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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by M2dX(m): 7:20am On Jan 20, 2017
NONNNSENSE
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Heineken(m): 7:28am On Jan 20, 2017
ritababe:


lol, you are not staying with him na are you? is not by force you must visit him na, stay in your house my dear if he want to visit he can come when your mom or dad is around.
ritababe Hmmmm

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by ritababe(f): 7:31am On Jan 20, 2017
Heineken:
ritababe Hmmmm
wat?
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by bitchcrafts: 7:32am On Jan 20, 2017
Stop forcing it. Ya fukxed already, just Enjoy your sex!
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Heineken(m): 7:36am On Jan 20, 2017
ritababe:

wat?
lol. You're looking good dear. Have a splendid day ahead

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by ChiChilolo(f): 8:44am On Jan 20, 2017
logicmafia96:
I had that problem with a guy once and that was because l loved having sex with him I also hated myself after because I felt used and I knew it was wrong plus he was more into the physical part of the relationship than the emotional part.
So just talk to him about it , that's the best wat out if u love him find a solution together for both of you to be happy.
Happiness is the goal

I can relate to this my dear.
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by ChiChilolo(f): 8:45am On Jan 20, 2017
WriteousDavid:
it's not him that u really hate, it's sex and that u do what u said u won't do again that u really hate.

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by ChiChilolo(f): 8:48am On Jan 20, 2017
Igbos:


Its a psychological problem....
You feel used.


You once had a bad sexperience (rape) (molestation) (abuse)

You feel like you have sinned.(and he's the cause)

..

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by OlympianZeus(m): 8:55am On Jan 20, 2017
CorGier:
See bad belles dey advice the babe to leave her bf. One even dey blame the guy, say him do wetin?

Chi, u better work on ur mindset and outgrow this your good girl attitude. It's obvious you fancy dis guy and in the moment you both enjoy the sex. Tell him I said what you need after care. He should pull you close after sex, pet your face or smtn, reassure you of his love and commitment, etc.

You don't hate him and no he did not "use" you, it's just the guilt. So like I said, aftercare.

On point

Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by DeLioncourt: 10:13am On Jan 20, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

OP, is he your first?
or does he hold any powerful significance to you?

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Dnockeror333(m): 11:48am On Aug 28, 2017
ChiChilolo:


I've tried to stop having sex with him but whenever we're together. I don't know how I just fall for him and before you know it we're pulling the sheets.

I don't really know how to end it then I resent him afterwards.

Me think god of evil machination is involve in this evil affair of evil fornication.

Jet out to a better Jesu, who put better life in lifelessness and add better fogiveness to sin and tell you, "go and show it to the better nations what I have don for you!"

Hope? Its great thing to hope for!

Will you seal up your sin with the Everlasting Blood, now?

Call me if you wish...
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by fixzylani: 2:16pm On Aug 28, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

Someone wrote the same thing here. Check


"Don’t get me wrong. It’s not that I don’t want you. It’s just that all we do now is have sex. I don’t mind it, because it’s always nice. But I miss you. I miss talking to you. I miss laughing with you. I miss discovering and doing new things with you.

We promised each other that we wouldn’t be just about sex. We talked about life and love and we made future plans. We used to go out a lot; to new places, to old haunts, to friends’ houses, to church even. But all of that has changed now. When you see me, you want to grope me. I’m trying to make conversation and you’re trying to kiss me. I’m trying to avoid your lips and you’re squeezing my breasts – my traitor breasts. You know that once you touch them, I can barely resist, and you use this to your advantage. Every. Single. Time.

I know it means that you love my body. You say it all the time. And honestly, I’m flattered. But I want you to want me for more than my body. I don’t want to become just a physical distraction. I want to be someone you share your life with, not just your body. I want you to pour your heart out to me, not just your seed. I want to mean more to you than a warm bed." Read more

http://thenakedconvos.com/dear-boyfriend-i-dont-want-sex-anymore/
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 28, 2017
Op stop placing yourself in a tight spot, where he would have sexx with u anytime he feels like. At the end, such relationship crumbles when hes no longer intrigued with your pusssyyy.
Cos thats all he wants.

Be protective.
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Venica(f): 5:14pm On Aug 28, 2017
ChiChilolo:


I've tried to stop having sex with him but whenever we're together. I don't know how I just fall for him and before you know it we're pulling the sheets.

I don't really know how to end it then I resent him afterwards.


I understand you. I feel like that too.
it's caused by the fear of God in u.
I kept getting off and on with my bf then. until I told him that if we can't be without pulling the sheets we should as well off the light. I know it was not easy but I overcame by the grace of God. I have since stay off relationships but am very much happy now. no more feelings of guilt and the fear of breaking God's word. may God help you out.

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by xxmoney15(m): 5:42pm On Aug 28, 2017
It means ur not use to it yet. However, I'll advice u quit because it's a SIN. I'm sure he doesn't want to marry u even

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by harbjar(m): 11:07pm On Aug 28, 2017
ChiChilolo:


Something like that. I grew up in a very religious background.
Break up...
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by vislabraye(m): 11:30pm On Aug 28, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

you keep having sex with him, then hating him after the act
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by khiaa(f): 12:01am On Aug 29, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

Maybe it's because you feel dirty and used afterwards.
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by coolh3ad(m): 1:00am On Aug 29, 2017
This babe is suffering from serious confusion.....
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Jadoskii(m): 1:26am On Aug 29, 2017
nikkypearl:
Stop having sex with him...







#teamvirgin# embarassed
I know u mean virgin Atlantic airline..next tym don't just type teamvirgin ,add Atlantic airline too so dat u dnt confuse Ur fwends..
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Jadoskii(m): 1:30am On Aug 29, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.
hmmm...my sista az an expert in diz area uve shown symptoms of acute CCD(CORrK CRAVING DISORDER)...limit Ur intake to just oral (3 times daily) then u withdraw as each day goes(withdrawal method).
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Frankicent(m): 3:51am On Aug 29, 2017
ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

Hmm he's probably doing something you hate... solution: change dick just pm am serious... will explain more.
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by dabis201(m): 6:23pm On Aug 29, 2017
i think this is your best option.
peter0071:
It is a mindset that you need to work on. i was once like that. i had to start relating with the opposite sex differently and start creating a special place in my heart for that special one
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by donMIG(m): 7:34pm On Aug 29, 2017
Eyah....maybe he has a large casava or isnt just romantic...oooor probablya one minute man...hhahahah....next tym stab him after sex!
Only guys most tym get dat feelin...like myself i dont ever hate my girl after sex
I help her get dressed she does same 2 me....afterwards i kiss her on her 4head
Tell her i luv her
If he does dis i c no reason y u wld hate him ....correct me if i am wrong plsss
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by oilcity(m): 8:25pm On Aug 29, 2017
D truth is dat u r fighting ur conscience. dats where d hate comes from. Chat me up lets talk. Av seen cases like dis before

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Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by SmellingAnus(m): 8:26pm On Aug 29, 2017
ChiChilolo:


I've tried to stop having sex with him but whenever we're together. I don't know how I just fall for him and before you know it we're pulling the sheets.

I don't really know how to end it then I resent him afterwards.
I have being in the shoes of this your guy years ago.... She gets very upset after sex ( she regrets after sex)... But she finds me unavoidable, we had a great chemistry and we end up reaching climax almost at the same time most of the time... I loved that babe very well... Infact I could see a naked girl and not get turned on but her phone call alone has made me erect at least once... Well, she broke my heart and after some years she decided to come back but it was too late cos my heart seemed to have long moved on although if I give her a chance we could still rekindle it but it can never be the same again. She also confessed to me that she finds me irresistible and that I am the best of all the guys she dated... I had to tell you all this so that you can probably learn from it... True life story..
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by dollytino4real(f): 8:49pm On Aug 29, 2017
what u dont want,u dont watch. fork u dont like,u dont fork. so stay ur own he is not twin
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by joinnow: 9:21pm On Aug 29, 2017
Op your type is like those girl that wear tight, short and jean trouser b4 visiting.Already you have make up your mind that nothing will happen but when you visit you will still be the one to use your hands remove jean,short,tight every thing including kata.
You need deliverance from the sin of fornication.
grin
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by Prec1ous(m): 11:15pm On Aug 29, 2017
Crap.

I am yet to see a girl feel guilty after sex with a big spender or rich guy.

The problem is that, you feel you are giving too much into the relationship in form of sex and you are not benefiting anything else except sperms.

The other reason is religion and this is bullshit, so we are still left with the problem above.

Solution, leave him and find the guy who can pay your pussy worth.
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by uzoormah(m): 12:11am On Aug 30, 2017
ChiChilolo:


I'm not staying with him, I have a roommate and live off campus

Why dont u leave sex and face ur studies. i kw ur result must be poor i guess or u probably copy in d exam hall..leave all dz tinz it wnt help u
Re: Anytime I Have Sex With My Bf I Just Hate Him Afterwards by ordainbuzz(m): 11:56pm On Aug 11, 2018
Prec1ous:
Crap.

I am yet to see a girl feel guilty after sex with a big spender or rich guy.

The problem is that, you feel you are giving too much into the relationship in form of sex and you are not benefiting anything else except sperms.

The other reason is religion and this is bullshit, so we are still left with the problem above.

Solution, leave him and find the guy who can pay your pussy worth.
u said it bro,no mind all dis special advisers and special assistant for nairaland

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