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Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 9:49am On Apr 08, 2017 |
brightalo17:If the guilty woman needed to call the mod on her, she would have done that from the onset. I guess she called the mod on her and on herself?. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by acc001(f): 9:55am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Jelal0007:I v a reason for sayin it,likewise hw u v ur reasons to post...Mr knw it all. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 9:58am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Benignasweety: My dear please why not remove your facebook name from nairaland. Please no matter what your marriage is saying now, just know is a test which will pass sooner than you expected. Therefore, keep your privacy. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 10:00am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Forgive her, you can love someone you don't trust that's okay, after all TRUST only GOD, don't trust anybody. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 10:07am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Easy to condemn the OP , hard to advise him too . I see a lot of people taking shots at the dude ... I see a lot of people advising him too . Honestly he deserves both . I believe dude is going through hell right now ...you have to be in a bad marriage to know what he is going through right now . I pray this never happens to anyone here . I would not wish that on my worst enemy . As someone with a background in law and almost haven been a similar scenario ...I would say bro ... move out of your house if you can for now . Just a take a couple of weeks off and breathe . I do not know what you do for a living but this is going to affect your work .If you are self employed do not let go of your business ...if you are an employee do not loose your job over this . Even if you opt to divorce ...it will take a couple of years dissolve your marriage . I can promise you that if you have hope and believe in yourself you will shine at the end of your story . Granted there will be days when you feel like dying but my brother don't give up on yourself . PM me if you need to talk my dude . Sorry this had to happen to you . Let us try and encourage this man ... We as naira landers let's show love . For we know he might be suicidal . I pray not . I stand with you . Love and respect . 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by bigiyaro(m): 10:08am On Apr 08, 2017 |
NgoziOkoli:u r simply stupid. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Escobapablo(m): 10:15am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Bros, I done mumu like this b4 o. Bt I thank God I come out early. U can still do something. That's if u can picture what u r missing in d arms of another woman that's meant for u. Sorry sha. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Zhahovic(m): 10:25am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Bro....I am really sorry about your situation.. Truth is....like some others have already said.....you saw the signs and still want ahead.... True..no one is perfect....we all have our flaws.. But there are some flaws..you just can not cope with.... I was once very much in love too.....I had girl who found it difficult to say sorry when she was wrong.. A girl who was an expert at pointing out my flaws...but when I corrected her on hers..she would flare up like gasoline.. And to make matters worse...anytime we quarrel..she would recite all my previous transgressions off hand as if she was reading it from a slate.... I decided I could not cope and broke off the relationship after 3 years....better a broken relationship than broken marriage.. .. Bro...since you are married already.....I advise you to pray and pray without ceasing...!..... Divorce is not an option Bro! |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by chukagates(m): 10:44am On Apr 08, 2017 |
nkemdi89:lol so ladies dey cheat like this and y'all will prolly be fucking the two dudes. chai!!! make i hear when one mum woman will be like " cheating is not our weakness" 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Olubee22(f): 10:47am On Apr 08, 2017 |
robotix:Ehn nah, na that one sure pass this weekend special somebody stays in another state . 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Dexema(m): 10:51am On Apr 08, 2017 |
robotix: Hi robotix, It's not a direct interpretation it's just a cliché used to describe bad-mannered or dangerous ladies who put on the form of angels to deceive men. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by chukagates(m): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Benignasweety:quit NO ONE DESERVES AN UNHAPPY LIFE.. how do y'all endure rubbish from pple who obviously dont love you?? |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by dobletsy(m): 10:58am On Apr 08, 2017 |
I guess she also have a consience for her to go through your phone ,she think you are also double dating but now you figure this out.if you divorce her that doesn't asure you,u will see someone better than her because, girls of nowadays hehehe .I think you have a knife to use against her now. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by AmazingElla(f): 11:01am On Apr 08, 2017 |
bayocanny: Done, check your mail |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by izobemheuwaize: 11:10am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Op you shot yourself in the foot. just pray for her and visit a Christian marriage counsellor for further direction.forgive her if she's willing to re-trace her steps. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by VeecThorr(m): 11:14am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Divorce that bitch fam. She ain't loyal. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 08, 2017 |
chukagates:Becuz at a point in your life, dey once deceived u that u re loved... |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Godchild2015:My facebook name has nothing to do with my problems.., Am selling greenlife herbal products. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Alwaystruth: 11:16am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Is your wife Indonesian woman?. They 're the only set of women that no matter how they wrong you, you must be the one to say sorry. Lol... Please don't ever contemplate of a divorce because as you may know, divorce is like an amputation, you survives it but can never be complete again. Also, try to forgive her because best union is between two best forgivers!!!... |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 08, 2017 |
Benignasweety:Alright then. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by paulo220(m): 11:35am On Apr 08, 2017 |
op I will advice u to let her go....but if u can't let her call the guy in ur present that he is destroying her marriage and she should delete his number on her phone. but the best option is take her back to her people, it is not easy to forgive and forget. my thought. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Babysheart(f): 11:52am On Apr 08, 2017 |
ademola2017: Stop being a sissy. You were one and is still one. |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by megafone: 12:11pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
Splinz: Can she change her tribal mark too? You are in the wrong vehicle, sure of getting to your destination? Best of LUCKY! |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by petitejolie(f): 12:14pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
hmmmn bros! God is ur muscle. I dedicate this song to you * too late too late too late tutumber(5x) |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by lexy2014: 12:45pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
Babysheart:hahahaha....One ke?they are 3 |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by lexy2014: 12:47pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
Alwaystruth:who actually needs forgiveness here?is d man or d woman or both? |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by lexy2014: 12:49pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
andrejoe:how do u survive in a marriage without trust? |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by buchhogonzalez(m): 12:51pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
ademola2017: Trust me. You saw the signs but chose to be blinded by "love/list"... Love sucks!!! |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by buchhogonzalez(m): 12:52pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
ademola2017: Trust me. You saw the signs but chose to be blinded by "love/lust"... Love sucks!!! |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by lexy2014: 12:53pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
Benita27:u harsh but u spoke d bitter honest truth 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 08, 2017 |
Divorce sounds like an easy solution to many. Well I dont think you should rush to divorce yet. First, Try to find out as much as u can about the "other guy" Give him a good warning lesson (probably in form of organized beating of his life - u can get ur guys or hire boys to do this for you, give them specific instructions not to kill him). Second, relocate to a place that is far from the reach of that "other guy" so he wont find it easy to reach ur wife henceforth. Third, take her phone, wipe all her facebook friends (social media) contacts, delete the "other guy" phone numbers. Then drop her phone in water overnight Fourth, warn her that the next time she communicates with the wife-snatcher guy, u will break her head, then report yourself to police. Brother, you need to take charge now, no room for more dulling or fear-fear. Why lose your marriage just like that? and the worse part is to lose it along with your pride. Your marriage can still work. and besides, you wont be able to ever love another woman like her, so you need to make some changes bro. BTW, if she has got kids for you, then those advising you divorce have no idea what they are telling you. |
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