sex involves getting an erection for men but for women, the careful and gentle exploration of her erogenous zones could actually mean much more.
A man can get an erection just by thinking about sex while for women, pre-intimacy serves a physical and emotional purpose, helping prepare both mind and body for sex.
It’s particularly important for women to have successful pre-intimacy because it takes a woman a longer time than a man to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.

Let us, therefore, look at the importance of pre-intimacy in lovemaking, especially for a woman.

pre-intimacy and the Clitoris
pre-intimacy helps the clitoris fulfill its “O” so important role. The clitoris has the same characteristics as the penis because blood flows into the clitoris, and in order for a woman to have an orgasm, there must be lubrication in the vagina, but also the clitoris must get erect. What this means is that stimulation is the key to achieving pleasure.
A woman especially, needs emotional assurance that the man she’s about to have sex with really wants to be with her. The time and attention given during pre-intimacy can communicate that message in such a way that tells her she is desired and loved.

Don’t zone out
Many couples are embarrassed to ask their partner to stimulate erogenous zones that are very pleasurable but can be considered taboo. The nipples, the anus, the back of the neck, all have nerve endings. So don’t be shy.The only shame when it comes to pre-intimacy is a missed opportunity for pleasure.

pre-intimacy keep partners connected physically and emotionally
Quickies certainly have their time and place, but couples who continuously skip pre-intimacy are passing up a great way to get emotionally and physically warmed up for sex. Physiologically, experts agree that pre-intimacy is an important part of sexual health. In fact, an Australian study found that majority of women are more aroused by the idea of pre-intimacy than sex itself.

pre-intimacy can help your relationship

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