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Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by eyinjuege: 5:53pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Nowhere do I justify infidelity amongst couples please. What you underlined in my previous post is what happens in even those relationships that we assume the respectable men are the best thing to happen since the creation of ice cream. How many well respected men including pastors are discovered to have other wives and children during their burials? And not only men cheat. Women learnt the art of guile and manipulations from infancy while the men are still trying to learn how to kick a ball. Women that cheat go to the grave with their indiscretions. Many men feeling like the real MVPs with their various mistresses don't know that only two out of their four children is theirs. It doesn't make cheating by women right either.. I won't deceive myself that the world is such a perfect place and people don't cheat. When you see a woman truly keeping to her vows, its because she wants to. A man also breaking is vows is because he also wants to. We still have some decent men who keep their vows because it means something to them. 2 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 5:56pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON: As long as she gets a big payout, enough to put a big dent in his pocket and financially set him back for a good number of years (better still if he has to start all over again from scratch), then all's fair & square. 4 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by raumdeuter: 6:01pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Shortyy: She did this because she wanted to and wasnt forced. Every female know what pregnancy and the changes involved is before getting into it And you are not doing your husband a favour by getting pregant you got pregnant because you wanted to and its one of the main things women look forward to from an early age |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by HARDDON: 6:06pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Take a deep breath B. U hurting. There something we shld know? |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by eitsei(m): 6:11pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON:I don't know you also noticed it |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Shortyy(f): 6:12pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
raumdeuter:Wait a fvcking minute, there's no way in hell you'll justify what that side bitchh did or why you as a husband should cheat on your WIFE. No way. She's your wife, you married her to stay with her, and if you are tired of her, tell her it's over, divorce her! Don't subject her to emotional trauma! You are human, I'm sure you have a conscience. 8 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by pocohantas(f): 6:15pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON:Tell me something 7 Likes
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Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Shortyy(f): 6:18pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON:It's not easy for a woman to get into shape after child birth, but they still do it. After they're done with child bearing. But this woman in particular is pregnant. You know that? |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by raumdeuter: 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Shortyy: Do you know how to read? How does my response you quoted relate to wat you are posting I am saying no woman was forced to get pregnant How that now equals justifying what anyone did? I am saying saying a woman got pregnant because she wanted to not because she was forced to |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 6:22pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON: Why would I be hurting? Over what? Only cheating men would find my advice to women at the receiving end (on how about to hit back where it hurts the most), uncomfortable. So do you fall into that category?? 4 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Shortyy(f): 6:27pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
raumdeuter:Soooooooo? If you're a man won't you want your wife to get pregnant? What exactly is your point? That cos she wasn't forced to get pregnant, you can do whatever you like with her feelings?? Wtf? 6 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by raumdeuter: 6:35pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Shortyy: You cant say you got pregnant because of your husband, You got pregnant because you wanted to get pregnant and have children. If you will list out things a woman sacrificed remove the getting pregnant because she wanted it as well |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 6:40pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
eyinjuege: For the record, I don't consider pastors (especially Nigerian "pastors" ) respectable men And not only men cheat. You're going off tangent here. While I don't dispute what you've just typed, I still maintain my stance about the bolded, underlined bits in red of your previous post. The assumptions you made there rankle. To the core. No self-respecting woman should be made to feel such despicable actions from a man are acceptable because cheating exists from time immemorial, neither should she be made to believe such men feel their wives are "important" because they're "discreet". |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Shortyy(f): 6:48pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
raumdeuter:My dear boy, there are other things I listed there. You're the one who's taking the pregnant part so personal and I don't know why. Besides that's not the main reason I posted this, we're talking about a cheating husband and a side Chic. OK? If you're one of them, you need to think about your actions. Sit down in a very quiet place and think about your actions.. Happy new year in advance. |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by eyinjuege: 6:55pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: They are not assumptions. That's the reality for a lot of relationships. Men that don't want to lose their marriage and still want to cheat don't allow their mistresses access to their wives. Women that equally have extras by the side make sure their lovers don't have access to their husbands. I NEVER said it was acceptable, I never said it was justifiable, I never said men or women should tolerate unfaithful partners if they KNOW about it. No where did I imply that. Because I cited such cases doesn't mean I'm justifying it or think its right. Its just what happens in the real world and not an ideal world. Any mistress who confronts a wife does so with the support of the man. That's my belief. Which is what started this whole discourse of ours. Mistresses that don't confront the wife at home don't because the men never encouraged it. 3 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Berbierklaus(f): 7:15pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
ITbomb:Funny enough,that could be a lie the man made up for the sidechick. I've had married men tell some very funny lies to me about their wives too,just to hit the jackpot Besides what stops him from helping his wife change if it was true? It's never the fault of the wife trust me. Some men are just unrepentable dogs 3 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Nobody: 7:21pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
PaperLace: Not just any man, but one who's made it clear he relapses into lunacy every five minutes. Surely we are to disregard the words of such a man in the same manner we'd disregard a born-blind person's description of colours. No? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Nobody: 7:51pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: You misunderstand. She never justified philandering, and only gave an exposé on the nature of relationship between many married men and their side chicks, as it relates to their spouse (wife). Stating a stark reality doesn't translate to one abetting it. |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by HARDDON: 7:55pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: If only u know...... Bin trying for us to look @ this objectively but u blowing ur top like some gurl that has caught her guy in sexy steamy romps . My lyrical quill i hereby retire early |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by HARDDON: 8:04pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Shortyy: Majority dont. It cause heated arguments , Tell her Guy: bae, come let work out, and she goes : what time is it? Im tired, and watch her come @ u later on: im i fat? ( why do i need to ansa that? Like u dont know? Arrrtrthhhh) : Guy: no u aint Bae, i just want u fit Her: so u no more find me attractive? HUh? Arrrhhh Yea, . I know she is preggy n thAt side chick wud hv have her day worse. |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Nobody: 8:10pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
I wouldn't blame the side chick but the man. |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by cococandy(f): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
If the man wasn't telling her his wife smells like urine to boost her ego and give her morale, they wouldn't be having that conversation. Place the blame where it belongs. Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by zeb04(f): 8:41pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
why do women take this kind of embarrassment,to save a marriage?where is the marriage 5 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by carammel(f): 8:41pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
I can only imagine if the reverse was the case here,the cheating wife told her side guy her husband snores like a pig and he also has a small dik. Husband:leave Sarah alone,she's very married Side guy :I'm enjoying her and she gives me every style I want. she told me you smell like urine,snore like a pig and have small dik. We know what will happen next in that marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by crackhaus: 8:52pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON: 1 Like |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by bukatyne(f): 9:03pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
@OP: What's the moral of the thread? |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Acidosis(m): 9:23pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
cococandy: The blames belong to the dog, but the beatings belong to the side chick. Let any side chick say such to my sister, I will personally handle the beating... |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by chillis1: 9:26pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Nigerian men and women disgracing themselves since time immemorial. Imagine claiming and fighting for the pig of a man. I don't even know what they are fighting for. Not that they will gain any thing from the man except food. Even if the man dies from his randy behavior, his family takes over everything. Throw you out to fend for yourself. Rather than wait for that, why not start fending for yourself and let the dog roam around as he likes. This is the only life you got , you don't have to wait till you are 60 yrs to enjoy it. Anyway, that's all the life they know. Ignorance !!!! 4 Likes |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by Acidosis(m): 9:34pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
eyinjuege: The fault belongs to the husband as the beating is to the side chick. They both deserve to be served. |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 9:45pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Acidosis: Tell me something. If I leave the doors of my house unsecured and wide open, and a thief walks in, who should take the blame if I'm robbed? Apply the same analogy here. There wouldn't even be a side chick in the first place if the so called dog of a man hadn't condoned the affair in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 9:46pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Acidosis: And who should carry out the beatings? The wife?? 1 Like |
Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by EfemenaXY: 9:50pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
HARDDON: Really? And would you have the same opinion if I'd said she should fast & pray? Why does my advocating a hard punishment that would wreck the man financially + make him lose his marriage perturb you this much?? 2 Likes |
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