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Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 17, 2017
I write this piece with sadness simply because I am currently passing through a serious challenge that has really affected negatively . I have spent the little I have, even have to borrow over the issue. God knows I don't have the strength to face it owing to the fact that am a low income earner even though am a graduate
I became a father 3 years ago, meaning I have a child of 3 years, yes, he is a boy!, but he had just refused to grow. Not physically but mentally. I don't know what to call this
My son of exactly three years has refused to talk, he behaves like a 3 months old baby, he does not respond to any command, plays with his faeces anytime he defecates. He can even start eating it if no one is around. This boy am talking about does not give or show any if he wants to urinate, eat or defecate. If you place food before him to eat, he will just scatter it on the floor. This behavior became a major source of concern to everyone in the neighborhood.infact, the mother is almost going crazy right now as she has lost interest in virtually everything. We have taken him to several places for possible solution most especially hospitals, they referred us to psychiatric hospital on several occasions, my house is full of so many brain test results. All the drugs prescribed are strictly followed but no results. Honestly, this boy's attitude irritates me each time he misbehaves. I put him in school whether he will improve, I also hired a private home teacher to help but all to no avail. I see his age mates around, they don't behave like that. Am completely devastated. I have spent everything I have just to get this boy well. Please anyone that know what I can do next because am tired.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Kenshinmunac(m): 9:09pm On Mar 17, 2017
what the ...!! shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by GogetterMD(m): 9:11pm On Mar 17, 2017
Definitely your child is not like every other child and has delayed delayed developmental milestones, that could be due to a myriad of reasons, usually genetic, or intrapartum pathologies
You need to see a paediatric neurologist.
Your wonderful son needs special care, but is it possible for him to grow up to be self sufficient? Yes, albeit challenging. Some autistic children have grown up to be doctors, engineers. Don't despise the poor boy cause none of this is his fault

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 17, 2017
My friend is going through same, her two children a 4 year old and 2. The both of them can't talk.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 17, 2017
I don't have any advice.


I pray for your child for healing.

In Jesus' name

That's what i've got.


I hope he will be fine soon.

Really touching.

yemi1261:
I write this piece with sadness simply because I am currently passing through a serious challenge that has really affected negativity. I have spent the little I have, even have to borrow over the issue. God knows I don't have the strength to face it owing to the fact that am a low income earner even though am a graduate
I became a father 3 years ago, meaning I have a child of 3 years, yes, he is a boy!, but he had just refused to grow. Not physically but mentally. I don't know what to call this
My son of exactly three years has refused to talk, he behaves like a 3 months old baby, he does not respond to any command, plays with his faeces anytime he defecates. He can even start eating it if no one is around. This boy am talking about does not give or show any if he wants to urinate, eat or defecate. If you place food before him to eat, he will just scatter it on the floor. This behavior became a major source of concern to everyone in the neighborhood.infact, the mother is almost going crazy right now as she has lost interest in virtually everything. We have taken him to several places for possible solution most especially hospitals, they referred us to psychiatric hospital on several occasions, my house is full of so many brain test results. All the drugs prescribed are strictly followed but no results. Honestly, this boy's attitude irritates me each time he misbehaves. I put him in school whether he will improve, I also hired a private home teacher to help but all to no avail. I see his age mates around, they don't behave like that. Am completely devastated. I have spent everything I have just to get this boy well. Please anyone that know what I can do next because am tired.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:17pm On Mar 17, 2017
I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions on your child's condition.


but I'm curious, which doctors in which hospital referred you to psychiatric hospitals? shocked

You need to see a pedatrician, who would recommend you to a specialist.
a pedatrician in a reputable private hospital o.

this is not psychiatric hospital issue.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
My friend is going through same, her two children a 4 year old and 2. The both of them can't talk.

and what's she doing about it?

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Dyt(f): 9:22pm On Mar 17, 2017
Does he go out?
School?

A kid needs to be around his mates
They learn everything faster when they are together

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:24pm On Mar 17, 2017
Joavid:


and what's she doing about it?
Going to hospitals, churches and even native way. They've spent a lot on them yet no changes
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:27pm On Mar 17, 2017
Have you heard of satanic healing?

I doubt, with xtianity around.

Anyway. I know you won't listen but let me just tell you.

Satan has made available the ability for us satanist to heal whatsoever that is sick.

I can always help out if you need.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:28pm On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
Going to hospitals, churches and even native way. They've spent a lot on them yet no changes
native? lipsrsealed

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:29pm On Mar 17, 2017
GogetterMD:
Definitely your child is not like every other child and has delayed delayed developmental milestones, that could be due to a myriad of reasons, usually genetic, or intrapartum pathologies
You need to see a paediatric neurologist.
Your wonderful son needs special care, but is it possible for him to grow up to be self sufficient? Yes, albeit challenging. Some autistic children have grown up to be doctors, engineers. Don't despise the poor boy cause none of this is his fault
thanks for this words of encouragement

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:29pm On Mar 17, 2017
Demigods666:
Have you heard of satanic healing?

I doubt, with xtianity around.

Anyway. I know you won't listen but let me just tell you.

Satan has made available the ability for us satanist to heal whatsoever that is sick.

I can always help out if you need.
you have come again with your bullshitt

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:30pm On Mar 17, 2017
YoungRichRuler:
I don't have any advice.


I pray for your child for healing.

In Jesus' name

That's what i've got.


I hope he will be fine soon.

Really touching.

thank a lot

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:31pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
you have come again with your bullshitt

You as well, deluded xtian. You xtians will never accept the truth, you all prefer to die in silence, slavery.

*spits* slave trade era ended lots of years ago but you Africans still won't let go of this crap.
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:32pm On Mar 17, 2017
Demigods666:


You as well, deluded xtian. You xtians will never accept the truth, you all prefer to die in silence, slavery.

*spits* slave trade era ended lots of years ago but you Africans still won't let go of this crap.
what is the truth?

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:38pm On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
Going to hospitals, churches and even native way. They've spent a lot on them yet no changes

smh.

if only she can use Google, she will know the right place to seek help.



like hellooooooooooo, there are specialists for issues like this.
and there are paediatricians - kid doctors.


how can people still lack information in 2017


some people ignorance stinks it's annoying!!!
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:38pm On Mar 17, 2017
Joavid:
I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions on your child's condition.


but I'm curious, which doctors in which hospital referred you to psychiatric hospitals? shocked

You need to see a pedatrician, who would recommend you to a specialist.
a pedatrician in a reputable private hospital o.

this is not psychiatric hospital issue.
thanks a lot, we registered at Massey children hospital in Lagos island when we started noticing his behaviour, they refferd us there to enable them detect the possible. The test revealed some facts not revealed to me. They only gave drugs which will last for three years. The cost of this drug alone is draining me. We took him to general hospital again, they still gave us letter to tabs for another brain test. I dey die small small now
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:38pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
what is the truth?

Satan is the truth.

The Bleep you all freak out when you hear Satan?? ? Xtianity just brainwashing you all while feeding off your energy. Satanists are not the only ones who can do satanic healing, every human can but due to xtianity yall don't know the Bleep how to utilize spiritual energy, you say trash to me I cant blame you, you are sick.

Dude I am an elite. On a norm I don't have time for nl but at the same thing I want to help people is the reason I come on here, if not I won't even bother coming on here to put up with all these dramas. I am very okay keeping all this to myself, I lose nothing, I am a God. You are still human who don't want to wake up. Pft

https://www.nairaland.com/3651417/satan-sanskrit-means-truth-also
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:39pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
native? lipsrsealed
that's what she told me
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Young03(m): 9:40pm On Mar 17, 2017
Oga witches n wizard are after u child

visit a strong native doctor for solution

if u like take my advice ,if u like dont but pls dont quote me if u dont have a meaningful thing to say

God create native doctors

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:42pm On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
that's what she told me
wow dats bad... These are the kind of realities married people face.. We young peeople might not be prepared for it...

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:44pm On Mar 17, 2017
Demigods666:


Satan is the truth.

The Bleep you all freak out when you hear Satan?? ? Xtianity just brainwashing you all while feeding off your energy. Satanists are not the only ones who can do satanic healing, every human can but due to xtianity yall don't know the Bleep how to utilize spiritual energy, you say trash to me I cant blame you, you are sick.

Dude I am an elite. On a norm I don't have time for nl but at the same thing I want to help people is the reason I come on here, if not I won't even bother coming on here to put up with all these dramas. I am very okay keeping all this to myself, I lose nothing, I am a God. You are still human who don't want to wake up. Pft

https://www.nairaland.com/3651417/satan-sanskrit-means-truth-also
why can't you just construct a clear paragraph of what you intend to say.. If you are a god then i dare you to shoot yourself ...
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:45pm On Mar 17, 2017
Joavid:


smh.

if only she can use Google, she will know the right place to seek help.
like hellooooooooooo, there are specialists for issues like this.
and there are paediatricians - kid doctors.
how can people still lack information in 2017
some people ignorance stinks it's annoying!!!
I didn't know she was going through all that. I visit her last month, the boy sounds like a goat(that's how best I can describe the sound). He is in school, still wear diapers. I will go to her place and tell her to take them to see a doctor.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:45pm On Mar 17, 2017
yemi1261:
thanks a lot, we registered at Massey children hospital in Lagos island when we started noticing his behaviour, they refferd us there to enable them detect the possible. The test revealed some facts not revealed to me. They only gave drugs which will last for three years. The cost of this drug alone is draining me. We took him to general hospital again, they still gave us letter to tabs for another brain test. I dey die small small now

I can only imagine what you're going through. sad please be strong.

They did some tests; you don't know the results, doesn't that make you uncomfortable

Besides are you seeing any improvement with this drugs?

have you tried checking this drugs online to see their uses and effects?

This is Nigeria, getting the best medical help is scarce especially with rare medical issues.

you really need to see a paediatrician. Personally I can recommend Lagoon hospital. I can vouch for them.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:50pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
why can't you just construct a clear paragraph of what you intend to say.. If you are a god then i dare you to shoot yourself ...

Roflmao.

What the Bleep is this shit

Nigga I am in delta state, contact me privately, I will sponsor your trip come over and see.

You want to see demonstration, I will show it to you well.

I think I should even do a video of some ish.

I doubt if I waste my time and even show off that you all will believe shit.

From the way you talk self.... Sigh.

Go enlighten your self nigga.
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:52pm On Mar 17, 2017
Demigods666:


Roflmao.

What the Bleep is this shit

Nigga I am in delta state, contact me privately, I will sponsor your trip come over and see.

You want to see demonstration, I will show it to you well.

I think I should even do a video of some ish.

I doubt if I waste my time and even show off that you all will believe shit.

From the way you talk self.... Sigh.

Go enlighten your self nigga.
u mean I should trust you enough to come see you in delta? You got the cash.. Why not come down to pH.. And we can reason together

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:53pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
why can't you just construct a clear paragraph of what you intend to say.. If you are a god then i dare you to shoot yourself ...

Dude I spend a minimum of 6 hours meditating and doing rituals etc.

You think say na mouth? Gods of Duat no be mumu jesus when them nor they see when they hide.

Gods of satanism are real, they come to you anytime physically.

You haven't seen anything.

I don't have to explain anything to your like.

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Cutehector(m): 9:55pm On Mar 17, 2017
Demigods666:


Dude I spend a minimum of 6 hours meditating and doing rituals etc.

You think say na mouth? Gods of Duat no be mumu jesus when them nor they see when they hide.

Gods of satanism are real, they come to you anytime physically.

You haven't seen anything.

I don't have to explain anything to your like.
lol why haven't I seen Satan gods?, if u claim they are real
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:55pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
u mean I should trust you enough to come see you in delta? You got the cash.. Why not come down to pH.. And we can reason together


If you ready let me know. I no get time for too much talk.

OP

If only you listen.. ..
Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
wow dats bad... These are the kind of realities married people face.. We young peeople might not be prepared for it...



Yeah... Its really bad

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Re: Help, My Son Has Refused To Develope by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 17, 2017
@yemi1261 are you sure that incident of him falling down from a story building isn't part/cause of this?

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