Tantric bodyworkers give whole body
massages to
help you get…wherever you need to get.
I mean
that in the prurient way. If you want to
have an
orgasm, you are certainly welcome to
and will be
aided in that way, but the sessions are
more about
exploring issues in your life, your
sexuality or
general spirit. It’s kind of a mashup
between a
therapy session, a spiritual quest and
an extremely thorough spa visit.
It sounds weird, and it is. But also not.
But then a
lot about tantric bodywork occupies a
space that’s
uncharted and in between.
Bodyworkers, who can get professional
certification
in California, Switzerland and Canada,
among other
progressive spots, aren’t sex workers or
prostitutes. They don’t have sex with
clients, yet
what happens during a session can be
quite
sexual. Incredibly deep personal
moments might
pass between client and bodyworker.
They are
often strangers, yet they see people in
their most
intimate vulnerable states. The whole
thing up-
ends so many ideas we think we know
about sex,
gender roles and relationships that it’s
hard to
know how to even think about it.
“Tantric bodywork is a beautiful and
brave act of
care and self-care,” writes tantric
bodyworker
Matthew on his hidden web page. “If and
when you
decide to receive this type of touch and
attention it
is an acknowledgment of yourself as a
sexual
person regardless of your sexual
preferences or the
level of sexual activity in your life.”
Matthew is based in New York City and
has been
doing bodywork for three years, working
with
mostly women and a handful of couples.
(He’s
happy to work with men, but says men
generally
prefer a gay bodyworker.) His clients
have ranged
a from a no-nonsense high-powered
businesswomen to a 75-year-old woman
whose
husband had not hugged her in 15 years,
much
less made love to her. “This was a
woman whose
body was starving for touch,” he says.
Every encounter is different, depending
on what the
women want to work on or what might
arise during
a session. One woman who had initially
asked him
to skip over her breasts because she’d
never had
much sensation there, ended up having a
“massive
emotional outpouring and suddenly had a
lot of
sensation in them.” Matthew says, “She
had a
crying orgasm that was more about grief
than it
was about pleasure for 20 minutes. 

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