Alright, so to my fellow nairalanders ; how can you tell if you're in love with someone or you're just lusting over the person??
Currently am in a relationship with a guy and I dunno if am in love with him or lusting over him, so pls fam I need you guys to help me out on this ish

youngbelieve:
Alright, so to my fellow nairalanders ; how can you tell if you're in love with someone or you're just lusting over the person??
Currently am in a relationship with a guy and I dunno if am in love with him or lusting over him, so pls fam I need you guys to help me out on this ish

if u get wet when u're close to him then it's lust, buh if ur body refuses to be aroused like an impotent man then it's love.


Buh I hope it's lust cos I wanna believe u're virile

jonaifame22:
if u get wet when u're close to him then it's lust, buh if ur body refuses to be aroused like an impotent man then it's love.


Buh I hope it's lust cos I wanna believe u're virile

I see its not only you that the spirit of lust has been ministering to

Come to my house for the best advice

its simple, its lust if u guys have/always do that tin. Dats all.

jonaifame22:
if u get wet when u're close to him then it's lust, buh if ur body refuses to be aroused like an impotent man then it's love.


Buh I hope it's lust cos I wanna believe u're virile

I think its love,,,,,cos I don't get wet when am close to him, infact sex usually don't come to my mind whenever am close to him

agohmamuda:
its simple, its lust if u guys have/always do that tin. Dats all.

uhmmm we don't!!!

youngest85:
Come to my house for the best advice

lols OK ayam coming

BUTCHCASSIDY:
I see its not only you that the spirit of lust has been ministering to

lolss i am yet to find out if its love or lust

youngbelieve:


uhmmm we don't!!!

It will be hard to Beliv cosidering the fact that Jos is very cold and you happen to be Berom.

@OP, U won't mistake it if it's lust. So let's rule that out.
It may or may not be love. How long have u been in the relationship?

agohmamuda:


It will be hard to Beliv cosidering the fact that Jos is very cold and you happen to be Berom.

lolsss dude am not berom ooooo,,,,,matter of fact am Igbo buh I grew up in jos

obadizena:
@OP, U won't mistake it if it's lust. So let's rule that out.
It may or may not be love. How long have u been in the relationship?

close to 3months

youngbelieve:


lolsss dude am not berom ooooo,,,,,matter of fact am Igbo buh I grew up in jos

I hear u Uche.

agohmamuda:

I hear u Uche.

OK oo Ebuka

youngbelieve:

OK oo Ebuka

Uche let's us meet in my shade. Lol

agohmamuda:


Uche let's us meet in my shade. Lol

is it the one near mama nkechi's restaurant or the one in da oda room??!! hahahaha

Depends on what feelings you have for him. Is it sexual or.....

youngbelieve:



is it the one near mama nkechi's restaurant or the one in da oda room??!! hahahaha

Nnne anyone u want is fine. I would love za oda room doe,

Lust is about sex, infactuation is about his looks and pocket or bank account and love is just am ready to die with him,I dont care what he is or what he has,I just want to be with him, U don't either U eat or nt U just want to be looking at him n U always proud to introduce him to any1 anywhere nt because of his financial capability or looks but because U just him and nothing else. So decide which 1 is urs

Over time, let's see the way you feel about him, that is when u know and can tell if it is love or lust

Love doesn't ask why
It's straight from the heart
Love doesn't think twice
It comes all at once
A whisper from a distance

So the fact that you're asking alone is either you're a novice or just in lust. Nobody needs to tell you if it's love or not. You just know.

agohmamuda:

Nnne anyone u want is fine. I would love za oda room doe,

hahahaha oya lemme be coming na

SlayHER:
Depends on what feelings you have for him. Is it sexual or.....

I seriously dunno

profhezekiah:
Lust is about sex, infactuation is about his looks and pocket or bank account and love is just am ready to die with him,I dont care what he is or what he has,I just want to be with him, U don't either U eat or nt U just want to be looking at him n U always proud to introduce him to any1 anywhere nt because of his financial capability or looks but because U just him and nothing else. So decide which 1 is urs

hmmmm I'll keep assessing for now

ZarZar:
Love doesn't ask why
It's straight from the heart
Love doesn't think twice
It comes all at once
A whisper from a distance

So the fact that you're asking alone is either you're a novice or just in lust. Nobody needs to tell you if it's love or not. You just know.

aiit dear I've heard u,,tanks

Tajbol4splend:
Over time, let's see the way you feel about him, that is when u know and can tell if it is love or lust

aiit

youngbelieve:


hahahaha oya lemme be coming na

Don't keep me waiting oh 7AD99556

youngbelieve:


close to 3months

Most likely, it's infatuation. As time goes on, it may develop into love or gradually die away.

Also, I agree with profhezekiah comment.

@ OP,

As u interact with more guys, u'll have more experience about the differences in the feelings.
Just be cautious, though!

agohmamuda is already seeking to join ur circle of friends. As u chat with him, access ur feeling towards him and compare....

Happy chatting!!!

obadizena:
@ OP,

As u interact with more guys, u'll have more experience about the differences in the feelings.
Just be cautious, though!

agohmamuda is already seeking to join ur circle of friends. As u chat with him, access ur feeling towards him and compare....

Happy chatting!!!

This guy has killed me
Far from it. My intentions are good. we share a connection "Jos"

youngbelieve:
Alright, so to my fellow nairalanders ; how can you tell if you're in love with someone or you're just lusting over the person??
Currently am in a relationship with a guy and I dunno if am in love with him or lusting over him, so pls fam I need you guys to help me out on this ish

Simple solution.....

If you are in love you will know, dem no dey tell person say rain dey fall....since you don't know, it means you are lusting over him period!