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At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 23, 2017
undecided angry angry

A Facebook friend Explained this bizzare problem to me seeking my advice but I'm confused on what to tell him so guys I need a hand here...

He's 22 in his 3rd year in a higher institution while she's 21 in her 2yr in the same school,they have dated close to two years ...everything was going fine until he noticed his Girlfriend breast is somehow getting bigger and her shape was also started changing but since her tummy is still very flat he didn't suspect anything and the girl too didn't see anything wrong with her changing body features because she thought its signs of maturity..
One day she visited her guy and while washing the used plates she fainted ,the guy who was alarmed and scarred rushed her to a nearby clinic ,after few tests the Doc said she's 7 weeks pregnant ,the guy almost went mad because he has never bleeped her Raw neither have the Condom ever broken during sex ,but that's not the main problem here ....thing is the girls dad is a very strict pastor who would pull her out of school killing her dreams of becoming a Pharmacist if he ever finds out ,the guy too will be totally disowned by his parents when they find out ....The doctor explained that its Risky for her to have an Abortion at this stage ,but their friends re suggesting different clinics that can handle it...

What do you suggest this guy and his girlfriend should do??
Go ahead and take the risky abortion or give birth to the baby and forfeit their Education .

Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by tonaydo(m): 6:35pm On Mar 23, 2017
lol
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Mar 23, 2017
Y should they forfeit their education
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by soberdrunk(m): 6:37pm On Mar 23, 2017
Hahahahhahaha!! So they sent them to school to read and they went there and started doing "Crouching tadpole, standing hyena" at 22 and 21 angry angry.

Well it has happened and there are two things involved-----


1)Its either the girlfriend has been going to 'charge phone' in another sharp guys house


2)Or its a case of 'Accidental discharge'

Any which way 'what we say the father will not hear is the father that will still settle it" the have no option but to open up to their parents collect a few slaps and insults and move on with their lives.........

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Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 23, 2017
Bumbae1:
Y should they forfeit their education


They re still 100% dependent on their parents
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:50pm On Mar 23, 2017
Passy089:



They re still 100% dependent on their parents

Hmm and they are doing what grown ups do
When they know they are not ready for any oops moment hmmmm

Just speechless
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 23, 2017
Bumbae1:

Hmm and they are doing what grown ups do When they know they are not ready for any oops moment hmmmm
Just speechless
They re still young na... body de swt at dat age o
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 23, 2017
Passy089:


They re still young na... body de swt at dat age o
Condom nko
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 23, 2017
Bumbae1:

Condom nko


The guy is very sure he always uses it and that it never broke...the girl swore she hasn't slept with anyone else .
who come give d girl belle?
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Davidgrey: 7:03pm On Mar 23, 2017
Abortions are "Medically Safe" till the 10th week!

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Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Mar 23, 2017
Davidgrey:
Abortions are "Medically Safe" till the 10th week!

Really?
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Davidgrey: 7:08pm On Mar 23, 2017
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Sunnymatey(m): 7:13pm On Mar 23, 2017
'Tales of Eve' that's the name of this program. A relationship of two yrs that is still waxing strong with elements of trust cannot be said to be consistent in the use of condom. Let the guy take responsibility and profer solution.

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Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Mar 23, 2017
Sunnymatey:
'Tales of Eve' that's the name of this program. A relation of two yrs that is still waxing strong with elements of trust cannot be said to be consistent in the use of condom. Let the guy take responsibility and profer solution.

you have a point
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Faber(m): 7:26pm On Mar 23, 2017
Make them born dt pikin o...if i find that pikin i no see am... i'll sharpaly call DSS. How can you afford to reduce our population by one pikin; when Japan is paying people to make babies.
#SAYNOTOABORTION#UNBORNLIVESMATTER
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by adewumiopeyemi(m): 7:56pm On Mar 23, 2017
Hi dear hw u doing it has been a wile grin grin
Bumbae1:
Y should they forfeit their education
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by XendersPride(f): 8:03pm On Mar 23, 2017
Say No to TOP
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Duchessree(f): 8:22pm On Mar 23, 2017
hmmm
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 23, 2017
adewumiopeyemi:
Hi dear hw u doing it has been a wile grin grin
Who u b
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:12pm On Mar 23, 2017
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Who u b[/quote]
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by savagefinder1: 10:45pm On Mar 23, 2017
well..

d pregnancy didnt fly there!!



C.Ronaldo's mum almost aborted him back then. if she had, she would probably be living an average life without having an inkling of how life could be if she rescinded.


pls do not let an innocent soul pay for ur friends mistake.


she's 21, meaning her girth is mature enough to carry a baby to term.



I'l advice she man up and face d responsibilities ahead.
ciao..
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Marioplus(m): 11:38pm On Mar 23, 2017
PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF GOD
DO NOT KILL THAT POOR CHILD BECAUSE HE IS DEFENSELESS
GOD WILL DO ANYTHING TO SAVE YOU FROM ANY EVIL, IF YOU WOULD SPARE THIS CHILDS' LIFE.
BOTH OF YOU SHOULD OPEN UP TO YOUR PARENTS.
APOLOGIZE TO YOUR PARENTS FOR THIS SIN BUT CONVINCE THEM YOU ARE READY TO SAVE THE LIFE OF THIS INNOCENT CHILD.
THE PASSION/DRIVE/DETERMINATION TO SAVE THIS CHILD'S LIFE WILL SAVE YOU BOTH FROM PUBLIC SHAME, DISGRACE AND CAPITAL PUNISHMENT FROM YOUR PARENTS.
HE WHO WATERS OTHERS WILL BE WATERED...
HE WHO TRIES TO SAVE A SOUL FROM DEATH WILL BE SAVED FROM DISGRACE!!!
MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT HELP YOU BOTH TO STAND FOR LIFE-SAVING OF THIS POOR CHILD, TO SCALE THROUGH THIS PERIOD, TO AVOID/OVERCOME DISGRACE/HUMILIATION AND NEVER LOOSE FAITH IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by McBrooklyn(m): 1:56am On Mar 24, 2017

Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by jashar(f): 8:29am On Mar 24, 2017
They shouldn't abort. She can have the child and seek adoption options.

If her papa dis owns her (it ain't right though,it have happen it have happen), she should start being independent ooo.... look for a job even if it's a sales girl job.

She can beg a family member or church member for a place to stay, if that doesn't work out, she should cry and stay in front of her father's house.

By the time shame catch the daddy and neighbours begin to talk, he will let her inside. smiley

All za best. But DO NOT abort.
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by ifewise(m): 9:11pm On Mar 24, 2017
Don't Abort the baby,She may end up childless fr the rest of her life & live to regret this action.Keep the Baby & she must be determined to Continue her education.
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by pinkp: 4:58pm On Apr 03, 2017
Davidgrey:
Abortions are "Medically Safe" till the 10th week!
How u take know?
Re: At 7weeks ...Is Abortion the way Out? please Advice. by Davidgrey: 11:10am On Apr 04, 2017
pinkp:

How u take know?
undecided >>>> www.google.com

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