Many of us get it wrong on the first date because we are unsure of the scenario that is about to play out, we prepare too much and try to play out a character that is not us just to win her over, but if we kept a balanced mindset, being ourself and took our time to understood the other person, things would turn out a lot easier than expected. Below are ways to make a girl feel comfortable on the first date.



#Tell her your plans in advance and don’t pull last minute stunts.

Girls are always a little wary of the guy they are going out with. They always tell someone, either their friends or family, where they are going and at what time they might get back. Tell them in advance where you’ll be going, for the first few dates at least. Make sure it’s a familiar place for her and is not too deserted. Don’t change the plan midway, and if you want to go elsewhere after just suggest her in advance that you guys might go to a different location after.

#Don’t dominate the conversation.

The date is about two people, not just one. So don’t just go on talking about yourself and bragging. Maintain a healthy balance between talking and listening. Know when to do which. Some girls are good at random conversations and talking about themselves (extroverts), others are much more subdued and are better listeners (introverts.) They won’t appreciate being bombarded with several questions and would prefer you to lead the conversation and then slowly direct it towards them. So identify who your date is and do accordingly.

#Pay attention to her

Don’t get busy answering phone calls and texting. Don’t look at other women. You are on a date and for those few hours, she needs to be your number one priority.

#Don’t invade her personal space

Always ask before you touch her. You never know what the girl is comfortable with. It doesn’t have to be awkward, it might even appear sweet. “I’d love to hold your hand, can I?” or “Is it okay if I hug/kiss you now?” Maintain a healthy amount of distance and then slowly reduce it. Don’t directly snuggle next to her, you’ll freak her out...Read More Here >>> https://lovefactory.com.ng/2017/03/how-to-make-a-girl-feel-comfortable-on-the-first-date/

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