Topic: SEX
One of the greatest
headaches of many young
ladies in relationship is the
issue of sex. While
they find themselves
entangled in love, they
also
would not want to offend
God by fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young
men of today are always
demanding sex before
marriage as a proof of
love. If a lady denies her
boyfriend (fiance) sex,
he tends to think she
either does not love him
or
she is seeing another guy.
And this throws the
lady into so much
confusion. She genuinely
loves
the guy but wouldn't
want to give in to sex. If
she denies him, she may
lose him and if she gives
in too she disobeys God.
Sorry to our ladies.
Gentleman, please know
that it is absolutely a lie
from the pit of hell that if
your fiancee does not
give you sex it shows she
doesn't love you. How
can you use sex as a
LOVEOMETRE? Have you
never slept with ladies
you didn't truly love? If
you haven't then let me
tell you that many people
are having sex with
people they never love.
And
the men are themselves
the worst culprits.
If sex is a proof of love
then we have to conclude
that prostitutes love all
the men they sleep with.
If sex is a proof of love
then we have to go about
sleeping with our best
friends and even family
members to show how
deeply we love them.
Even married couples, do
not have sex to prove
their love. They rather
have sex because sex is
part of marriage and it is
meant for both
procreation and recreation
- child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you
know that there are
married
couples who are not
genuinely in love but they
still have sex as a matter
of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major
role in love affairs. But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For
everything there is a
season..." It is never the
right season to have sex
in a relationship. This is
because sex is a blood
covenant between
husband and wife not
boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1
says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say
"Adam knew his
girlfriend".
Stop going that far with
the lady. If you want to
know about a woman's
love for you sex is never
the answer. Leave her
alone to serve God right
for
your own sake if you truly
want to marry her.
Song of Songs 2:7 says, "I
charge you, O
daughters of Jerusalem, by
the gazelle...that you
AWAKEN NOT LOVE UNTIL
IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift
animal. It runs at least
96 km per hour. Bible
compares romance to the
gazelle. If you start
romance at the wrong
time
you may crush because
you will not be able to
stop it from running your
life at top speed. So
until you are married,
don't AWAKEN LOVE. Sex
has been the main reason
for most broken hearts
and disappointments.
Sex is called love-making
because it involves the
body, soul and spirit. Do
you want your soul and
spirit to be tied to
somebody who is not
married
to you? Can you stand the
consequences, Mr.
Young Man? Hear the
Bible:
"O my son, O son of my
womb, O son of my vows,
DO NOT SPEND YOUR
STRENGTH ON WOMEN,
YOUR VIGOUR ON THOSE
WHO DESTROY
KINGS." (Prov. 31:2)
Sex before marriage can
destroy you, even your
Christian life. The funny
thing is some
Brothers in Christ even
worry the
Sisters in Christ for sex. So
God says, "My
son...son of my vow". You
are a son of God so
don't waste your energy
on women. You should
rather be teaching her
chastity and help her serve
God well.
Seeking love from sex is
like looking for Jesus in
an empty tomb.(Word)
Take it easy. When you
marry
you will be fed up with
sex. Your wife will be
chasing you with it and
you will be running away,
saying, "Oh I'm tired,
why?". Take time okay,
Wait patiently. It will soon
be laid at
your doorstep and you
will notice how stupid it is
to chase sex when you are
not married.
If you want a woman to
prove her love to you,
allow her some space to
be herself. Do not force
your will on her or control
her. Her love, by
nature, will push her to do
things that will signal
to you that you are her
top priority. She will be
ready to marry you, than
just have fun with you.
She will not be interested
in you showering things
on her but rather, she
would want both of you
to
set your life and future
right. She will support
your dreams and visions
and help you build up
your Christian life. In fact,
she will exhibit the
spirit of humility and you
will also discover she is
a precious jewel in a glass
jar, reserved for you
alone.
So from today, even if she
herself brings sex, tell
her..."Do not awaken love
until it is time." And if
you guys love each other,
plan about marrying
and submit your plans to God. He will bless it and put you two together as one.. Ladies...you should be careful.
I wish u read all to the
last.....our ladies are dying
in the hands of some
unmerciful men.