Kennyodinye:
A Very Stupid Porvety Minded Post

Dclique:

Wait first?! With whose money?

Kennyodinye:
A Very Stupid Porvety Minded Post

Monalisa185:
it's a no no for me...

My traditional marriage will be strictly in my father's compound in the village then the church wedding will be where my husband to-be will be based and where he has more friends.

You see? Holding both weddings on the same day won't be possible

Kennyodinye:
A Very Stupid Porvety Minded Post

Kennyodinye:
A Very Stupid Porvety Minded Post

empress101:
Nice points tho.. but I will still love to do it on different days...

AuroraB:
Ummmmm, it's Federal Government funded, I think

san316:
Na wa oooh. Traditional wedding inside church?

Monalisa185:
it's a no no for me...

My traditional marriage will be strictly in my father's compound in the village then the church wedding will be where my husband to-be will be based and where he has more friends.

You see? Holding both weddings on the same day won't be possible

Driftingking:

4) You will have your spouse in shorter time.

Usually, it’s only after the white wedding that everybody will recognize you as husband and wife and you will be able to move into your new house.

If the traditional wedding is in January and the white is in July, you will have to wait a whole six months before you can have your spouse to yourself and if you are waiting until your wedding night, that will be unplanned extra waiting period for you.

Having it the same day will mean by the end of the day, you both are married in everyone’s eyes and both of you can do whatever you want together.

Ishilove:

I don't know who came up with this fuckery. God steps into a marriage the very moment your bride price is paid. It is man and our carnal wisdom that came up with this nonsense, thus limiting us. I don't know what scriptural backing prohibits a man from 'knowing' his wife after he has performed all the traditional rights of marriage. Even the whole concept of 'white wedding' has carnal roots.

samhay:
Godiloveu, am sitting comfortably here waiting for Ur arrival

Monalisa185:
it's a no no for me...

My traditional marriage will be strictly in my father's compound in the village then the church wedding will be where my husband to-be will be based and where he has more friends.

You see? Holding both weddings on the same day won't be possible

baddosky1:


Afonja oily soup don't allow men from South East to marry their women but their men drool over SE women.

snowblaq:
.....isnt the white / church wedding usually done in the bride's church?.....so how can it b wr the husband is based if the bride doesn't base there too

nwakibie3:



That means the bills for the one to be performed in ur father's compound will be on u while the one of where I base will be on me

I won't be the type who would leave all the marriage expenses for my husband to-be... That one no go be problem

Monalisa185:


who made it a rule that church weddings must take place in the bride's church? Are you a catholic? No offense

snowblaq:
.....no not a catholic......i.just know that as a norm....i'm yet to see a church wedding taking place in a guy's church unless they worship in the same church......which still makes it the girls church anyway

ChristyG:
if only u know how many are enjoying that 'oily' soup, u won't be here making noise online.i know of a couple that just got married recently, the man is from ebonyi state while d woman is from osun.there are a lot of them I have seen on Instagram. but u can't pretend to not have seen any

ShaqFu:
How do you know "God steps into a marriage the moment the bride price is paid?".

Ishilove:

I don't know who came up with this fuckery. God steps into a marriage the very moment your bride price is paid. It is man and our carnal wisdom that came up with this nonsense, thus limiting us. I don't know what scriptural backing prohibits a man from 'knowing' his wife after he has performed all the traditional rights of marriage. Even the whole concept of 'white wedding' has carnal roots.