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If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 8:35pm On Mar 02, 2017
okay I need honest and matured answers please.


Edited: I /we need female opinion please

Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Mar 02, 2017
Let it go
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 8:39pm On Mar 02, 2017
xstry:
Let it go
Smiles.....without saying anything to mum?
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
Smiles.....without saying anything to mum?
I'll scold her, but not in front of my wife.
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by donolatunji(m): 8:43pm On Mar 02, 2017
xstry:
I'll scold her, but not in front of my wife.
Pls If I May Ask Why Wont You Scold Her If She's Guilty On All Grounds? Edakun Ee Explain Fun Mi
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by PetrePan(m): 8:48pm On Mar 02, 2017
Well,it depends on the situation..the wife must have done something very wrong... Buh i'll say for someone to be a wife,she has to be an adult,a mature person..it 'll be more wise/mature of the mother to call the wife and talk to her like her daughter instead of raising hand..
A good mother will surely not slap her son's wife..
Buh when a hot tempered mother meets a tempered wife..mehn,controversy will surely erupt..na yawa o
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 8:49pm On Mar 02, 2017
xstry:
I'll scold her, but not in front of my wife.
hnmmmm. ...and your wife??
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by ybalogs(m): 8:51pm On Mar 02, 2017
Depends on the cause. But still, my wife won't be there when I'm taking my actions.
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by cobadit(m): 8:54pm On Mar 02, 2017
Though my mom can't do such(not an handicap) but if she does then I will do nothing because my wife must have done something very stupid to deserve that from my mom
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 8:59pm On Mar 02, 2017
ybalogs:
Depends on the cause. But still, my wife won't be there when I'm taking my actions.
Smiles. ...well, how do you expect her to know what you have done or said behind her?? and what are the actions u will take??
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
hnmmmm. ...and your wife??
na to tell her sorry now, shit happens. I'll talk it out with mum and tell her to apologize to my wife

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by BreezyRita(f): 9:01pm On Mar 02, 2017
Is a female's opinion needed?
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by ybalogs(m): 9:02pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
Smiles. ...well, how do you expect her to know what you have done or said behind her?? and what are the actions u will take??
Bro,the greatest rivalry is between your wife and your mum. Dealing with the two requires a lot of wisdom. In fact,it requires a lot of lies. Just utter what each if them wants to hear and move on. Trying to please one in the presence of the other may backfire so bro, God's guidance.

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 02, 2017
donolatunji:

Pls If I May Ask Why Wont You Scold Her If She's Guilty On All Grounds? Edakun Ee Explain Fun Mi
lol

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 9:03pm On Mar 02, 2017
cobadit:
Though my mom can't do such(not an handicap) but if she does then I will do nothing because my wife must have done something very stupid to deserve that from my mom
A hot tempered mum meets a hot tempered wife? We all human and will do some not too cool stuffs sometimes.

You think rasing a hand on your wife(mum or not) is justified by what she did??

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 9:04pm On Mar 02, 2017
BreezyRita:
Is a female's opinion needed?
yes please.
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by coolebux(m): 9:05pm On Mar 02, 2017
Some mothers can be so arrogant bearing in mind that "after all it's my son's money that you're spending"
If such is the case and she has to hit my wife, I can give her the grace in the first attempt and allow my wife to react in the subsequent scenes.
But if she was tempted to do so owing to my wife's stubbornness then I'll let her know that she's wrong to do so.

Either way, no human has the effing right to beat my wife QED.

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Ikem11(m): 9:07pm On Mar 02, 2017
My mom can slap me and I won't say a word.. So if my wife does same thing that result my mom slapping me and she slaps her I won't Stil say a word. After all na her daughter in law... Same as her daughter
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 9:07pm On Mar 02, 2017
ybalogs:

Bro,the greatest rivalry is between your wife and your mum. Dealing with the two requires a lot of wisdom. In fact,it requires a lot of lies. Just utter what each if them wants to hear and move on. Trying to please one in the presence of the other may backfire so bro, God's guidance.
Am in love with this comment

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Mar 02, 2017
if she comes visiting, the following day she will leave for her husband house
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 9:13pm On Mar 02, 2017
Ikem11:
My mom can slap me and I won't say a word.. So if my wife does same thing that result my mom slapping me and she slaps her I won't Stil say a word. After all na her daughter in law... Same as her daughter
guy has Ur mum slapped u before thinking u were guilty or a misunderstanding? tell me u av not wished if she wasn't Ur mum, what u would av done? Then think now that such happens with your wife and you think all women will just take it??

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by cobadit(m): 9:14pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
A hot tempered mum meets a hot tempered wife? We all human and will do some not too cool stuffs sometimes.

You think rasing a hand on your wife(mum or not) is justified by what she did??
..... What else is not her action or what she might have said
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 9:14pm On Mar 02, 2017
2kaybiel:
if she comes visiting, the following day she will leave for her husband house
lolz.....honest enough


but that doesn't solve the problem o
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by BreezyRita(f): 9:44pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
yes please.

Firstly, your mother has no right whatsoever to hit your wife. For what na? And as what? Even the husband shouldn't hit his wife na the mama go get dat kain power? She can't even slap my kid sef!

I cannot tell you what you should do but here's how I'll feel:
If my husband refuses to speak up there and then, I'll be led to believe he condones(even encourages) the act and that it was a plan between them.

So I'll expect hubby to tell his mother that slapping me was an extreme and unnecessary move. No matter the issue at hand, try not to take sides but make it abundantly clear that your wife isn't a child she can spank anyhow.

If a mother is still having such power in her son's marriage, it goes to show his level of maturity.

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by BreezyRita(f): 9:50pm On Mar 02, 2017
cobadit:
Though my mom can't do such(not an handicap) but if she does then I will do nothing because my wife must have done something very stupid to deserve that from my mom
With this your comment, I won't be surprised if you say a man should hit his wife when she does 'something very stupid'.
Swidy, adults talk. They try to settle differences.

What would you say if your mother-in-law slapped you?

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 10:23pm On Mar 02, 2017
BreezyRita:

Firstly, your mother has no right whatsoever to hit your wife. For what na? And as what? Even the husband shouldn't hit his wife na the mama go get dat kain power? She can't even slap my kid sef!

I cannot tell you what you should do but here's how I'll feel:
If my husband refuses to speak up there and then, I'll be led to believe he condones(even encourages) the act and that it was a plan between them.

So I'll expect hubby to tell his mother that slapping me was an extreme and unnecessary move. No matter the issue at hand, try not to take sides but make it abundantly clear that your wife isn't a child she can spank anyhow.

If a mother is still having such power in her son's marriage, it goes to show his level of maturity.
way to go. your last statement is hnmmmm.



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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by BreezyRita(f): 10:30pm On Mar 02, 2017
Lalasticlala
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Ikem11(m): 10:46pm On Mar 02, 2017
Alezy:
guy has Ur mum slapped u before thinking u were guilty or a misunderstanding? tell me u av not wished if she wasn't Ur mum, what u would av done? Then think now that such happens with your wife and you think all women will just take it??
I never wish my mum isn't my mum and will never do. Meanwhile no mother slaps her child to wicked her child but all stands for your best if u look at it in a parental way. Don't worry when you have a child you wll understand what am talking about.
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by BreezyRita(f): 11:07pm On Mar 02, 2017
Ikem11:
I never wish my mum isn't my mum and will never do. Meanwhile no mother slaps her child to wicked her child but all stands for your best if u look at it in a parental way. Don't worry when you have a child you wll understand what am talking about.

Oh please! The Bible says to train up a child in the way he should go............from it. You do your job training him well, you don't have to train him till you die.
The fact that he is married means he's an adult and can make decisions by himself. Don't need you butting in to the point of harassing his wife.

No mother slaps her child to wicked her? Biko, have you met in-laws that are at war? Simply put, have you met a wicked mother-in-law?

If she's still training up her child after he's married, fine. Just train him alone. My momma trained me well.

BTW, while growing up, there were times I wished I could exchange my mom for my friend's. Doesn't meaning didn't love her then.
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by lotannad: 4:14am On Mar 03, 2017
if my mil slaps me in my husband's presence,i would expect my hubby to intervene there&then and tell her she shdnt hv done dt and for her to later apologise coz i would never deliberately insult an older person.
if he does anything else,each time d woman wants to come to our house,i will look for somewhere to go Nd while away time&give my husband d silent treatment for sometime unless he apologizes and steps into d matter.

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Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by khiaa(f): 9:48am On Mar 03, 2017
Alezy:
way to go. your last statement is hnmmmm.



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lalasticlala (hope I got the spelling right) and oga seun please come take this to fp. Thanks

kiss
Re: If Your Mum Slaps Your Wife In Front Of You....your Reaction? ?? by Alezy(m): 12:20pm On Mar 03, 2017
khiaa:

kiss
still waiting for the call

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