progress69:


Total BS!

How many guys asked for your permission before touching u?
Like Poshestmina or whatever u call ursef....can i touch ur clit?

U babes are emotionally hypocritical clowns

If i may i ask, how many times have u pretended to be sleeping while u are enjoying the touching..?.

I think I should have Toke, Bami and the likes arrested for throwing themselves at me and practically harassing me in the name of being drunk.....

Its ok when its the babes! Tmr u want gender equality.


Shior!!!

pressplay411:


A chilled Orijin would do.

pressplay411:
The answer is simple. Big Brother lacks the moral obligation to disqualify Kemen over his situation with Tboss when worse has been condoned.

The show itself reeks of immorality, period.
Several acts of immorality; sexual and non sexual have been perpetrated by contestants and condoned by the organisers of the show since it's inception. But what makes this special? Yes, ladies we agree it was a sensitive and delicate issue and in fact inexcusable, but were you expecting morality from an immoral show?

Where were you when Debby Rise violated Bassey? Or it doesn't count when a man is the victim?
Or where was BigBrother when married TTT was being serviced by Bisola? Why didn't BigBrother (the informant) inform her of his marital status? Maybe that just wasn't immoral enough.

Perhaps the most hypocritical part on Big brother would have to be in 2007, remember the fingergate scandal between Richard and Ofunekka? How convenient that BigBrother even rewarded the culprit with the prize of the competition. But now disqualify Kemen for a less grievous act?

In conclusion, BigBrotherNigeria is not a realityshow that prides itself over it's moral standards, so to escalate this Kemen-Tboss situation to the level of disqualification was just plain hypocritical. Especially considering that TBoss didn't even lodge a complaint, rather BigBrother blew the whole situation out of proportion.

Kemen would henceforth be stigmatized and become victimized as a sex offender which would damage his relationship and business. He should and must sue for damages and in fact defamation of character.

Pointblank09:
You deserve a very cold beer of your choice.
Let bros Lal move it to the permanent site.
A program that is immoral since 1800AD
Someone is now teaching a moral lesson out of it.
Why pair males and females to sleep on the same bed.
More than 90% of men will touch, including those who are blaming the guy.
Dedicate FTC to All

RaggedyAnn:





Touching someone sexually without their consent is wrong, (full stop!) If you have been doing it to people, or if you have had it done to you, then be educated about it - it's a gross violation of your body. It is such a sad sad thing that so many Nigerians do not even understand what Kemen did wrong, and it speaks to the culture of the people. It is no wonder there is little outrage over children getting molested on the streets and in their homes, while the perpetrators find the guts to claim "they wanted it". It's no wonder there is little outrage over girls getting raped a few times too many, and too many women get beaten up in marriages for refusing to have sex.

Every person has an inalienable right to dignity of their human person, just by being born a human being. If a person is forced into any action he/she is unwilling to do, if a person is subjected to humiliation, if a person is held in servitude to another, all without consent, it violates their fundamental right. Rape is a violation of that right. Rape isn't damaging because sex is physically painful; it is damaging because it takes away the control/ownership over one's body, even for that brief moment the repercussions are devastating and victims are left with a lesser sense of self. They are broken, sometimes beyond repair.

It is important to get consent if you want to avoid a lawsuit. Consent must be explicit and it cannot be given by a minor, a mentally unfit person, or a sleeping body. Tboss refused to kiss Kemen even in the truth or dare games, she was clear about the fact that she did not like him. And after she told him this in no uncertain terms in a general forum initiated by Debie-Rise, he finally promised to give up his pursuit. And then he went and did this, sticking his hand beneath her covers. His intentions were clearly dubious - when he looked around prior to the act, he didn't leave much room for interpretation. Now people want him to sue? Kemen will know better. He should hope he doesn't get sued for assault. All it takes is one unwanted finger in a place it does not belong.

Big brother may have been written off as an immoral show, but if it can demonstrate that there is a difference between consensual sex and sexual assault by disqualifying Kemen, then it does indeed have moral value to offer to our hypocritical and highly immoral society.

1bkaye:
It isn't about 'morality', it's about the fact that he touched someone whilst she was sleeping, without her C.O.N.S.E.N.T (permission for something to happen or agreement to do something - definition added because I know a lot of you Nigerian men sometimes find this particular word difficult to grasp) plus he's had a history on the show of saying rapey things which he's already been warned about, this was the last straw and he was rightfully disqualified

Toks2008:


Will you please stop!

Why bore us with what we know already?

The question is what moral value can be learned from an immoral and satanic show where sexual immorality is being beamed to the world...

So much Boobs sucking. .. mouth Aktion...love making....and now you are trying to use Grammer to .... abeg park well ...

In a normal morally decent show what he did would have been considered very terrible but not in that useless show.

pressplay411:
The answer is simple. Big Brother lacks the moral obligation to disqualify Kemen over his situation with Tboss when worse has been condoned.

The show itself reeks of immorality, period.
Several acts of immorality; sexual and non sexual have been perpetrated by contestants and condoned by the organisers of the show since it's inception. But what makes this special? Yes, ladies we agree it was a sensitive and delicate issue and in fact inexcusable, but were you expecting morality from an immoral show?

Where were you when Debby Rise violated Bassey? Or it doesn't count when a man is the victim?
Or where was BigBrother when married TTT was being serviced by Bisola? Why didn't BigBrother (the informant) inform her of his marital status? Maybe that just wasn't immoral enough.

Perhaps the most hypocritical part on Big brother would have to be in 2007, remember the fingergate scandal between Richard and Ofunekka? How convenient that BigBrother even rewarded the culprit with the prize of the competition. But now disqualify Kemen for a less grievous act?

In conclusion, BigBrotherNigeria is not a realityshow that prides itself over it's moral standards, so to escalate this Kemen-Tboss situation to the level of disqualification was just plain hypocritical. Especially considering that TBoss didn't even lodge a complaint, rather BigBrother blew the whole situation out of proportion.

Kemen would henceforth be stigmatized and become victimized as a sex offender which would damage his relationship and business. He should and must sue for damages and in fact defamation of character.

RaggedyAnn:





Repeat:Big brother may have been written off as an immoral show, but if it can demonstrate that there is a difference between consensual sex and sexual assault by disqualifying Kemen, then it does indeed have moral value to offer to our hypocritical and highly immoral society.



What you already know? Whatever that is. While some might only find it entertaining, you are exactly the type of person the show seeks to educate. You have no idea what you should truly be offended by in this world because you do not know the value of a person. You would probably censor a nak.ed human being over a butchered body.

Built2last:
I agree.

Kemen has to sue. Tboss is a grown adult and she should have gone to report immediately after waking up the next morning.

She should have displayed her displeasure by standing up from That bed. Whose bed was that even?

You kept grown adults in a place ..allow them sleep on same bed in cold south Africa...and expect them to masturbate. Why didn't you make the rules that no bed sharing for opposite seX.

Payporte or oweport or whatever they called themselves lacks moral stands to expel Kemen on that basis.

He should head to court. He has to shake them atleast and redeem his name.


But whoever woman no kill for this life. E go reach gate of heaven at least.

chykmoni:
People who do not watch the show should not write rubbish about the show. Who told the 'OP' that the show is all about 'immorality' what a fallacy! Big brother has rules and regulations and Kemen has been violating the rules
this was his last strike and the penalty is disqualification. The last time he deviated from the rule, he was given the rule book to memorize for about 6 hours. So the moment he woke up and acted 'camera concious' before sneaking into the bed was the moment he shot himself at the foot.

Thedrebaba:
Is it not the same Tboss that flashed her breast for the whole nigeria to see at the start of big brother and she willingly slept in the same bed with a man that has a crush on her and doesn't want to be touched?

Built2last:

pressplay411:

massinola:

You guys are just too impossible. Go back to Debie Rise vs Bassey video, you will find out Bassey was fast asleep. Debie has tried several times to get intimate with Bassey even during parties but Bassey has always resisted her. She did it while Bassey was asleep. The question still remains, does it mean the invisible BigB didn't see that? Why did he not call Bassey to ask if he consented to that? Many unanswered questions. You are telling me you can be fingered without waking up? Haba! Na wood you be? The whole bigbrother thing is turning as if stage managed

RaggedyAnn:





Touching someone sexually without their consent is wrong, (full stop!) If you have been doing it to people, or if you have had it done to you, then be educated about it - it's a gross violation of your body. It is such a sad sad thing that so many Nigerians do not even understand what Kemen did wrong, and it speaks to the culture of the people. It is no wonder there is little outrage over children getting molested on the streets and in their homes, while the perpetrators find the guts to claim "they wanted it". It's no wonder there is little outrage over girls getting raped a few times too many, and too many women get beaten up in marriages for refusing to have sex.

Every person has an inalienable right to dignity of their human person, just by being born a human being. If a person is forced into any action he/she is unwilling to do, if a person is subjected to humiliation, if a person is held in servitude to another, all without consent, it violates their fundamental right. Rape is a violation of that right. Rape isn't damaging because sex is physically painful; it is damaging because it takes away the control/ownership over one's body, even for that brief moment the repercussions are devastating and victims are left with a lesser sense of self. They are broken, sometimes beyond repair.

It is important to get consent if you want to avoid a lawsuit. Consent must be explicit and it cannot be given by a minor, a mentally unfit person, or a sleeping body. Tboss refused to kiss Kemen even in the truth or dare games, she was clear about the fact that she did not like him. And after she told him this in no uncertain terms in a general forum initiated by Debie-Rise, he finally promised to give up his pursuit. And then he went and did this, sticking his hand beneath her covers. His intentions were clearly dubious - when he looked around prior to the act, he didn't leave much room for interpretation. Now people want him to sue? Kemen will know better. He should hope he doesn't get sued for assault. All it takes is one unwanted finger in a place it does not belong.

Big brother may have been written off as an immoral show, but if it can demonstrate that there is a difference between consensual sex and sexual assault by disqualifying Kemen, then it does indeed have moral value to offer to our hypocritical and highly immoral society.

KennyID17:
Everywhere we go on dus matter, na consent this consent that. Person dey touch u (according to popular belief) u wake up, raise d bed sheet u see Weytin dey happen all u did was turn, no reaction no vexing mo nothing. Next thing na rape all of Una dey shout. And for those of u saying bassey consented to Debby kissing him, Una b hypocrites. I would saying again, d reason y all of Una dey clamour Ontop kemen head is that y'all just hate/dislike d nigga.

geekybabe:


So if I open a pot of jollof rice in front of you, is it an invitation that you should bring your spoon??

This is not about morality. Its about consent. Silence is not consent. He is d one that kept sleeping on her bed despite all her previous warnings. Many others shared bed and nothing happened. was he the only one dat saw a bare breast??

Toks2008:


All your rants can be likened to condemning sexual assault in a sex party and would have made more sense if we were not discussing the perverted BBnaija show...

Have a great day.

DukeSolexx:
Bro.. It is the end for him concerning his character and his presentce around opposite sex... He has to sue for defamation of Character big time.
....and those asking if it was consensual, mind you not all consensual action require word being spoken.

Those that allow alcohol and immorality into the house from inception should condone stuff like this and be ready to sort it out amicable in the house with lesser punishment without assasinating the poor boy's character.
Kemen should get a good lawyer and sue for defamation of character to the tune of 1B Naira, trust me he will win or there will be out of court settlement for 200Mil. Else fear no go let his neighbour leave their daughter under his care...smh

poshestmina:
lol...u are not the one in the center here bro ,Tboss and Kemen are and you sound really dumb . You don't have to ask for permission to touch a woman but atleast wait for when she's not vulnerable .that's the point!

massingale:


Hey! Do you know Spiff in 'The Johnsons' comedy series? If no, try and check his character in the series, then you'll know what I mean.
I've been following your threads and you've been off-points all along.

progress69:

Emotional BS!

Keep living in self deceit!