are they looking for outside that their wives don't possess?.

The poster above me have said it all

Well said herbie27

chris2face:
The poster above me have said it all


Well said herbie.27

Its more than possible. First, dump your negative thinking friends else they will lead you astray.

Next work on your wife. Whatever image you have of the ideal woman, help her achieve that. That way she is always exciting to you.

Above all, commit your marriage to God everyday. He will lead you right.

Am sure u must be a yoruba man

herbie27:
As a married man, you should distant yourself from friends with such mentality.
Did they all forget their wedding vows?, what are they looking for outside that their wives don't possess?.

BigAss

ojun50:
Am sure u must be a yoruba man

far from it. Igbo man

megareal:
Its more than possible. First, dump your negative thinking friends else they will lead you astray.

Next work on your wife. Whatever image you have of the ideal woman, help her achieve that. That way she is always exciting to you.

Above all, commit your marriage to God everyday. He will lead you right.

thanks I appreciate

ststyreal:
Y cheating in the first place when she is readily available to give it to you, even if she is not there, hug Jesus and you will be fine.

insightful

herbie27:
As a married man, you should distant yourself from friends with such mentality.
Did they all forget their wedding vows?, what are they looking for outside that their wives don't possess?.

sometimes u just don't get everything in one package but the truth is you will never get it. You just try to live with thanksgiving