Don’t pretend you know how to kiss when you don’t know. It is never too late to learn, that is if you want to try it out.
Kissing has become a problem in many African marriages. The woman wants to kiss after watching those romantic movies where trained kissers kiss the life out of the women. Then she wants her poor African husband, who had never kissed anybody except on his wedding day, to replicate the kiss on her.
The man, just to please the wife, would grab and maul her lips, or simply peck her lips, or chook his tongue in and out of her mouth and hen hide his tongue at the back of his teeth.
Some husbands even make faces when they taste their wife’s spittle. Some will simply refuse.
Women are not left out. Some marry men who are kissers, but hate kissing. The man tries to show her what stuff his kissing was made of, but she doesn’t buy it. She had probably experienced some terrible kissing and groping in the past and doesn’t want repeats in her marriage. She can open her legs wide for her husband to flog away but please don’t come near her mouth.
She can even give outstanding MouthAction but no kissing.
The purpose of this write-up today, is to teach how to kiss from the scratch. And to encourage you to try it out even though you never liked or really tried it.
First, you have to understand that you are kissing an African lips. The lips are thick and mouthful. The white people’s lips are thin and can be swallowed whole, you don’t try that with African lips.
• You need to want to kiss the person. Try licking your own lips and sucking yours. Some kind of practice. If you enjoy sucking your own lips, you would enjoy someone else sucking and enjoying it.
• Have sweet breath. This is not the time to eat onions or garlic. If you did, chew mint sweet or other nice flavours. And for heavens sakes, brush your teeth. Even if you are a poor kisser, the fresh and sweet taste of your mouth would interest your spouse.
• Don’t hold your breath yet until the kiss takes your breath away. Some people will just hold their breath with their mouth shut tight. How do you want to kiss?
• Please shift close to whom you want to kiss. Hold the person close; your faces should be close and touch the face with your hand as you prepare to kiss.
• Grab hold your flame’s lower lip. Not too tight or rough yet. Just hold the lower lip in between your teeth. Here is where you suck the African lip. Softly. Enjoy the tentative tastes before taking it whole. Those lips are full, so you can spend time there just sucking and teasing those lips.
• Sucking the lips is even enough for those who do not want to exchange spits. If you do not want to delve in deeper, just hang on to the bulbous lips, they are enough kissing ingredient. Run your tongue along the lips, draw the lips with your teeth, suck them a bit. Kiss the chin. Twirl some nipples or squeeze some boobs.
• Don’t rush when you want to break away. Do it slowly with eye contact. Go back and kiss again briefly then break away. Hold hands and squeeze as if you are relieving the kiss inside you and trying to catch your breath. Show love.
• If you guys are having sex. Stop and kiss. This can even help you to last longer during lovemaking.

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You are obviously a learner.