Every Woman is a Prostitute--Cisi Eze

“I knew that my profession had been invented by men, (…) men force women to sell their bodies at a price, and that the lowest paid body is that of a wife. All women are prostitutes of one kind or another.” – Nawal el Saadawi’s “Woman at Point Zero”.

Prostitution is “engaging in sexual activity with another person in exchange for money or other valuable goods.” Prostitution is sex trade. It is between two parties. Why do we denigrate only one party?
If there were no buyer, would there have been a seller? This goes both ways.

Society grooms girls to see romantic relationships as a source of income while teaching men to see income as a source of romantic relationships. We should not pretend an AVERAGE Nigerian girl does not go into romantic relationships for money.

Some guy once tweeted about a girl he asked on a date. It turned out the girl asked for “hair money” before the date.

“I’m broke,” a girl says.

“Don’t you have a boyfriend?” her friend asks and goes on to say, “My boyfriend does not miss it. He sends me 40k every month.”

How did having a boyfriend become an occupation? As I often say, Prostitution, like blue, has several hues.

Having sex with my boyfriend, a man that pays for my weaves and all that, does not make me different from that woman that sleeps with different men to get money to pay for her weaves and all that. Is it because she sleeps with different men? (Are humans naturally monogamous? If you are bringing in religion into this, aren’t we all fornicating? Is it not the same eternal damnation? People that claimed they went to school still believe “the vagina gets loose” after “too much sex”. Really, they should read and re-educate themselves.)

Most men believe it is their duty to cater to their ADULT girlfriends and wives. I am yet to understand why a physically fit adult has to cater to another physically fit adult. I could easily decide to get married this year – I’d call any of the men that think they are in love with me and I’d say I’m now interested in getting married and become a trophy wife. Does a boy, my age mate, have the same choice? Would he not face ridicule for being a trophy husband? I live in a society where a girl tweets, “What is your role as a boyfriend if you can’t provide everything your girl wants?” Do we hold girls to the same standard?

One of the foci of gender equality, a.k.a feminism, is getting rid of double standards in all aspects of human life. People, regardless of their sexes, should be held to the same standards in ALL aspects of life. Until we get rid of the double standards in respect to how the sexes view romantic relationships, I am afraid female sexuality would remain a currency.

Women should stop feeling entitled to men’s money – we should stop viewing romantic relationships as moneymaking ventures.

Men should stop feeling responsible for women. They should stop seeing money as a way to “find love”.

There is no point getting sanctimonious in the presence of sex workers if we believe men are obligated to cater to women while women are to be catered to. That would make us hypocrites.

P.S.
I love you… but you are a prostitute if your main aim in that romantic relationship is to make money off your “bae”.

You enable prostitution if you feel you NEED money to get love, affection, and sex from a woman in the guise of “romantic relationship”. “I need money to impress her…” Bro, swerve!

P.P.S.
The Functionalist School of Thought in sociology believes prostitution is beneficial to society. You could read that up on your own. Often, I ask myself what makes prostitution different from plumbing. They both render services. Is it because of sex? What is this thing about sex?

P.P.P. S.
Do you look down on sex workers because “it is morally and spiritually wrong”? Do you realise you have a habit that is “morally and spiritually wrong”? It could be that you’re signing into the office at the wrong time. A lie is a lie even when coated with white. So, calm down. If sex workers want to go to hell, let them go to hell in peace. Are they affecting you negatively in any way?

P.P.P.P.S.
I am in awe of women that have put a price on themselves – they have not let people put a price on them. Cheers to every woman that has understood society has made our sexuality a currency. Do you think it is easy sharing yourself with people? All that courage! At times, I wish I could bend myself in a way I would not mind trading my sexuality with a man for money. Men seem to have more money. Cher Dieu, mais pourquoi! Those of us not trading our sexuality for money should start asking ourselves if we lack business acumen.

rubbish

Lol Op who took your money

Well u have some valid points but maybe not literally a prostitute but maybe the guy too mumu (they exist ) and she might only take from that one guy sha

But if its like often then .. you are right
But i heard in iTaly its an actual profession dunno how true it is o . They will tel u they don't lack business whatever u typed there
At the end of the day na she get her kitty her biz

What's the definition of prostitute? Prostitutes are not faithful to a single customer.

What is genuine love without sacrifice from both parties? There must be something that one should be able to give in a relationship.

It's pathetic that people view relationship as an investment. My head de confuse me sef, bumbae1 don talk am finish.

Everyone is becoming a relationship expert.

Dextology:
What's the definition of prostitute?

Who sells their body in exchange for money or material things without any strings attached , love , lust etc
Its just sex and pay or other sexual acts ..

Not sure what escorts do though thought its the same

i didnt read the dude's write up.....too long


can a kind soul tell me what op z talking about

Bumbae1:

Who sells their body in exchange for money or material things without any strings attached , love , lust etc
Its just sex and pay or other sexual acts ..

Not sure what escorts do though thought its the same

Prostitutes have numerous customers, random sexual pervert men that come across them every night. They can sleep with more men for a day as long as they can pay the agreed price.

Any man that approach a lady for relationship should not that he's accept to take responsibility of the lady's need even if she doesn't demand for it.

There are some ladies that still give guys money in relationships, I see it as vice versa. Genuine love is all about sacrifice.
Any guy still collecting money from his parent to shave his beard should not bother wooing any lady

My own mama no be prostitute.

God bless her.

Spot on olosho na human too ooooo.

Some sells their body for grades some for fame some for job and connection full house wife for food

AggressiveFucker:

Lol u know i have never seen u type a sentence lol dat meme tho

Money+ sex = prostitute


If your babe collects money from you, and you also have sex with her, she is a hoe
The different is just the packaging

Bumbae1:


Lol u know i have never seen u type a sentence lol dat meme tho

Ermm i thought ladies dont like guys that talk too much...


well since u'd prefer i type rather than use memes i'll oblige u but remember u asked 4 it



oh and b4 i start i'd like u to know that what am about to say falls under the 1.09% of the things i say here that'd be true since 98.91% aiint true








mi-lady the undiluted message i was trying to pass through that meme that has done inarticulately in conveying my real thoughts can be put in simplex and expressed encapsulate as this : ma'am u're extremely beautiful,elegant,gorgeous charming,adorable,chic,lovely,enchanting,stylish,din-kum,goodlooking,hot,sexy,necterine-like,radiant,lah-di-dah,super pretty and quaint.........u certainly possess the flawless figure8 and my oh my are ur hips gargantuan,impeccable accentuated, well-turned and titillating......and i so much envy the dick who'd take u all to himself alone

Dextology:
What's the definition of prostitute? Prostitutes are not faithful to a single customer.

Maybe you should see it from this direction.

Girls who demand and expect money from their bf are consultants prostitute. Most consultants are faithful to their employers.

In the same vane, people have personal drivers. Maybe having a gf is like having a personal prostitute.


Its about the money bro



Have Sex with ya gf anytime she comes around and don't give her money for 1 month. Come here to yell us if she's still your gf