You're a fool. A big fool. Period!

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Tgold,my guy this set of guys them get different colours

Tgold1:


lol, baba why na?


yo7 got then types as friends

meaning if you're broke or around your friends too Temptation aye will set in.... baba na you o

Damibiz:
Tgold,my guy this set of guys them get different colours

black and yellow abi?

Is just unfaithful and a cheat naturally. I don't think he's scamming u but he is surely a yahoo boy. I think u need to stay away from a guy like that bcs it will do ur future no good. I was ones giving a girl in Yankee also but I just told her straight that I'm not ready for marriage bcs I was still studying then but told her if she can wait then no p. She came up with a story that she will pray about it and never heard from her again till date. Is good to be sincere with your partner just a have a better future

Nazeren:
You're a fool. A big fool. Period!

Easy

Anonymous1234:



The situation meaning our relationship and him being unfaithful. I'm just realizing he's not your typical "Bleep boy" it's way worse. Way deeper. I couldn't see it when we were together because I loved him so much and I wanted to help him be a better person. He would cry to me and tell me how he didn't want this for himself. And I felt bad but now I know it was all apart of the scam. I've never met a person who could fake tears and emotions like that. He's a psychopath

He's no psychopath. He simply outsmarted you. Don't worry. Everyone gets scammed one way or the other. Yours wasn't your choice..

Just a reminder.... Never love with your heart. Love with your head

You just got SCAMMED

When will girls become wise, it's obvious he doesn't love you, he is just using you.

Look for someone to translate this proverb to you in decent English "dem no the tell blind man say rain the fall" that's my two cents.

Lady, run away for life. This will not help you. Find God, He will help you find the right man. It is only God that can make & change a man, your submission & sincerity to the man can never make him change. If he does not know God, believe me you. He cant change

the guy is very good in bed

Emasel:
When will girls become wise, it's obvious he doesn't love you, he is just using you.

Boss, has the successful candidates been shortlisted and notified??

Didnt get a mail.

123papas:
the guy is very good in bed

He's actually not that great

Dump him immediately, you can always love somebody else. In fact, there is somebody you will love better than him without you paying all the bills for the relationship.

I THINK I KNOW U...DO U RESIDE IN MICHIGAN??

I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

I think this lady needs help. You need to understand Naija love that you love with your sense nd not heart. The truth is your scammer won't change unless he z caught. He z a chronic scammer. Although I don't think you're one of the scammed victim but its obvious ure just an instrument, a remote in his hand. Give your self brain, Move on and never look back like lot's wife in the Bible.

He never pressured me about marriage. He never asked for large sums of money like they typically do in these situations so I was confused. My heart was in it 100% but my gut was telling me to RUN and I'm glad I left. I feel bad for the. Ew girl because she probably has no idea what she's dealing with.

That girl might be able to change him you never can tell

I supported him. I was there for him. I encouraged him to do better. Be better. But there comes a time where a person CAN NOT continue to love and support someone who isn't doing the same for you or themselves. I gave him all of me. My love, my loyalty, affection, EVERYTHING and he took it all, used me up until he couldn't use me anymore and walked away without a care in the world. I loved him and was there for him at his lowest point and even THAT wasn't enough for him to be honest and loyal to me. Enough is enough. Now I'm left to pick up the pieces by myself.

The truth is he is not attracted to you. Without sounding entirely prejudice, he is most likely more attractive than you are. I'm guessing you're an overweight African American or white lady and also a single mom. My advise is stop looking for vain guys. Look out more for matured men with a decent heart as opposed to a great face and great body. There are men out there in the U.S that wouldn't take advantage of you but you'd not look their way.