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Helpful Tips Every Shy Guy/girl Can Use To Win A Crush Over by schoolmattazz: 3:50pm On Jan 05, 2017
One of the major disadvantages of being an introvert is how hard it can get to gain the attention of your crush. Not to say it is impossible, it just means you have to work a little bit harder at it than extroverted people would, which can be a little tricky. But don’t worry, you will get there.

The key is to use your introverted mind to your advantage. Take a look at these useful tips for any introvert who wants to chat with their crush.

Think Of Topics Beforehand
If you know you’re going to be hanging with your crush, think of a few topics in your head to bring up if it ever gets a little ~awkward.~ Have a few questions ready if you ever feel a lull in the conversation coming on. Ask them what their favourite song is or if they have any pets. It will open up more convo topics and you’ll be chatting for hours!

2. Make Eye Contact

Eye contact is important when you’re talking to anyone, and it really does make a difference. It shows your crush that you really are paying attention to them when they speak, as opposed to just looking at your feet or your hands. You will get used to it!

3. Listen!

A good thing about being an introvert is the fact that you are a great listener. Use this to your advantage! You are observant, which is a really good quality in a person. Try and listen to them talk and engage in conversation. You will be able to learn a lot about each other!

4. Remember To Relax

Sometimes, it can get really overwhelming to talk to anyone, let alone your crush. Try and remember that they are just people, and it’s okay to get a little nervous, but don’t let it freak you out!

5. Tell Your Crush You’re An Introvert

This might not work for everyone, but if you come right out and say that you are an introvert when you are talking to your crush, it might help them get to understand you and the way you act better. This way, they won’t take it personally if you seem a little uncomfortable or unsure of yourself. It’s a good way to break the ice.

6. BE YOURSELF

It sounds cliché, but I’m serious: don’t try and act like someone you’re not! It will just make it harder for you and your crush to get to know each other. You want your crush to like you for YOU, not someone you’re pretending to be.

http://www.schoolmattazz.com/introvert-talk-to-crush/

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Re: Helpful Tips Every Shy Guy/girl Can Use To Win A Crush Over by Holuu(m): 3:58pm On Jan 05, 2017
FTC...All Contributions Will Be Delivered By That Person Below Me.
Re: Helpful Tips Every Shy Guy/girl Can Use To Win A Crush Over by Miichael(m): 4:07pm On Jan 05, 2017
Ok
Re: Helpful Tips Every Shy Guy/girl Can Use To Win A Crush Over by DEIFIED(m): 4:16pm On Jan 05, 2017
nice tips, dont people know this already.
Re: Helpful Tips Every Shy Guy/girl Can Use To Win A Crush Over by JudgementHammer: 4:50pm On Jan 05, 2017
Ive never seen a shy girl before. Its those who ignore men's advances as thier style of rudeness that i know.

Then when the man is gone, they'll yab the living daylight out of him.

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