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Whynotthetruth:
Good morning... how are u? back from strike or just came for negotiations?

i travelled

Whynotthetruth:
I have two precious babes who both dumped me for reasons I don't know Sandydayz & 360ng ...they are simply my only valued assets outside my family and close friends

hello

Some women are so gullible

henribj:
then give out all the specs nah
should the apartment be in a bungalow or flat?
what is your budget?
should it be in a new building or old??
etc.. make this thing easy for the guys that might want to pursue this matter further
#justsaying

ok, i will do that

henribj:
what you should do is hire an estate agent to search for the apartment on your behalf
because from what i understand from your post and comments, you are wanting us to go search for apartment for you, then when we get results we come here and publish it, at the end you will go for the apartment that is affordable to you. what then happens to those that you did not accept their apartment findings? all their expenditures who compensates them?
just go and hire an estate agent simple. or you might be lucky and there are some estate agents here.

i will definite pick one, cash isnt really the problem

vizkiz:
you are welcome if you wanna come stay with me

hmmmmm

henribj:
lol.. noted.

and pics of the apartment.thanks

henribj:
noted. and what is your budget?

just place your prices here and i will pick the one that suites my taste

henribj:
this apartment, how many rooms does it have to be?
some people and their half and half posts sha...
making questions to dey plenty err'time.

2 rooms is okay

please i need an apartment in lagos in one of these areas: oshodi,victoria island, surulere,ikeja.

if there is any available for rent please specify.

please also specify the cost per year. thanks

2 rooms is okay

Classified indeed

Hbd

Nice one..

RIP to her. Take heart

It's really hard to face the fact that your spouse cheated on you, especially if they decide to stay with the one they had an affair with.

In reality, it's okay to feel all kinds of things initially but it should always be in moderation. The worst thing is letting your significant other's infidelity define you.

RelationshipCrib..Com experts on the subject of infidelity share their best advice for letting go and starting over after an affair:

1. Stop telling yourself you've been wronged. No, it's not right that your ex cheated. And if he or she has moved on with the affair partner, it definitely doesn't seem fair. But if you're ever going to move on, you need to stop thinking of the affair as an injustice, said Tracy Schorn, the author of Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide. "Every time you go down the rabbit hole of how unfair it is and compare how happy they are after what they did, ask yourself, 'OK, so what am I going to do about it? How am I going to move forward anyway?'" she advised. "That’s all you control -- you. You don’t control the crappy things other people do. You only control how you’re going to respond. So focus on what you control -- your new, cheater-free life."

2. Accept that the marriage is over. Once you've made the decision to end the marriage or relationship, commit yourself to leaving. That means figuring out the logistics of divorce (Where are you going to stay? Should you retain a lawyer or is mediation your best bet?) and also coming to terms with the finality of your decision, said Caroline Madden, a marriage therapist and the author of Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband? "Stop waiting for your spouse to come through the door," she said. "Stop arguing about the affair. There is nothing to argue about anymore." Instead, Madden said to "take an honest inventory of how the marriage wasn’t working for you. If he or she was cheating, your needs probably weren't being met and you deserve to be with a spouse who doesn't bail during rough times."

3. Stop wasting your energy hating the affair partner. It may feel cathartic to disparage and name-call your ex's affair partner when you rant to your friends, but at some point, you'll need to curb your anger, said Madden. Since your ex was the one who made your marriage vows, the lion's share of the blame should rest on his or her shoulders, she added. "When you waste your energy thinking about the affair partner, you get sucked into comparing yourself to him or her and hating yourself," Madden said. "You may think you are judging her, but you're actually judging yourself." Even if you think you're fitter, more accomplished and an all-around better person than the other man or woman, drawing comparisons is ultimately a losing proposition, she said. "In any event, your husband or wife chose the other person over you," she said. "If you keep thinking about her, you will continue to hurt yourself, more and more."

4. Don't let anyone dictate forgiveness. Forgiveness is the next step to moving on but don't let anyone rush you, said Schorn. "Don’t let anyone dictate that timeline or say that you 'must' forgive," she said. "Let go of some superhuman expectation of magnanimity and forgiveness. Just focus on building your new life. You’ll get to the 'meh' stage eventually, I promise." And if you're worried that forgiveness is a tall order, it may help to know how Schorn defines the word when it comes to infidelity. "Forgiveness means your ex doesn't have the power to hurt you any more," she said. "It takes a long time to get there. In the process, be kind to yourself."

5. Don't tell the kids. You may be completely devastated but if you have kids, that doesn't give you permission to tell them about mommy or daddy's new "friend," said Madden. "If you tell them, you will involve them in deep adult issues that will threaten their foundation for all relationships," she said. "It could cause them to worry and wonder if they can ever really trust their future romantic partner." She added: "The time to tell the truth will eventually come, but for now, let them have their childhood a little bit longer."

6. Don't isolate yourself. If you can swing it, find a therapist who can help you process the rollercoaster of emotions you're undoubtedly feeling. If not, reach out to that one friend who always dispenses balanced, nonjudgemental advice, said Samantha Rodman, a psychologist and the author of How to Talk to Your Kids about Your Divorce. "Don't go it alone if you don't have to," she said. "Even online forums can be helpful to start to realize that you're not alone."

7. Rediscover yourself. Infidelity can do a number on your self-esteem. When you start to feel really low, remind yourself of how bad ass you were -- and still are! -- by exploring hobbies and interests you put on the back burner during the marriage, said Rodman. "Think about what makes you feel confident and most like yourself, whether it's cooking, taking a dance class or even just spending some time with friends," she said. "Activities that you left behind in your old relationship can make you feel more ready to move on and enjoy your future."

8. Don't let your ex steal your joy. You know the saying "the best revenge is success"? It's 100 percent true. Let your elaborate scheme for vengeance fall to the wayside and decide instead to live your life with gusto. Nothing will tick your cheating ex off more, Schorn said. "People who cheat have a vested interest in rubbing their fabulous, new, sparkly life in your face -- it has to be fabulous to justify the trail of broken hearts and broken homes," she explained. "Ignore. Block. You’re still you. Cheaters might try and take your children, your pension, and your wedding china -- but they can’t have your soul. You captain that."

great

There are so many articles for women out there, talking about how to be this and how to not to be that...what about articles that emphasize on making yourself better?

below are the 10 commandment for being a fabulous female:

1. Thou shalt treat thyself as a goddess: Believe in yourself and know your value. #People have their own opinions, and not everyone is going to like you or agree with you - but that's okay! They will create their lives on their own terms and you will create your life on your own terms. #Look in the mirror and smile. Now, give a little wave! You see that person waving back at you? That's your real soul mate! Love who you are - for richer or poorer, in sickness and health, in makeup and without, in shape or with some extra pounds, to love and to cherish as long as you live.



2. Thou shalt treat fellow females as goddesses: Have you ever been in the presence of a gorgeous/talented/intelligent woman and automatically your mind kicked into jealousy mode? Oh, yes it has! As has mine. You begin to think, "she may be gorgeous but she must have some other flaws somewhere! BUT WHERE?! Maybe she isn't that intelligent/kind/funny. Maybe she looks less pretty without #makeup on." It's ridiculous, isn't it - the thought that in order for you to be great someone else has to be worse? Jealousy affects us all, but it shouldn't get the better of us. I've always been a big believer in supporting and liberating fellow females - it's hard enough out there as it is without turning on each other. You need to be confident enough to celebrate the fabulousness of women - cause come on, women are amazing! There's this mindset that "if I have more, you have less, and if you have more, I have less". That is simply not true. Get rid of the idea that you're in constant competition with other women, and stop comparing yourself. Tearing a #woman down does nothing, but raising her up creates a liberated connection that all women will benefit from. Share the abundance - there's enough to go around! It's not about who's prettiest, smartest, funniest, coolest - because there's always going to be someone else in line who is, or who is perceived that way depending on who you ask. What it is about is celebrating ALL women, including yourself. If you're too busy being happy and positive with yourself then it's really difficult to get down on and be negative about someone else. The only real flaw is an ugly mind and an ugly way of thinking. Stand tall and stand up for all #women!



3. Thou shalt not allow "single" or "in a relationship" to define who thine are: You've got to manifest and focus your personal potential. Your personal vision of who you are has to be greater than who's on your arm! A relationship is an equal partnership of two whole #people coming together. Somewhere along the line this idea of needing to find the "other half" to be "complete" came to be. You are not a half person! You've got to be happy on your own first before you can be happy with and bring happiness into someone else's life. A relationship will not be successful if you can't exist independently of it. It isn't designed for you to lose yourself. A relationship is supposed to #compliment your life, not be your life. "Single" has gotten a bad rap, but single can be awesome! Settling for someone just to say you "have someone" is the real abomination. You DO have someone! You have yourself, you always will, and that's enough. If you're single, focus less on engagement to a partner and more on engagement of self-discovery. If you're in a #relationship, remember to remember yourself. A deeper love of yourself will resonate a deeper love of your #partner. Believe in yourself and you will attract what you deserve, and what you deserve is unconditional, real love from within and without.



4. Thou shalt evict negativity from thy life: Negativity is quite a trickster! It can creep into our lives through events, encounters, relationships, even our own thoughts! See? Sneaky! But even though you know negativity very well and you've both gotten very close, it's #time to escort it to the door and show it out! Negativity is a strong force. It has power, and it lives. It's scarier than any monster under the #bed or boogie man because we can actually become it. The longer you allow negativity to rent out space in your mind, the sooner it will become a permanent occupant. What you project will reflect back at you, so project positivity. Actively decide that you will not accept negativity into your life. Say "goodbye" to toxic relationships. Walk away from toxic situations. Silence toxic thoughts. If something or someone is bringing you down, you have absolutely every right to say "no. I do not accept this", and leave the situation. Feel the freedom of a positive, happy life, and be thankful that you have the choice to do so!



5. Thou shalt rise again when thine hast fallen: Even if you're walking through life wearing Louboutin's, you're still gonna trip and fall once in awhile. There will always be ups and downs, and highs and lows - everyone experiences both sides of the coin. You may lose your balance, feel like a failure and be harder on yourself than the actual fall. But success isn't measured by how many times you fall, it's about how many times you get back up again. You are a success every day that you decide to get up and #face yourself. Think of all of the missteps that made you work harder, stand taller, fight stronger, and last longer. If you're still here, if you're still trying, you haven't failed. Don't be afraid of falling or you'll never learn how to fly.



6. Thou shalt not be afraid to laugh at thyself and to learn from thine mistakes: Life is too short to be constantly reapplying your #mascara! Feel free to cry, but most situations aren't worth your tears, so lighten up on yourself and laugh a little. Heck, laugh a lot! It's contagious - the good kind! The next time something unpleasant or stressful happens ask yourself, "how will this affect me in one week? One month? One year?" The obstacles you #face will usually seem bigger in the present moment than they actually are. Something as insignificant as burning dinner or a date not returning your call, or even something more significant like a breakup or being passed over for a job, may feel like the end of the #world now, but will be trivial in the future. Finding humour during a dark #time can be the flashlight that guides you through to where the real light shines. And don't be afraid to ask for help when you're in a dark place - or even if you're in a light but confused place! People need people to guide and inspire them. I love surrounding myself with great, talented #people because I love being motivated by their presence and learning from them. Always keep your #eyes and ears open. Learn from your mistakes and try again, and if that doesn't work try another way. There's always another way.



7. Thou shalt know thine are enough at this very moment: I feel like I should put on a disguise while writing this because, ladies I am definitely guilty of this one! I think many of us are. Okay, I've accessorized myself with the Groucho Marx glasses/nose/mustache combo, I shall now continue! You need to show up before you're ready. And by that I don't mean you should head to work in your bathrobe with your #hair in a towel! It's a figurative way of saying, don't wait to become your version of perfect before you get off your sweet behind and go for your goals! Don't get stuck in the "when" trap - "I'll pursue my dreams WHEN; I lose 10 pounds, I have more time, I have more #money", and so on. Absolutely nothing will progress until you do something about it. I'm reminded of something I heard Tony Robbins say once. He said, "Change is automatic. Progress is not." If you wait around until the "right time" you may run out of time altogether! Change is inevitable. Seasons will change, you will #grow older, and the clock will tick on without you doing anything. But progress is something you have to work on. #People will never be perfect. We're perfectly imperfect. So, if you're waiting around to achieve perfection, let's just say, you'll be waiting a long while. And isn't it just an excuse because you're scared? The only way to achieve something great is to step out of your comfort zone and put yourself "out there", and that can be scary. But isn't living your life regulated by fear sabotaging your dreams scarier? The ability to progress is in your hands, and your hands alone. The comforting thing is, that's the way it is for everyone. So though you may be alone in the pursuit of your dreams, so is everyone else in the pursuit of theirs, so you're not really alone after all. All you can do is live one moment at a #time and realize that you are enough RIGHT NOW, and good things will happen, because you have the ability RIGHT NOW to make it so.



8. Thou shalt celebrate thy sexuality: Body shame and sexual expectations need to be kicked to the curb! You need to appreciate and accept your body - you can bring life into the #world after all! Let go of the sexual hang ups and pressure you put onto yourself and create a loving connection with your body. Celebrating your sexuality does not have to involve a partner. In fact, I believe your "first #time" should be with yourself, and that the foundation of all sexual relationships should be rooted in self-love, self-respect and self-pleasure. Your sexual power needs to literally be in your own hands before anyone else's hands, (or anything else), is involved! Whether with a #partner or on your own, healthy sexual expression requires a constant flow of open verbal and physical communication. Listen to your #body and don't be afraid to voice your wants and needs.



9. Thou shalt understand thine own identity: Know who you are without any labels. You have roles in your life that you play, but they are just stops along the way. Sometimes roles change, but that shouldn't change who you ultimately are as a person. If your identity lies in being Joe or Jane's "#girlfriend", or if your identity lies in being a career woman and you're laid off or broken up with, then suddenly you've lost who you are! Don't base your identity and worth on something or someone that can be taken away from you. Identify with your soul. What do YOU love for you? What inspires you? What drives you? What brings you joy? Who is the real you deep down inside? Take some #time to yourself in a quiet place to think and that figure out. When you're in solitude you'll find that finally you'll be in a place silent enough to hear your own voice. Listen in and check back in frequently. You are the train moving through stations of your life that will constantly change - know what fuels you. Know yourself.



10. Thou shalt commit to a cause: You don't have to have it all to give all you can. Identify what causes you are passionate about and start exerting your strength to give back to your community. There are many different kinds of non-profit organizations you can take part in. If you don't want to become a former volunteer you can always practice daily random acts of kindness. Help someone with their bags, open a door, give someone your seat. Even a small gesture can have a big impact. Everyone #benefits from acts of selflessness. Making others feel fabulous will make you feel fabulous too.

source: http://relationshipcrib..com/2015/08/for-ladies-only-10-commandments-every.html

Nobody wants to enter a new relationship with old baggage. If you really like someone and have an intention of forming a solid, strong relationship, it's important to let go of things that are bound to cause your relationship's demise.

Below are 7 signs that you're in a mature, healthy relationship.

1. You rarely argue: Every couple has arguments. You are two different #people with two different opinions and viewpoints. However, if you notice that arguments in your current relationship are few and far in-between, this is a sign that you're finally in a mature, healthy #relationship with someone who doesn’t nitpick or stir up unnecessary drama.

2. Your arguments are easily resolved: Not only do you fight less in this #relationship, when arguments or disagreements occur, you’re able to handle them like mature individuals. Instead of yelling and talking over each other, you give yourself #time to calm down and express how you feel without belittling the other person.

3. You trust each other: In the past, maybe you didn't trust your partner. Maybe you were cheated on, or perhaps your #partner was a habitual liar. If you absolutely, 100% trust the person you're with, this is a good sign that the #relationship is moving in the right direction. You don't feel a need to go through your partner’s cell phone or emails to make sure he's being honest, nor do you feel the need to question his whereabouts every second of the day.

4. You give each other space: Some partners are extremely clingy and want to be together every minute of the day. Everyone needs space. As you become older and start establishing mature relationships, you'll understand the importance of giving your #partner space, and taking space for yourself. You have a life outside the #relationship, so don’t feel bad about hanging out with your friends or family alone, or exploring personal interests.

5. You know how to communicate: Good communication is important in any relationship. Now that you're in a mature, healthy relationship, you and your partner communicate in a way that builds each other up and strengthens the #relationship. There's no name-calling or belittling. If you learn that your #partner doesn't like the way you talk to him, you make an effort to change the behavior.

6. You bring out the best in each other: Another sign of a good, healthy #relationship is bringing out the best in each other. Your #partner might motivate you to follow your paths and dreams, and you might give him support or encouragement when he's feeling down. When it's all said and done, you want to be the best #girlfriend.

7. He puts your needs ahead of his own: A selfish, one-sided relationship isn't healthy or mature. If you think about your partner’s feelings more than yours, and if you’re more than happy to put his needs ahead of your own and vice versa, the relationship will likely get stronger and you'll become a closer couple. Relationships don't work when #people only care about their needs.

http://relationshipcrib..com/2015/08/for-couples-only-7-signs-of-mature.html

Ok

Ok

Holyfield1:
Today is my birthday...Nairalanders show
some love
A thousand likes is just enough to make me
happy

HBD to u..

DEAR MEN,
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You had sex with Mariam on
monday,
.
.
had sex with Sharon on
tuesday,
.
.
had sex with monica on
wednesday,
.
.
had sex with Mary on thursday,
.
.
had sex with Angela on friday,
.
.
had
sex with winnie on saturday.
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.
Your friends cheer you up,
thinking
.
.
you
are a HERO, then you call
yourself
a
REAL MAN.
.
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No wonder you are too
immature to
realise what you are loosing.
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Remember, if each girl has 36
demons.
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So calculate 36 times 6
is equal to YOU ARE FINISHED.
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Don't forget that H.I.V /AIDS is
awaiting you.
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Keep in mind that a REAL
MAN is not
defined by the
millions of girls he
has slept with
.
.
But A Real man is the one
who loves
ONE girl
in a million
ways!!

GOOD MORNING TO YOU ALL!!

YES or NO?

Your wedding is in two days. You just won N30,000,000 and your fiance/fiancee gets locked up, and his/her bail is set at N29,000,000.

Would you bail him/her out?

Terrible

GREAT citizens of NIGERIA

Ok

Kisses send messages and are considered more meaningful than you think they are. They send your partner numerous messages other than a way to initiate sex or an admission of attraction to someone.

Holly Riordan of All Women Stalk lists a few other things a kiss may mean:

1. I missed you: When you see your boyfriend for the first #time in days and plant a kiss on him, it can show him how much you missed him and have been waiting to touch him. Likewise, when you have to leave later that day, your goodbye kiss can tell him how much you're going to miss him. Even though the kisses you give each other throughout the day can feel amazing, the first and last kisses of the day tend to have an intoxicating intensity to them.

2. I love you: You don't actually have to say those three little #words in order to let your partner know how you're feeling. After they do something sweet for you and you give them a passionate kiss, they'll know exactly what you're trying to say. If you've ever kissed someone that you truly love, you'll know that it feels entirely different than kissing a casual lover.

3. I'm turned on: When your #partner wants to rip your clothes off, you'll know it. Even though you might be able to guess what they're thinking by looking into their #eyes, you'll know for sure once they start kissing you in that special way. A kiss like this usual includes tongue, and it can become pretty intense in a short amount of #time.

4. Thank you: The best way to thank your partner is by showing them #affection. If your #boyfriend takes out the trash for you or buys you a thoughtful gift, you're bound to give him a kiss. It's meant as a thank you for being so sweet. These kisses tend to be pecks, but they can transition into full-on make out sessions if the gift was impressive enough.

5. I'm here for you: When your #boyfriend has a rough day, you'll want to do anything you can to make him feel better. Sometimes, that will be impossible, so the least you can do is give him a few kisses. They aren't meant to distract him from his pain. They're just meant to let him know that you're there for him whenever he needs you.

6. I want attention: When you feel like you're being ignored, or when you just want to feel special, you might kiss your #partner in order to get him to pay attention to you. It's the easiest way to redirect his attention from the television, his work, or another #girl in the room. After a few kisses, you'll be the only thing on his mind.

7. You're mine: Kisses don't always have to have sweet intentions. Sometimes, they're territorial gestures. Think about it. If you've ever seen a girl eyeing up your #boyfriend, all you have to do is lean in and kiss him in order to show her that he's off-limits. It's a way to mark your territory without seeming rude.

If jonathan's aide can loot N1.5b, i cant imagine What jonathan will loot.

We all know how a person's personality creates chemistry between people who meet for the first time. But there are other physical attributes that makes you instantly drawn to a person you like.

lady 360ng lists the top 5 physical features that instantly makes you more attractive to the opposite sex:

1. Smile: Very possibly the most universally mentioned feature people consider the most important when it comes to physical attraction, a great smile was the only feature cited as "very important" by the majority of people polled in a survey completed by the American Dental Association. These findings are echoed in Match.com's annual Singles in America poll. The online survey of 5,481 unmarried individuals found that most singles judge the person they are on a date with by "the big three." These three traits suitors are sized up with include teeth (the other two, if you're wondering, are grammar and confidence). Suffice it to say, it's important to keep your pearly whites, well, pearly.

2. Eyes: It is said eyes are the windows to the soul, and based on findings by FastLife.com, it's clear that eyes do reveal a lot about people. In the site's poll of more than 1,000 people to determine the biggest physical turn-ons and turn-offs, women and men agreed that "eyes were the most important facial feature in a potential partner." Of the participants who were surveyed, the majority of both men and women found blue to be the most attractive eye color. In regard to eye colors other than blue, the study found that men preferred women who had green eyes over those with brown eyes. Women, however, gave a slight edge to men with brown eyes over those with green eyes.

3. Breasts: This may not come as much of a surprise to you, but men often check out a women's chest before they check out her face. Shocking, we know. In AskMen.com's Great Male Survey, more than 100,000 participants weighed in on everything from the physical features they found most attractive to what cocktail they felt was manliest. The results on the physical front prove what women have known all along: Men love boobs. But, as it turns out, they can be slightly selective when it comes to which ta-tas they find the most desirable. An impressive 46 percent of men surveyed revealed the ideal breast size to be a C-cup (don't worry, ladies... 24 percent of men said size doesn't matter). Interestingly enough, the sister Great Female Survey on Cosmo.com showed that while 44 percent of women wouldn't change their breast size, 35 percent would love to be a C-cup.

4. Stomach: If you've been doing crunches like crazy in hot pursuit of the elusive six-pack abs, take comfort knowing that your efforts aren't in vain. When FastLife.com polled over 1,000 men and women about the physical traits they find most attractive in the opposite sex, the stomach ranked very high for both. Actually, it ranked as high as it could for women — a man's stomach was deemed the most attractive non-facial feature for women, receiving an average score of 3.17 on a five-point scale of importance. Ladies, don't toss out your exercise ball just yet. While a woman's derriere actually came in first for men on the list of non-facial features they find most attractive, it was followed closely by the stomach.

5. Hair: So there's actually something to the cliched dating techniques of hair-tossing and running your hands through your hair. Who knew? When the PlentyOfFish Research team compiled data from over 81,000 user profiles and nearly two million messages among those in the 25 to 35 age group, they found that the color of a man's hair has a definite impact on whether or not he'll get a message from females. According to the research, men who have brown hair receive 20 percent more messages than men who have any other hair color, with the second most popular hair color being blond. As it turns out, not having any hair can work in a man's favor as well — baldies receive the third most messages.

U add him on BBM
•He checks ur pictures.
•He Uses Blackberry Q10 to
•He likes u
•He pinged u
•U reply, all excited, U'll want to hook up•
U set a date•
U dress up weaaring dat legging Wit NO
UNDERWEAR•
U smell good•
U put on a makeup - fresh breath & new
weave•
He takes u for lunch•
He Takes u For Drinks•
U two have a good time•
He rubs ur hand
•Makes u laugh(all women luv dat)
•Gives u looks nd smiles
•U fall in-love•
It's like u've known him forever
•He takes u to his apartment
•He makes u feel comfortable
•He lays u on his bed
•He rubs it gently
•Kiss u passionately
•Pulls ur Leggings
•They're too tight but he manages to take
them off
•U love his aggression, strength, power & u
give in
•It feels good
•U know it's wrong, but it feels so good
•U ask for protection, he says it's too late
•U obey & don't disturb
•He says he loves u nd u don'thesitate to say
u love him too
•He inserted it slowly
•you asked him to come faster
•he wanted to remove but you holdd him
back
•he said he is tired but u beg 4 more
•He pulls out, goes to the kitchen to get a
glass of water
•He helps u drink it ...
Ohh man u feel special
•"He must be the one! " U think to urself
•You'll get dressed
•He takes u to the taxi rank
•He kisses u on the cheek & say "I had a
great time!"
•Gives U( # 1000naira )•U smile & say "See
u tomorrow babe."
•He stays silent
•Your taxi drives away
•In the taxi you can't stop smiling
•U get home & pinged him that u got home
safe
•He's read, but doesn't reply
•It's unlike him, so u piinged him again•He
doesn't respond
•Minutes later u can't find him on ur bbm
list
•HE BLOCKED and DELETED U!!!
•Days, weeks, months passes by
•U start feeling sick, weak, loose weight, act
strange wit sores in your mouth
•U go to the clinic
•Get tested•Minutes later...
•Nurse walks in..."I'm sorry.You're HIV
Postive & Pregnant!"
•"HOW?" U don't understand•Real it hits u
•U walk home, Scared, Confused•U go to
the train railway, u lay hopeless
ndemotionless
•U see the train coming nearer, u look into
the sky& mumble a prayer
•That's the end of u
•Don't be that girl! Live well.Stop chasing
material things...>:/
Live Positively!!
Live well!!

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