I need to know how often a guy needs to call or text his bae to show he really loves and cares for her. Again, what sort of topics should a guy bring up that will interest her, aside the normal expression of love and asking how she is doing and all that, especially as most ladies ain't intersted in football or politics.

I had this experience which i will share with you guys so i can get to learn one or two things.

Recently i came across two girls, the first is from Akwaibom. She's very jovial and whenever we are together, the atmospher is always free for interaction, so i expressed myself freely. But i am not that inlove with her{perhaps the reason why i could say almost anything to her}. The second girl is from Delta, very intelligent, but more reserved. She totally has my heart, but whenever we are together, the atmospher is always tensed because i am always careful what to say. The probs now is that i think she maybe having the misconception that i can't converse properly. I really love her! Advise

If you, as a guy still ask primary questions like these, then I'm sorry to say this but you're not matured enough to date.

dollyjoy:
If you, as a guy still ask primary questions like these, then I'm sorry to say this but you're not matured enough to date.

Read the post first...

Well to me I would rather be myself to the second lady... Tryn to form good guy will only make matters worse...


Just try and be free with her.. Play with her... Girls like guys who are playful..

Try and talk to her through phone calls or text. If its uncomfortable to talk to her in physically, maybe the tension will decrease on the phone. They're so many things you can talk about. Ask her questions so that you can give her the opportunity to talk more. What are your hobbies? What do you do for fun? What do you look for in guys..stuff like that. You guys will get to know each other much and at the same time be more comfortable. When you eventually see each other, it won't be as awkward

Cutehector:
Well to me I would rather be myself to the second lady... Tryn to form good guy will only make matters worse...


Just try and be free with her.. Play with her... Girls like guys who are playful..

Ok, thanks.

it's not a matter of maturity and you are not alone. there are some persons you will hang out with the topic will be boring. but not so for others.

so its depends on persons to persons you interact with especially when the other person is not helping matters.

Safiaa:
Try and talk to her through phone calls or text. If its uncomfortable to talk to her in physically, maybe the tension will decrease on the phone. They're so many things you can talk about. Ask her questions so that you can give her the opportunity to talk more. What are your hobbies? What do you do for fun? What do you look for in guys..stuff like that. You guys will get to know each other much and at the same time be more comfortable. When you eventually see each other, it won't be as awkward

Thanks

I Call My Woman Once A Day Due To Our Busy Schedule,She Calls Me More Sef, But That 1 Call Can Take 30 Mins,Well,In Any Relationship I Go Into,I Have The "forming" Stage And The Stage Where We Are Not Just Lovers But Very Good Friends,I Always Tell My Woman That She Can Not Form For Me Cos We Have Gone Past That Stage,It Is Understandable Cos You Just Met,But That Shouldn't Make You Loose Her Before You Get Started,Just Be Yourself
Secondly,There Are Certain People You Meet That You Just Blend And Flow Naturally With,If A Lady Fancies You,She Will Not Be Giving You All These Short Answers,If She Does,Then Hollup A Bit,Also,Try As Much As Possible To Chat With Her More Often Than Calling Her,When You Call You Will Most Likely Finish Up Your Topic Fast,But While Chatting, You Have Time To Think, And As A Sharp Guy,You Have To Learn How To Pick Up Topics From Her Replies, It Is Key.

Finally Dont Try To Impress Her,Talk To Her Like You Talk To The Akwa Ibom Lady,I Bet You, You Two Will Begin To Flow Well.

Must you insult him? What's your predicament?

dollyjoy:
If you, as a guy still ask primary questions like these, then I'm sorry to say this but you're not matured enough to date.

NeeKlaus:
Well Bruv, the only thing I can tell you is that if you are trying to engage in a conversation with a BORING girl, she's gonna frustrate your efforts, TBH. Even if you are the very jovial kind.
Some of them were born with no sense of humour at all.


Honestly, take it from me, you don't wanna experience that.

I regard you