Which has the worst mental effect on a hypothetical Lady of the given age bracket
What is the worst case scenario of these for a 30 - 35year old lady.
Arrange from worst to most preferred.

1. Single (Never married)
2. Single (Divorced)
3. Single (Widowed)
4. Single (Very Independent, Never Married)
5. Married With Kids (lacks freedom and Unhappy, 7yrs min)
6. Married (Without Kids of her own yet, 7yrs min)
7. Married (With Kids, Spouse Abroad)
8. Married (No Kids, Spouse Abroad)
9. Married (to Poor Spouse, 2kids)
10. Married (Maltreated and Abused, Unhappy, With Kids)
11. Married (Maltreated and Abused, Unhappy, No Kids)
12. Married (With Kids, Widowed)

Arrange your preference from worst case to manageable case for this lady.
Ongoing Study.

for example this is how i will arrange mine

1. Single (Never married)
8. Married (No Kids, Spouse Abroad)
4. Single (Very Independent, Never Married)


2. Single (Divorced)
3. Single (Widowed)
11. Married (Maltreated and Abused, Unhappy, No Kids)


6. Married (Without Kids of her own yet, 7yrs min)


10. Married (Maltreated and Abused, Unhappy, With Kids)
9. Married (to Poor Spouse, 2kids)


12. Married (With Kids, Widowed)
5. Married With Kids (lacks freedom and Unhappy, 7yrs min)
7. Married (With Kids, Spouse Abroad)


In my mindseye, as long you've achived married status and you've gotten kids of your own,you would always be better off than a Single Umarried lady..


So ladies looking for the perfect guy before they would settle down could as well be wasting time.
get married to that guy and have kids (they are true source of happiness and Joy) all would work out in the future, it almost always does.

None,or are you praying for any ni?
Abi which kian thing be this?

queenitee:
None,or are you praying for any ni?
Abi which kian thing be this?

I taya oo...


.y d negativity?

Married With Kids, Financially Ok, Ma Spouse, Kids And I Stayin Abroad And Live Happily Eva Afta...

You think I'm praying for this.. Hmmm
I am wondering at what early age should a lady start considering marriage as late for her giving the type of men coming her way. At what point could she settle for whatever..

There are lots of unmarried single aged ladies out there.. I'm wondering at what point did they really miss their last best chance at a marriage happy or not happy..

I'm thinking also is it better Single till 40 or married with kids and Unhappy at 35.. which is better
That is the aim of the exercise..

Please Share your thoughts.

any thoughts

dis one Na Dirge /Elegy