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Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 9:16am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Please friends i need help. Am igbo by tribe but i am in love with an hausa girl who is a muslim while am a christian.....she wants marriage but our families won't even think of listening to it.....PLEASE HELP.... what do i do?? Quit?? cc; lalasticlala |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by yomi007k(m): 9:18am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Is she willing to bcom a xtian? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 9:22am On Mar 27, 2017 |
yomi007k: Because of fear of her family (very wealthy though) she is still refusing....But i dont care. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by pocohantas(f): 9:28am On Mar 27, 2017 |
She wants marriage? Do you want marriage? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by AgbenuAnna(f): 9:31am On Mar 27, 2017 |
will you change your religion for hers? or will she change your religion for yours? what religion will your children practice? Am not anti religious but you need to careful there are so many people who practice your religion |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 9:44am On Mar 27, 2017 |
pocohantas: am considering it but not in a rush doh.....u knw dat muslims dont joke with their religion ryt? so too does my dad adhere to his! Am a roman catholic....a communicant....imagine that! |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by dee02(m): 9:47am On Mar 27, 2017 |
francisMKD: Marry your family! |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 9:48am On Mar 27, 2017 |
AgbenuAnna: u see thats my point! what do i do? |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by AgbenuAnna(f): 9:50am On Mar 27, 2017 |
francisMKD:I can't change my religion for anything in these world That's me. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 9:52am On Mar 27, 2017 |
AgbenuAnna: Me neither....i've sworn to die a christian!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by kaycodes: 10:11am On Mar 27, 2017 |
francisMKD: The Bible says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, in this context your Christianity would be in question if you move ahead. Also, you can go ahead because the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the believing husband, assuming you both were unbelievers before you became converted. Now while you are a Christian, with your set values, remember she as a Muslim also sees you as an unbeliever. So imagine both of you in the same house seeing each other as the devil, because after marriage this love will clear and the pressures of society and your religion will set in. Except your families are liberals who keep an open mind, I don't know how you're gonna decide on which marital procedure to follow... The only logical thing to do is to walk away, or one of you will have to GENUINELY convert to the others religion, otherwise get ready for the issues ahead and be proactive about handling them if you both insist that there are no other fishes in the river... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 10:23am On Mar 27, 2017 |
kaycodes: Wow! Wise words....u got me thinking!! Thanks bro.... |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by francisMKD(m): 10:23am On Mar 27, 2017 |
kaycodes: Wow! Wise words....u got me thinking!! Thanks bro.... |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by nnamdibig(m): 10:52am On Mar 27, 2017 |
Pls how will being a Christian or being a Muslim affect your happiness? You guys may have some challenges as regards to cultural differences but pls don't allow religion decide your life long happiness. Religion don finish us in this part of the world. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Babacele: 12:34pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
hmmm bros this is a difficult situation but not unsurmountable. Religion means nothing to two evolved souls but then we must marry our realities with the actuality of our environment. Even within Christianity many denominations can't marry from others. Despite that, we have several examples where the spirituality of love has overcome the politics of religion in many marriages. Who knows if the girl would embrace your faith if she is sure you are damn serious? It is a difficult situation but does this girl fill a void in your being? think am well before you decide but whatever you do must make the 2 of you happy either now or in future for you would have helped humanity taken a step away from the shackles of prejudice to the freedom bliss of evolution . You both are from God and so may God guide you, amen. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Nobody: 1:42pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Are you trolling? cos it's highly unlikely that such a union can work. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by thorpido(m): 2:03pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
I'm sure you know this union is unlikely to work.Better move on. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by simpleseyi: 2:43pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
francisMKD: The bolded is your reason for wanting to marry her. Very good bad guy, you have hit the jackpot. |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Nobody: 3:28pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
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Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Abiagirl777(f): 3:34pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
trouble go dey sleep,iyanga go wake am.It seems your life is not sweeting you again,okwa ya? |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by obisite: 8:45pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
francisMKD: Just as someone said above, the best thing is to walk away, she converting to your religion cos of marriage doesn't make her a christian/beliver, but only doing so for her goal(marriage).. And besides she will have to start learning to live new life.. Just call, n sit her down, you guys should just discus on friendly note, the consequences, effect now n later, n part ways,, marriage is expected to bring bond to two different family.. Beside you said you're considering her,, marriage isn't under consideration,, you need to have a conviction,, inner peace of who you're getting married to, before taking the step..... My penny!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by MummyIMadeIt: 10:17pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Broderly, marriage isn't a child's play ooo My question to you would be what happens after your marriage, lets say in a year(s) time when the actual litmus test for your commitment sets in? I don't want to hear Separation or Divorce latter on bro |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by joey150(m): 12:57am On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid:very cheeky of you to try and lure us to your website with agege bread |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Nobody: 1:03am On Mar 28, 2017 |
Sorry we dont give our ladies marriage to a non-muslim. U are xritian and non-Hausa this thing of yours seems impossible because her parent will never ever allows such to happen gaskiyar maganar kenan 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Nobody: 8:28am On Mar 28, 2017 |
joey150: but you saw the bit about Agege bread abi |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by joey150(m): 8:41am On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid: What a wonderful blog.. And yes i read the agege part. And the best thing about the blog for me was it's simplicity. Thumbs up! |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Nobody: 8:44am On Mar 28, 2017 |
joey150: thanks. hope you visit more cc sauerr |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Acidosis(m): 10:31am On Mar 28, 2017 |
It won't work... don't waste your time |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by Ishilove: 4:12pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Why do people set themselves in difficult situations? |
Re: Help! I Can't Marry Her Because Of Our Religion! by twosquare(m): 4:17pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Ishilove:You took the words out of my mouth....me too wonder |
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