I am an ardent believer of one man, one woman. No sex before marriage. I also dream of meeting a queen who has kept herself like I have been doing. This has kept me through my secondary , university and my initial work experience days in Nigeria. Now I am in Europe to study for two years and the terrain was quiete difficut. With my body giving me signal that it is time to taste my first sex, the half nudity dressing by my white female colleagues, the socialization trend and freedom of relationship here in europe, the seemingly invitation from all my admirers(female) and the urge to know how the first sex will look like, the curiosity too is making my resistance to temptation running low. Please what kind I do to aid my resitance? I really want to be unscathed during my stay in europe. I know must not fail, I must not messed up, i must not disappoint God who brought me to europe on scholarships. Then there is this body pressure and invitation to eat, , Please what can I do to resist more?

Pray and associate yourself with fellow like minded indivduals


Keep yourself extremely busy, idle mind produces idle thoughts.

Be real to yourself,

Pray, becareful and don't stay idle cuz the idle mind is the devil's workshop .

If your eyes make you sin pluck it out

just believe in what you believe in and dont be moved

The Devil is a liar. ok?

stay off NairaLand completely.

It is well with you my brother.

I really want you to know that you are not alone in the fight for a pure sexual life,there are many young men out their doing same as you.

One of the greatest weapon that the devil uses in Fornication battle is ISOLATION, try as much as possible to be ACCOUNTABLE to people of like mind,it may be born again brothers, or pastor of your church etc.

Also never get casual at watching soft porn or nude pictures.

Above all always remember how sweet the story will be if you can keep it till your wedding nite,i can tell you that glory is far greater than the current temptation.

I will remember you in prayers, Its well with you.

I really thank you all for all these great contributions. You spured me on. The good God blesses you all. Thanks meine, plantinumk,secetz,galatico,yme and the rest. Keep doing the good work you know how to do most. you are sowing a seed that spurs others going even on nairaland. kudos, my regards

Go for it!

You only live once.

Don't mind me oh! I'm actually quite impressed that there are guys like you out there. Stay Strong. . .remember, your virgin wife is counting on you.

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jojohnson:

I am an ardent believer of one man, one woman. No sex before marriage. I also dream of meeting a queen who has kept herself like I have been doing. This has kept me through my secondary , university and my initial work experience days in Nigeria. Now I am in Europe to study for two years and the terrain was quiete difficut. With my body giving me signal that it is time to taste my first sex, the half nudity dressing by my white female colleagues, the socialization trend and freedom of relationship here in europe, the seemingly invitation from all my admirers(female) and the urge to know how the first sex will look like, the curiosity too is making my resistance to temptation running low. Please what kind I do to aid my resitance? I really want to be unscathed during my stay in europe. I know must not fail, I must not messed up, i must not disappoint God who brought me to europe on scholarships. Then there is this body pressure and invitation to eat, , Please what can I do to resist more?

^^ where exactly are you going to find a woman in Nigeria your age whom you are attracted to, that kept her virginity if you can tell me that then i give you good advice

@Poster,
You're a strong guy. Stick to what you believe in.

[b]I am an ardent believer of one man, one woman. No sex before marriage. I also dream of meeting a queen who has kept herself like I have been doing. This has kept me through my secondary , university and my initial work experience days in Nigeria. Now I am in Europe to study for two years and the terrain was quiete difficut. With my body giving me signal that it is time to taste my first sex, the half nudity dressing by my white female colleagues, the socialization trend and freedom of relationship here in europe, the seemingly invitation from all my admirers(female) and the urge to know how the first sex will look like, the curiosity too is making my resistance to temptation running low. Please what kind I do to aid my resitance? I really want to be unscathed during my stay in europe. I know must not fail, I must not messed up, i must not disappoint God who brought me to europe on scholarships. Then there is this body pressure and invitation to eat, , Please what can I do to resist more?[/b]

i like ur grammar mr. virgin

dont allow the devil use some minutes of adventure mar a great and wonderful future God has for you. you have waited and God will settle you in due time dont be in a hurry. it is well

stay away from NairaLand, i have warned you.

just remember the story of adam and eve in the bible. i beleive u know what happened. the arden of eden can be likened to ur stay in europe. if any eve comes into the picture u might likely be sent out of europe o. beware. read ur bible and concentrate on wat u went there to do.

walakolobo:

stay away from NairaLand, i have warned you.

^^i learnt a number of innocent guys have been disvirgined on NL, especially this board.

How have you kept yourself all this while? keep doing it. The steadfastness of the Lord never ceases, His mercy never come to an end, they are new every morning. Avail yourself of constant reading and meditating on the word of God because it is the seed in you that can keep you from straying away. I think this is just the solution to your problem.

Who knows if you yield to what your body is suggesting, then the next thread will be titled: 'What do I do, I did it at first attempt and now she's pregnant". God forbid, its not your portion - Claim it but check the thoughts that run through your heart.

you heard all you need to from fellow NL while you strive to keep yourself the best way to do it is to be busy with thing that will help you keep you dignity. the ppeople to move with, places you go and be concern with thing on the positive end rather than the pull by those things that would make you compromise your standard

Praise the Lord, satan is a liar!

The short answer to your question is this; At the time of temptation, remember that God is everywhere and is watching you. The Angels are there too waiting for you to make a decision (yes, you have the will to make a decision), and the Angels are hoping that you will make the right decision.

Satan works best when we rely solely on our strength and understanding. Man simply cannot match the wisdom of satan, but by relying on God for strength and wisdom, we shall always overcome satan's temptations. Sexual pervasion ranks high among satan's tools because most of us only think of ourselves when it comes to sexual matters, acts with only our understanding, and end up losing-out to satan.

My brother, on behalf of those of us that lacked wisdom at the time of temptation and lost-out satan, remember that God is everywhere, the Angels are watching over you, and you have nothing to gain by disappointing them.

May your life be blessed forever and ever Amen.

Poster

You know say you dey for oyibo land, they'll laugh you out of there if they knew you're still a virgin.

Great appreciation to you all. Thanks for having my interest at heart. The good God be with you all and grant u all your heart desires. I am holding on and I wont let my down my guard. Love you all. My humbe and most sincere regards.

@ Poster. I want to come to TUDEFT but I heard its not a friendly school for African. Can you do me a personal mail with details of your experience and how to cope as African in TUDEFT. My email is yele_losotu@yahoo.com. Please I will count on you for first hand info and experience.

@Jojohnson

Keep it up. I had the same dream as you growing up, but lost it due to strong temptation that i INTENTIONALLY yielded to.
Yes, i said intentionally because, any sin you yield to, you do knowingly.

As for sex, dnt let it bother you, it's over rated seriously!!!!! No matter how it's presented to you(Oral, anal or core sex) it's still the same thing - few seconds of Orgasm/climaxing, you groan, feel a sweet sensation and that's it!!, end oo!!! finish!! Nothing special!!

So sincerely there's nothing so so so worth the hype it's getting in the media all over, just the devils tool
As some pple have advised, keep yourself and save it to your marriage day.

NOTE: You might not get a virgin wife, but don't let that deter you, you just do your part so you carry that grace into your marriage.


Hope this helps you or othr pple strugglign like you that will stumble upon this post.  

U CAN USE UR HAND, at least its not called SEX, its playing with ur privates,

OMO, use Pears baby oil, vaseline can be very rough on that sack, LOL!!!!!

@
ALXMYR,
Tudelft is a great school and is friendly to Africans though we are scarcely represented. The only problem is that most Africans dont have foundation and Tudelft is practical oriented. Academics standard is too high also. grade of 0-59% is fail. you have to have a minimum of 60% in all your courses and write exams four times a year, meaning we have four quaters in a year with each culminating in exams. their master programms is two years also. One year compacted with taught courses, the second year dedicated for your thesis. The good news is that Tudelft is industrially linked. Just this week alone companies like statoil, Maersk, Wintershall, have come to recruit graduates, next week is dedicated for BP, and early next year, chevron, shell , schl, mobil are comming. Undermiding the fact that i am just starting, i was called for the interview too. The point i am making is that Tudelft is a great school but you have to be hardworking to pass. Imagine 60% passmark is not easy, imagine thats grade B in Nigeria. You are welcome man. you have made a better choice if you come. their logo, challenge the future. You will have chance to go to spain, belgium, germany, even canada and many industries for practicals depending on your faculty.

@Op, I studied at TUDelft, and I never saw any half naked chicks so I think they are just in your imagination.

Good luck in finding a virgin there,

Or try the Delft RCCG.

You better Study in spacebox, go and graduate and get your MSc

Instead you dey hia dey post about virgin on NL

We suppose make new naija movie starring Ramsey Noah

"Virgin Hunter 2: The search for Hidden Treasure"

@
Wavemasta,
Thanks all the same beloved. I have got what I needed from all the postive reponses and yours inclusive too. Dont get me wrong, i didnt not say i am looking for a wife or virgin at delft. I have come to study and my intention is to face it and serve God too. I just expressed a cry. We are diffrent you know. Some people like you are strong, you might not need other people counsel. But you are not me and i dont intend to be pretend i am strong when i am actually get weaken. So many factors were highlighted and you would have at least counsel to keep the person going. Only fools are wise in their eyes. And i dont intend to be. Thanks all the same. I hope you are standing.

Ol boi, we all feel the aggro, lol, I just dey yab you small.
I hope the studies aren't challenging, if you need any help just holla,
Cheers.

glad I'm not a naija male.

^^i learnt a number of innocent guys have been disvirgined on NL, especially this board.

really