sweetpie23:

the real reason  black men date white women is because they are easy, cheap and goes with anything as compared to black women. no matter how ugly black woman is, she value herself. she doesn't just throw her self cheaply at guys, we know what we want, that is why a lot of people called black women loud and strong. we are not loud, we just know what we want and men do not take us for a bow ride, as a result, black men have look for at alternative, white women give them sex easily, and as we all know our black men like to act like GOD they like to be in control, and white women are easily control. poster I think you may like to take some note down

THE-AMAKA:

attack of the white girls in this thread!!
oyinbo pepe!!!

bufflevy:

the real reason black men date white women is because they are easy, cheap and goes with anything as compared to black women. no matter how ugly black woman is, she value herself. she doesn't just throw her self cheaply at guys, we know what we want, that is why a lot of people called black women loud and strong. we are not loud, we just know what we want and men do not take us for a bow ride, as a result, black men have look for at alternative, white women give them sex easily, and as we all know our black men like to act like GOD they like to be in control, and white women are easily control. poster I think you may like to take some note down

yeah right,dont decieve your self nene like black women are queen of virtue and all bull shit.The difference between blacks(especially naija) and white girl when you talk of sex is that blacks dont give sex for the sake of pleasure or love white girls ,they believe it is their bargaining power and they must be something to gain something first .And most of the time ,it isnt love so don't start getting all worked up about virtue and shit.Naija girls are as loose and as can do even nastier things to men in the bedroom, if there are mostly financial or some other material benefits .its very rare to see a naija girl give it up for just love ,it happens but it is rare and so pls tell me who is worse , girl who give it for love or girl who give it up for money or connection/prestige etc.White women on the other hand like women of all races have the tendency to be materialistic,I agree but not as much as black (naija) women.

that was not my post u were responding to.

giddysgold:

My point exactly. This is an AMERICAN issue. Most african women are NOT single. Most african men marry african women. It's akata men that are running off to oyinbo.

hmmmm,

shred of truth,  but what about the naija men who leave wife and kids back home to travel abroad to london, or US and come back with another wife or don't come back,  and yes o ,  they marry "akata" (what an ugly word) women for greencard or at least that's what they tell u and seven years pass and then b4 u know it,  him papa dey tell your mama, his son can't marry u again,  and to top it, he will be home in one month with new "akata" wife or Oyinbo wife and babes, 

this happens everywhere,  but the point is that a woman is a woman, 
vagina is vagina, human being is human being,  and besides the arrogance of thinking that one race is better than the next is so last year and truly part of the problem,  like it or not, black Americans come from Africa and had the same culture as most Africans until this lil thing called "slavery" ,  read up on it u'll learn a lot,  and o ,  black women used to think like this too, 

And for this post to be made,  somebody's doing something with somebody and one of em aint a nigerian, 
too much pls,  vry funny 2 me this topic
lol
                 we are often blinded by the prejudice of our own ignorance
                                -anonymous

Princek12:

nairaland is not the appropriate forum to post this topic.

the sad thing about that tho is that either AA or Nigerian- all are black- and maybe some of u are still in Naija self but if you have been so fortunate enough to travel abroad to US states like New Jersey, New York, Maryland, Washington, DC, then u will what am talking, I've either been to or lived in some of these states and I know what I've seen there. Many Nigerian or African men period with white women- this may make your eyes shine bright green or whatever but this is definitely a Nigerian issue and has started within the last decade- look at Pres. Obama- Mama white- daddy African- Look at Sade (the famous Jazz singer from London) moma white- daddy from Nigeria (wow) those are a few of the successful ones but to be perfectly honest here the big issue that no one may want to face is that America accepts with open arms the brothers and sisters from Africa and the women usually do good and find jobs and really help out a lot in the community, but "some" not all but still most and these men are mainly from Nigeria and are either Igbo or Yoruba- they marry either Oyinbo or Black American for papers. Now US has taken lots of measures to cut down on greencard marriages and in order to prove that the marriage is real, you have to live with the person, get joint bank accounts, file taxes together and the more, thereby making the fraud nearly impossible unless u r truly devious and can fake to the girl that u love her, and will be sleeping with her, getting her pregnant, then get your papers and leaves, that leaves behind millions of mixbreed Nigerians is the US cos it is happening in massive numbers. That is why it is getting harder and harder for African men to get greencard in US, Seems off topic but is right on target- I can't tell u the number of fatherless children in America today becos a guy from Naija pull 419 on one helpless girl to get paper, Then go abroad to call her akata and diminish her value. The shame here is that in most states "akata" culture is very similar to Nigeria- anybody know who olaudah equiano is or gustava vassa- a nigerian native taken as a slave- many southern Americanas are his descendant. There is a lot that happens in US and then the Man comes home with money and throw big party, but that money came from 419 marriage to Oyinbo abroad, just go and look at the beautiful brown sun kissed skin and broad noses that these babies have, they will be raised as akata and cos the mother may change the name after the father left u might never know u are calling your own cousin or nephew akata, this is a Nigerian issue o, I cry everytime I see it, Cos prejudice has blinded reason and logic and watered down the truth, but what will happen when all these kids want to grow up and come to Naija to see where they are from, It's gonna be a big issue one day o, and NL is the best place for this, don't u know that many if not most AA have either Cameroon or Nigerian blood running thru their veins, open your eyes the sky is not a blue in Naija as think,

Ebonyeyes:

I think this is an African-American problem though.

I was in a relationship with a nigerian and I'm not stereotyping across all africans or nigerians, he treated me well to begin but then as soon as we decided to settle down, get married and have a child he changed. He wanted a subserviant woman, cooking, cleaning, caring for kids, working FT and with the attutude what's his is his and whats mine is his too-he cheated, abused me, deprived me of sex, didn't financially contribute and became the coldest human being possible. He got another woman pregnant, who probably was the type of white woman you talk of seeing as she was pregnant within 2 week of meeting him-if a woman doesn't use condoms when she first sees someone in my book I would class her as a LovePeddler!