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Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 8:26am On Nov 27, 2009
I was just wondering why most nigerian babes are too reserved when it comes to sexuality. Just start a discussion about sex with a girl dats not ur G.F and u'll notice she'll just start getting uncomfortable with it. I'm not generalizing here but I must tell you dat most girls I've tried it with reacted the same way. I'm not alone on this view,most guys even fellow ladies think so. That doesnt mean dat they r not sexually active, but men I think dat behaviour's way ton crude, even when you admire some by telling them they gat those curves n sometimes even lookin at them on those areas sends them into uncomfortability. You might even notice this in ur relationships. I dont knw ur views on this observation of mine but pls tell our ladies to come out of their shells.!!!
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by sjeezy8: 8:38am On Nov 27, 2009
Naija babes = TOO easy cool they just like to put on. lmfao
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by fulldepth(m): 8:47am On Nov 27, 2009
how u go feel if babe wey u no know b4 just tell u say 'BROS, i LIKE UR PENIS OOO, IT TURNS ME ON'
answer now !!!
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 9:16am On Nov 27, 2009
@full_depth. Hw many ladies u don see 4 street com tell am"I love ur boobs". Think b4 u write man.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by ZiggyHimself(m): 10:24am On Nov 27, 2009
So many views. Yet few reply. I think the ladies are bein "reserved" on this. It true dat d truth hurts.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by posakosa(m): 10:49am On Nov 27, 2009
Its cultural.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by sistajay(f): 10:56am On Nov 27, 2009
Reserved wetin? . . . . . . . . . .C'mon lets talk about SEX!! Im opened minded, no off limits for here. cool
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 1:27pm On Nov 27, 2009
@sista-jay
i know just a few hv ovagrown dat attitude . I think it'll be attached 2 maturity n exposure. For others dat r "WELL BROUGHT UP",they always try 2 avoid issues on sexuality, Meet a girl frm some african countries like south africa n do comparisons,u understand wot i mean, U dont hav 2 b promiscous, Ladies where r u @? I jst want 2 knw y.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 1:46pm On Nov 27, 2009
@posakosa. I dont fink its cultural. Culture changes bro, This is 2009. Our ladies r supposd 2 be more sophiscated than their mums.lol
@ziggyhimself
yeah d truth rily hurts man,
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by MissyB1(m): 2:00pm On Nov 27, 2009
Pay us no mind Jare.
Some of us were ''Well brought up'' (as You put it).
Family and culture have taught us to be Ladies and allow
'Bedroom matters' be discussed in the bedroom only.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 2:03pm On Nov 27, 2009
no mind them, na to do amebo and chop isi ewu dem sabi, time to yash reachdem go wan form papiwater.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 3:55pm On Nov 27, 2009
@missy b
i dont think there's any culture dats against a decent mature discussion about sexuality btw 2 adults.
Most babes wont even appreciate a compliment with d eye or words based on their natural features. Very few babes feel free 2 express their sexual desires to their guys talk more of dirty talkin durin sex or even simple allowin those pleasure moans go thru their 'stiff' mouths durn sex. Abeg na only me dey observe these?
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by yme1(f): 3:58pm On Nov 27, 2009
if you are talking about the naija babe living in naija
yes they are too secretive when it comes to sex that is the reason some of them suck in bed undecided
well they are not to be blamed,instead the africa continent is to be held responsible
cause they think sex is just an act to be done and talked secretly
tho that contributed that made someof we naija babes a good wife material tho grin
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Igwe9(m): 3:59pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

if you are talking about the naija babe living in naija
yes they are too secretive when it comes to sex that is the reason some of them suck in bed undecided
well they are not to be blamed,instead the africa continent is to be held responsible
cause they think sex is just an act to be done and talked secretly
ah ah! you're alive? smiley
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by yme1(f): 4:00pm On Nov 27, 2009
Igwe.:

ah ah! you're alive? smiley
my loff, i never knew you wished me dead cry cry
am okay dear and you?
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:03pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

my loff, i never knew you wished me dead cry cry
am okay dear and you?

abeg this link is not a place to exchange pleasantries so make una no just start.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Igwe9(m): 4:03pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

my loff, i never knew you wished me dead cry cry
am okay dear and you?
lol, you know i wouldn't do such a thing, btw, I'm doing great.
did u get my mail?
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by yme1(f): 4:05pm On Nov 27, 2009
scemchee:

abeg this link is not a place to exchange pleasantries so make una no just start.
do i sense jealousy here tongue cheesy

Igwe.:

lol, you know i wouldn't do such a thing, btw, I'm doing great.
did u get my mail?

nope baby i didnt, will check it out lerra tho maybe i jumped and passed it grin
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:08pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

do i sense jealousy here tongue cheesy

not in ur life time or with that face that looks lk Adamma masquerade. not my portion. grin
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by yme1(f): 4:08pm On Nov 27, 2009
i hear you, then just let me be dear
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Igwe9(m): 4:10pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

nope baby i didnt, will check it out lerra tho maybe i jumped and passed it grin
hehehe, didn't know you are good at long jump. smiley
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:14pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

i hear you, then just let me be dear

am not ur dear, look for them where you kept them.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by yme1(f): 4:15pm On Nov 27, 2009
scemchee:

am not your dear, look for them where you kept them.
oopssssssssssi think i just clicked on my ignore botton
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Secretz(f): 4:19pm On Nov 27, 2009
some actually do feel uncomfortable, some were raised not to discuss such topics with those who are not long term bfs or husbands, some dey form  . . . there are many reasons. reh reh reh.

But OP, if a woman openly discussed such with you and she wasnt your girl, what would you HONESTLY think of her?  undecided
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by platinumnk(f): 4:20pm On Nov 27, 2009
Secretz:

some actually do feel uncomfortable, some were raised not to discuss such topics with those who are not long term bfs or husbands, some dey form . . . there are many reasons. reh reh reh.

But OP, if a woman openly discussed such with you and she wasnt your girl, what would you HONESTLY think of her? undecided


if we open our mouth we now ashewo .


hmmmmm . . .
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:21pm On Nov 27, 2009
y me:

oopssssssssssi think i just clicked on my ignore botton
honestly hopes so.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Igwe9(m): 4:22pm On Nov 27, 2009
scemchee:

honestly hopes so.
oga, kedu?
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:29pm On Nov 27, 2009
Igwe.:

oga, kedu?

see this funny fellow oooooooooo, if you see ur oga will you recognize him. Abeg oooooo.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by Igwe9(m): 4:45pm On Nov 27, 2009
scemchee:

see this funny fellow oooooooooo, if you see your oga will you recognize him. Abeg oooooo.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2009
@y me
i dont believe its an african thing.Exposed babes from South african n east african countries r not lyk dat n It doesnt mean dat they r more sexually exposed or active than our naija babes here. Being less rigid on sexuality doesnt make one not a gudwife @ least i knw most guys wont go 4 a wife dats stiff on issues lyk this cos they r likely 2 b also stiff on bed.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by scemchee(m): 4:52pm On Nov 27, 2009
marocguy:

@ least i knw most guys wont go 4 a wife dats stiff on issues lyk this cos they r likely 2 b also stiff on bed.

no be lie.
Re: Why Are Most Nigerian Ladies Too Reserved by marocguy(m): 4:58pm On Nov 27, 2009
@secretz
if i meet dat kind of girl, i would take her 2 b a mature one. This issue of being brought up not 2 discus issues on sex wit people drives me mad. Most of those babes that pretend not 2, turn out 2 b d wild promiscous type.

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