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Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by nferyn(m): 3:34pm On Jan 17, 2006
These new smileys make me think I'm in casino looking at a slot machine
especially these ones:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by layi(m): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2006
I don't really like these. I get the feeling i'm learning ABCs here.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by nicetohave(m): 3:38pm On Jan 17, 2006
nferyn:

These new smileys make me think I'm in casino looking at a slot machine
especially these ones:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin shocked shocked shocked shocked

gambler you cheesy cool hehehehe  cool

layi:

I don't really like these. I get the feeling i'm learning ABCs here.

And 123 too, cheesy cool
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by Z4M4eva(f): 4:12pm On Jan 17, 2006
This new smileys are so fxxkin kool!awesome! smiley wink cheesy grin angry sad shocked cool rolleyes tongue embarassed lipsrsealed kiss undecided cry!!!
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by nicetohave(m): 5:22pm On Jan 17, 2006
nferyn:

These new smileys make me think I'm in casino looking at a slot machine
especially these ones:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin shocked shocked shocked shocked

layi:

I don't really like these. I get the feeling i'm learning ABCs here.

Z4M4eva:

This new smileys are so fxxkin kool!awesome! smiley wink cheesy grin angry sad shocked cool rolleyes tongue embarassed lipsrsealed kiss undecided cry!!!
different strokes for different folks rolleyes
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by bernieman(m): 6:31pm On Jan 18, 2006
lmao@CASPER.

deven though your friend married his wife a virgine,was she still a virgin after marriage and before child birth,I beg that is not enough excuse to be there when one's wife is about to put to birth.I will be there when my wife will be putting to birth and that will happen soon.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by roca(f): 4:52am On Jan 19, 2006
man as am screamin he better be beside me screamin as well
4 me i will like my boo 2 be dere cuz people say is an experience so i will like 2 see him go thru it dats if i can see at dat moment.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by nicetohave(m): 8:39pm On Jan 19, 2006
roca:

[color=#000099]man as am screamin he better be beside me screamin as well

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cool
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by roca(f): 9:54pm On Jan 19, 2006
true talk it takes 2 tangle so he might as well do his part as well
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by loriann(f): 12:10pm On Jan 20, 2006
will love it if my husband is there rolleyes rolleyes
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by Elizabeth(f): 11:36am On Jan 23, 2006
Yes,i prefered my husband to be there with me. For him to know what i went through before giving birth, i think is fun anyway. cool
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by OluAbuja(m): 12:19pm On Jan 23, 2006
What a great day it was for me in 2001 when we had our first child (daughter). The girl makes me happy.

Guys, my wife was really glad i was right there when t all happened.

First, my BOSS came from Lagos to Abuja for a crucial meeting at Ministry Of Defence. Suddenly my friend Biyi called me that my was in for it.

I dashed down to Fereprod Clinic and behold the process of pushing, crying, encouraging, patting her and asking her to co-operate with the doctor began.

It was a lovely experience. I LOVE MY WIFE for going through that pain for us. Yes, for us.

The second experience was very sad. I was also there but we lost that baby. He was a boy and come see me cry when he was brought out dead. I cried not because we lost that baby but because she will still have to go through the process of 9months pregnancy, ante natal sessions and eventual delivery. We will stop when the 2nd child comes.

E yin boys, ko easy at all for a woman to be pregnant for 9months. I really feel for them.

So, take care of your wife if you are married or when you get married.

Olu smiley

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Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by mikun(f): 12:32pm On Jan 23, 2006
My husband was there the two times and believe me I glad he was. He was an encourager and was there all the way, whenever I confessed negatively , he was contradicting everything, holding legs, rubbing my back etc. In fact if anyone asks him, he wouldn't have missed it for anything. He was strong througout . I couldn't have asked for any other person.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by larger20(m): 7:13pm On Jan 23, 2006
mikun:

My husband was there the two times and believe me I glad he was. He was an encourager and was there all the way, whenever I confessed negatively , he was contradicting everything, holding legs, rubbing my back etc. In fact if anyone asks him, he wouldn't have missed it for anything. He was strong througout . I couldn't have asked for any other person.

Wow Great..I like personal experince like this..I wouldnt be there though during my own time hehe
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by ono(m): 9:40am On Feb 01, 2006
Emoticons: Somebody should tell these emoticons posters that they are boring the daylight out of me!! Gosh!
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by justme: 5:15pm On Feb 01, 2006
me i'd want my man to be there! i once stayed with an aunt of mine (on request fom her) cos her husband was away, and its her first child, so she was aprehensive, and didn't want to be left alone with total strangers,.... but she's a strong woman, and didn't cry one bit except ask if there was any pain killers she could use, men! i was proud of her, so much courage, but she still missed her husband and refused to leave the hospital till he came which was 5 days after.
thinking back now i think he was absent on purpose(with a lousy excuse of a biz trip
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by eveseh(f): 3:47pm On Apr 28, 2006
some men does it
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by Izzo(m): 8:59am On Jul 24, 2006
That is one of the day I just can't wait to see. Cause i'd love to bare her though the pains and screamings. cry kiss cry kiss
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by Mystique(f): 7:18am On Jul 26, 2006
Me thinks, i'll luv 4 my hubby to be there, so i'll hav somebody 2 scream at cheesy
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by shawna(f): 7:23am On Jul 26, 2006
i hope my husband will be there when am in labour holding my hand while i scream my ass off cheesy
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by SirKay3(m): 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2006
As usual, I was there with her again on the 11th of June, 2006, when she was about to put to bed. Exactly 7.40am, a baby girl, named Ayomide was added to our family

Ladies and women here and elsewhere, I bow for una o. It's not always easy on that day. Prayerfully, God will keep on granting you all safe delivery
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by shantell(f): 8:53pm On Aug 07, 2006
i would love my husband to be there to share the joy and the bond to hold my hands even if i shout and scream at him he should know dat its because of the pain.
yes! my husband must b with me in the labor room thru out,
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by rasque(m): 6:08pm On Aug 08, 2006
Its a sure thing
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by ladykool(f): 8:43pm On Sep 23, 2006
why wil ma husband be with me during labor huh! NO i dont want him to be there even though he wants to be there no i dont want him.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by Bossman(m): 6:03pm On Sep 28, 2006
Yep! I was there (with camcorder/camera in hand) for the delivery of both of my kids. baby pics were up on the net before mom and baby even came home. smiley
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by ladykool(f): 6:07pm On Sep 29, 2006
shocked
i can believe this! shocked
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by okwanuzo3(f): 7:12pm On Sep 29, 2006
he's got to be there, so when i say no wan do, he'd understand
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by P3(m): 10:37pm On Oct 02, 2006
Was there for my first son. Pictures and all using still camera. The boy is 11+ now, and we still look at the pictures cheesy
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by myluv: 12:51pm On Oct 05, 2006
If i am to say, i would like my husband to be there with me during labour, and it must be only when i am the only woman in labour at a particular time because it is not wise for him to come in when there are other women in the labour room together with me. Now why i would like him to be by my side is this, His presence and his consolation with me in the labour room will help me alot to deliver very fast. It will also make him to build more luv for me and he will no longer take me for granted if he does before. So for these reasons i would want him in there with me. but i know my husband will not accept that, he will say MUM for what nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww but he must have to do that for me.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by serubawon(m): 4:01pm On Oct 18, 2006
I wish i could have been there when my kids were born, but the hospital didn't allow it. So i had to stay outside the delivery ward with all the other wimps.

I guess they had a high rate of fathers fainting in the ward.
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by dominobaby(f): 9:36pm On Oct 18, 2006
Fainting fathers? Lmao!
Re: Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife? by serubawon(m): 6:29pm On Oct 20, 2006
Fainting fathers? Lmao!

Nice that you find it funny. However o, waiting for your wife to deliver is a very trying experience. And i'm not the one pregnant o. Man dey suffer no be small.

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