hello people. i dated ds guy for 3years.i broke up wt him ds february.but he keeps callin me because he claims he wants a goodbye sex.he got married on d 28 of nov 2009,yet he stil calls me.bt i told him dat if he wants me 2 sleep wt me,he will hv 2 gv me 200 thousand naira*he is a stingy guy*he said he doesnt have it yet he wont let me be.pls people how do i put him off because he is beginning to irritate me.[color=][/color][color=][/color]

u want 200grand for "goodbye sex". so basically, ure a half-way ho??

Hw cn he be requestin 4 gudbye sex afta marriage and nt prior to his marriage? Infact,i wl advice u to avoid picking hs calls so dat he wl concentrate wt hs new wife. Dnt ever succumb to hs request cos if u do,d fling wl continue and u knw dat hs married. The guy has just eaten hs cake and wnts to hv it bk tryn to keep u as hs concubine for sexual satisfaction,and he knw dat ur gud and yet went on to marry another. Just ignore hm and tel hm dat hs married and shuld leave u alone that ur contract wt hm sexually has ended.

@ brookl,i gues u dont undastand english.i said i askd 4 d money cos i knw he is stingy nd will not part such amount nd then let me be. @digriz.thanks so much.u r such a life saver.gues i'll stop pickin his call.as am typin ds my phone is ringin nd he is d one.[color=][/color][color=][/color]

Why do you even still pick his calls, talk to him or create an avenue for you guys to discuss such crap. Once a r/ship is over, all talk of sex should end! Even if its a joke.

He lacks respect for you as a woman and as a girl he once dated. Goodbye sex? Psssh! Are you a ho or what?

missagbaa:

hello people. i dated ds guy for 3years.i broke up wt him ds february.but he keeps callin me because he claims he wants a goodbye sex.he got married on d 28 of nov 2009,yet he stil calls me.bt i told him dat if he wants me 2 sleep wt me,he will hv 2 gv me 200 thousand naira*he is a stingy guy*he said he doesnt have it yet he wont let me be.pls people how do i put him off because he is beginning to irritate me.[color=][/color][color=][/color]

You both are birds of a feather and you fit; he asking you for sex after marriage(a brand nu wedding for that matter) and you demanding money for it.

brooklyn99:

u want 200grand for "goodbye sex". so basically, ure a half-way ho??

You are not a half-way ho, you are all the way He knows your worth and is actually playing you that way. Use* l ess thread ^hiss

@Godmother - are we related? Just read your post LOL

chaircover:

Birds of the same feather. He knew he could get away with it; so that’s why he asked.

Godmother:

You both are birds of a feather and you fit; he asking you for sex after marriage(a brand nu wedding for that matter) and you demanding money for it.

You are not a half-way ho, you are all the way He knows your worth and is actually playing you that way. Use* l ess thread ^hiss

You guys didn't understand her. She said she was trying to use the demand to scare him away. She obviously knew he wouldnt bring the money and therefore will have to start avoiding her. I think it's a tactic for her. It might be silly, but it's been known to work one way or another!

missagbaa:

hello people. i dated ds guy for 3years.i broke up wt him ds february.but he keeps callin me because he claims he wants a goodbye sex.he got married on d 28 of nov 2009,yet he stil calls me.bt i told him dat if he wants me 2 sleep wt me,he will hv 2 gv me 200 thousand naira*he is a stingy guy*he said he doesnt have it yet he wont let me be.pls people how do i put him off because he is beginning to irritate me.[color=][/color][color=][/color]

with a million naira dont you ever sleep with a married man!!!! stop picking his calls or better still tell his wife about it,

@chairco.i promise u he wont call it bluff.i said i dated him 4 3yrs nd i knw wat he can nd cant do.i appreciate ur concern bt i just needed ur opinion on better ways 2 put him off.tellin his wife is not d issue because he belives dat as a yoruba man,he is entitled 2 as many women as possible nd its d reason i left him cos i hate sharing.am suggestin 2 change my num.i dont knw if its worth it anyway.i honestly want his pesterin 2 stop. @ chic ah nd ujujoan.thanks so much.[color=][/color]

You dont undersdtand her GFs.She only said that to scare the guy away cos she knew he wuld never give her that amount.
@ poster
My dear ,i like ur style.As for me i wuld ask for more to cover for all he owned me thruout the rship.He knows u r a sweet girl and the one he keeps at home cant be compared to you.I can bet it that i didnt mean gdbye sex,Dont mind him ooooooo u just pray he pays that money or tell him to give u half of it first and the warn him never to call u again.This is the time for u to siphon d hell out of the animal like him.


He is very stupid for asking for gdbye sex cos i  know he will still call you back.He doesnot love the lady he eventually married am very sure of that.

missagbaa:

@chairco.i promise u he wont call it bluff.i said i dated him 4 3yrs nd i knw wat he can nd cant do.i appreciate your concern bt i just needed your opinion on better ways 2 put him off.tellin his wife is not d issue because he belives dat as a yoruba man,he is entitled 2 as many women as possible nd its d reason i left him cos i hate sharing.am suggestin 2 change my num.i dont knw if its worth it anyway.i honestly want his pesterin 2 stop. @ chic ah nd ujujoan.thanks so much.[color=][/color]

You see his wife is not the issue cos as a yoruba man,he is entitles to many women.Dont change ur number that will mak u a coward.Let him continue calling you.you continue to waste his credits whle u r searching for another responsible guy.

He's beginning to irritate You 'cause he hasn't given the #2000?

Talk of being Dense!!

So let me get this straight, you will do the do with him if he gives you 200k? You will be married one day o!

why all these mortal combat here?

if I were u , I will even demand more, 200k is just too small for 3wasted years with him(chop im money and clean ur mouth)
he neither loves u nor his wifey

Na wa ooo

Goodbye Sex - for ex partners
Divorce Sex - for ex divorcee

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200k is not worth my troubles u know bt to tell d kind of person he is.even if i tell him ten thousand,he'll still run away. any way for a million bucks,i wont sleep wt him.if he brings d money its my gain bt if he doesnt.its a gud riddance 2 bad rubbish.all i need is a very fast way 2 stop him.[color=][/color][color=][/color]

[s]once received a goodbye sex for free. 200gees is overly excessive. i was actually offered[/s]

@OP
dude is married o tell him not to bother u again. threaten him that you will forward all d msgs to his wife

If you have a new guy tell him the story and let him be picking the
guys call. I think that will stop the idiot from disturbing you.

More importantly be strong wiled.because i can see you are not.