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Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by Drabrah(m): 8:34pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
GoldHorse: An adage in my dialect say "U cannot use ur money to buy wind & complain dat u ain't feeling dizzy" Off course na pörzin wey buy d brazier & pants go do d confirmatory test 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 8:37pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
hollowway44: Your sorry ass will just get divorced and u can start again, till u receive sense. A wife beater is a wife beater. An abuser is an abuser. There are no excuses. 2 Likes
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Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by bannykel: 8:54pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
saccie1162:only we de Yoruba's do that, Igbo's dont 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by T2best: 9:03pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
jonhemma11: in my own opinion, mist gja girls don't worth even a penny of this with d way they HV now turned their God giving treasure to good for sale. instead they are supposed to b d one who should pay to appreciate d man for wanting to accommodate her inspire of all |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by hammerF: 9:11pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
bannykel: How did u know dat? lollz! Nobody will even reply him, na laugh we just dey laugh am with his crayfish brain, thinking he has sense. Only very few people know dat if u impregnate an igbo man daughter and u dont go to marry her, he will confiscate the child and give the child his family name. 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:28pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
Atiku2019:Are you Kanuri? |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by FemiFimile: 9:53pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: how do u see the list? |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:55pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile:Its negotiable man but ridiculous.... |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by FemiFimile: 10:00pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: e never reach time to scrap this thing completely? |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:08pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile:Absolutely negative.... It can only be modified 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by FemiFimile: 10:11pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: wat is negative about scraping extortion? Modified in wat sense? |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 10:14pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile: no igbo family will agree to pay for u to marry their daughter. Dey did not agree such for their fellow igbo, it is Afonja dey will agree? It is either u save for ur wedding or prepare to face the machete wielding community youths. 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 10:19pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: No modification, we are looking forward to child support, alimony and divorce settlement. Let us separate the boyz from the men. 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:19pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile:Bride price/Dowry is the ways of our ancestors... a tradition that defines us.... Modified in sense of making the items less exploitative with the mindset of fulfilling traditional requirements instead of making fortunes. 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by larrypourl(m): 10:19pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
unstableaswater: Guy we don't do that in Yoruba culture. My sis married and her hubby foot the bills, they had their budget carefully drawn by both of them and presented it what we do is assist and as parents you can't just sit and fold hands, they also support their daughter for the best, they had an amount to rent hall as stated in the budget, my dad got them better hall and others. it's a thing of joy bro. You want them to collect loans and start paying crazy debts after wedding which will affect them both, why can't the bride parents handle guests coming around b4 d exact day of the wedding instead of asking for 20 loafs of bread, 1 basket of ground peper, 1 big family size bed, etc. haba unstableaswater: Guy we don't do that in Yoruba culture. My sis married and her hubby foot the bills, they had their budget carefully drawn by both of them and presented it what we do is assist and as parents you can't just sit and fold hands, they also support their daughter for the best, they had an amount to rent hall as stated in the budget, my dad got them better hall and others. it's a thing of joy bro. You want them to collect loans and start paying crazy debts after wedding which will affect them both, why can't the bride parents handle guests coming around b4 d exact day of the wedding instead of asking for 20 loafs of bread, 1 basket of ground peper, 1 big family size bed, etc. haba 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by ab11baddo(m): 10:20pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
unstableaswater:brother take it easy with this obsession with d yorubas..av seen u on many threads ....not every moniker on NL depicts a Yoruba indigene |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by FemiFimile: 10:28pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: so u are one of dem? u disappoint me. |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by FemiFimile: 10:29pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
unstableaswater: who want 2 marry flat head before? 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by Nobody: 10:29pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
Bt shey if I use d wife do ritual stuff....just for money alone.....hope u won't shout @ me....and hope they won't arrest me.....just because of what I've paid! |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:33pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile:i am an Ijawman not an American or Briton. 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
The Ubima people are clearly jokers. Rather than provide anything in that list, I'd rather marry a Caribbean lady. N2,000 to 'open' the mother's mouth? Why don't they take her to an ENT doctor? How about brazzier for the women? Make dem go shop for Victoria Secret. Nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 10:33pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile: First scrap babaloja and mamaloja from yoruba culture. It is unfair to sit at home everyday and then go to the market to collect money from traders that work very hard everyday under the sun and rain, that is wat i call extortion. In Italy u did have to be a Mafia member to do dat. Footing the bill for ur wedding is not extortion,who did u expect to pay the expenses or will the community not eat, drink and make merry? Get off ur ass and work, babaloja! 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by Noneroone(m): 10:34pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
FemiFimile:your people! 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by larrypourl(m): 10:36pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: collecting bride price isn't bad but making the whole thing outrageous like you also stated is the issue. so no bed at home, na floor dem dey sleep b4 dem pikin bring man come house? This issue make their daughters fall into the wrong hands when the real guy they love can't afford the list and their getting older and the uneducated ones are the ones hammering on that crazy list. 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 10:37pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
larrypourl: As Abagworo stated earlier, people they marry every day for Ubima. Stop the excuses! As TonyeBarcanista also stated, the list is negotiable. It is done with laughter, pepper soup and Guinness or wateva u drink. Dont worry wen u born ur own daughter, u fit throw her out to homeless and jobless men to marry, no need for wedding. 2 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by larrypourl(m): 10:46pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
unstableaswater: You were becoming reasonable until you got to your last paragraph. I'm never gonna reply you again since you can't converse without bin aggressive. Safe bro. 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:47pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
larrypourl:Just like a poster opined, it is negotiable. If it wasn't the poor and low earners won't be getting married in our communities and villages. 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by unstableaswater: 10:53pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
larrypourl: Really! Go through this thread and see the type of lies ur type have been spilling all over the thread. Just a little rebuttal and u are already crying. It was always going to be an uphill struggle trying to interfere and alter other people establish customs and tradition. It is even more difficult wen ur own yoruba culture practice Italian Mafia style of extortion and u have not condemned it. Mr Babaloja or is it Mamaloja? 3 Likes |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by aloziedaya(m): 11:20pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
And they say marriage is most expensive in Imo state 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by LecciGucci: 11:37pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
Kaymaxine: Lol wat do u mean 1 Like |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by LecciGucci: 11:53pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
unstableaswater: Dont mind them... wen u pay them back on their own coin they will start crying |
Re: List Of Things Required For Marriage In Ubima, Amaechi's Town by delishpot: 12:46am On Apr 14, 2017 |
southniyikaye: Own ko, creator ní! If na so to get property cheap, why you never buy plots of land for Banana Island. Na full human being you want buy completely for less than 1 million Nara. Na by force to marry? If your hand no reach waka go front na. You y shoe get him size go front and find ya size.It she saves money or hits it big in future and supports you to start a business or in some other need with money bigger than what you spent on her bride price, does that mean she has bought you like her property and she can now do and undo and also force you to answer her father's name? Stingo the race course horse! |
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