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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 12:58pm On Apr 25, 2017
yazach:


Why don't you find a nearest Mallam to you and ask him to explain it to you if you can not find the answer to your question even when it's obvious
That verse in anyway does not talked about sex or related to it. It is about tahajjud, is sex tahajjud?

Stop twisting the Quran verses, Mallam, scholars, sheikhs are also fond of twisting Quran verses.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 2:43pm On Apr 25, 2017
^^Yazach, please ignore this Boda Taiwo. He's never pleased with explanations as far as it's against hin. If he supports suicide bombings and you present a verse of the Qur'an prohibiting it, he'll reply you with show me where the Qur'an said "o you who believe, do not partake in suicide bombings"

He's very mischievous!

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by FriendNG: 2:50pm On Apr 25, 2017
Demmzy15:
^^Yazach, please ignore this Boda Taiwo. He's never pleased with explanations as far as it's against hin. If he supports suicide bombings and you present a verse of the Qur'an prohibiting it, he'll reply you with show me where the Qur'an said "o you who believe, do not partake in suicide bombings"

He's very mischievous!

Exactly NAS will request for that verse in such form.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 2:51pm On Apr 25, 2017
FriendNG:


Exactly NAS will request for that verse in such form.
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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 3:34pm On Apr 25, 2017
Demmzy15:
^^Yazach, please ignore this Boda Taiwo. He's never pleased with explanations as far as it's against hin. If he supports suicide bombings and you present a verse of the Qur'an prohibiting it, he'll reply you with show me where the Qur'an said "o you who believe, do not partake in suicide bombings"

He's very mischievous!
Sheepian, Is having sex another form of tahajjud? grin

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 3:43pm On Apr 25, 2017
tintingz:
Sheepian, Is having sex another form of tahajjud? grin
Having sex with my legally wedded wife is charity, and I'll gain reward for that.

Now beat it!!! angry tongue

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 3:58pm On Apr 25, 2017
Demmzy15:
Having sex with my legally wedded wife is charity, and I'll gain reward for that.

Now beat it!!! angry tongue
Lol...

So you perform rituals/tahajjud every time you wanna have sex with your wife?

Auzubillai. cheesy

Two raka, oya iyawo bismillai bismillai.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 4:01pm On Apr 25, 2017
Demmzy15:
^^Yazach, please ignore this Boda Taiwo. He's never pleased with explanations as far as it's against hin. If he supports suicide bombings and you present a verse of the Qur'an prohibiting it, he'll reply you with show me where the Qur'an said "o you who believe, do not partake in suicide bombings"

He's very mischievous!

No wonder, I suspected so. May Allah heals him

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 4:12pm On Apr 25, 2017
yazach:


No wonder, I suspected so. May Allah heals him
What will be the prayer point?

Oh Allah I'm about to chukuchuku my wife, bla bla bla.

This is ridiculous.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 4:25pm On Apr 25, 2017
yazach:


No wonder, I suspected so. May Allah heals him
Aameen o, Insha'Allah!

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Empiree: 5:05pm On Apr 25, 2017
tintingz:
What will the prayer point?

Oh Allah I'm about to chukuchuku my wife, bla bla bla.

This is ridiculous.
Bro, i think you missing the point. First all, it is not OBLIGATORY. It is recommended sunnah to ask Allah for good offspring from that moment. And it is not everything mentioned in his op you have to do. There are also short cuts. And even a simple "auzubillah mina shaytan rajim" is also dua before sexing your woman. Isn't this better than rough approach of "agbero" who beats the hell out of her and then starts having sex with her while at the same time cursing one another?.

So here is a hadith that gives you a simple one. ‘Bismillaah, jannibnaa al-shaytaan wa jannib al-Shaytaan ma razaqtana (In the name of Allaah. Keep the Shaytaan away from us and from what You bestow upon us).’

Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him): “When any one of you want to have intercourse with his wife, let him say, ‘Bismillaah, jannibnaa al-shaytaan wa jannib al-Shaytaan ma razaqtana (In the name of Allaah. Keep the Shaytaan away from us and from what You bestow upon us).’ Then if it is decreed that they should have a child, the Shaytaan will never be able to harm him.” Agreed upon.

It was narrated by the authors of al-Sunan and others. But if she says this du’aa’ too, there is nothing wrong with that, because the basic principle is that it is not just for the man. And Allaah is the Source of strength.

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (19/356).


Also, recitation of ayat kursiyu prior to swinging into action is great. It is all recommendations and wudhu is very important as well. This is better than cursing and shouting before, during and after action. So it all depends on your capacity rather than condemning it. It is up to you whichever you can afford to do even if it is just wudhu.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 25, 2017
Demmzy15:
^^^Inspector General of Police, Nairaland Don drop verdict!

Lol.. That nigga, Sometimes I wonder if he makes Taubah to Allaah, perhaps Allaah will cleanse his heart n nafs. Bcuz I just shame for him, gaskia.... Keep the good work Muhammad. B grin

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by CarolineOlawale(f): 11:19pm On Apr 25, 2017
yazach:
*How to have sex with your spouse.*

*CLEANLINESS* should be done before sex by both spouse. Husband can use exotic perfumes

*DUA BEFORE SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE*

New couple can observe 2 Rakat of prayer while the wife should be at his back.

The husband can touch her forehead and say:

When you marry a woman, say: “O Allah, I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that you have made her inclined towards, and I seek refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that you have made her inclined towards.”

Transliteration
allaahumma innee as’aluka khayrahaa, wa khayra maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh, wa a‛oodhu bika min sharrihaa, wa sharri maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh

Follow by:

"In the name of Allah. O Allah, keep the devil away from us and keep the devil away form what you have blessed us with."

*“Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna”*

Experienced couples need to say the second one anytime the want to have sex

About this, the Prophet said: *“After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child”*. [al-Bukharee]

NOTE: Some Scholars say that children are disobedient to their parents usually because the parents forget/forgot to say the above duaa before having sex.

pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy!

pre-intimacy is Highly Recommended
Islam emphasizes on pre-intimacy. Imam ‘Ali (A.S.) says, *“When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”*

There are no rules and laws in pre-intimacy as to how it should be done. The only laws and rules are the ones reached by the lovers by mutual consent and often unspoken understanding.

Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong.

The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife

1 Sex without pre-intimacy has been equated to cruelty. The Prophet (SAW) said, *“Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before pre-intimacy.”*

2 Another hadith equates sex without pre-intimacy to animal behavior: “When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.”

If your wife complain of sexual unsatisfied, then increase the pre-intimacy before sex

3 As for the role of a woman in sexual pre-intimacy, the Imams (A.S.) have praised a wife who discards shyness when she is with her husband.

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir says,

*“The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again.”*

Throw away shyness when having sex with your husband

This means that it's not good for a woman to feel shy when playing with her husband.

If you are a Malima, when it comes to that, forget about your Malima things and "open fire"

There is no loophole in Islam. It's a way of life.

Don't come near your husband in the night with a hijab or a niqab or some rough dressing*

*The decent dressing you wear when out is no longer "decent" at that moment*. when you return to your husband in the night, *put that away, wear tight, short, transparent dresses or go nude. Simple.*

It is allowed for a Muslim man to enter his wife in her vagina from any direction he wishes – from behind or from the front just think of any style on the condition that it is done through vaginal. About this Allah revealed the following verse:

*“Your wives are a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how you will” Al-Quran: al-Baqarah 2:223

Do it anytime: Day or night

Women should not fast without the permission of the husband, except mandatory fast and when you are fasting the voluntary fast, both can break it because of sex

Ladies please don't deny your husband when he needs it

DO YOU WANT ANOTHER ROUND??

Try to take a bath before another round, this will increase your strength or at least perform ABLUTION

As far as I know, their is no limitations to where spouses can see from each other

PROHIBITIONS DURING SEX

1- It is strictly prohibited to come to her through ANUS
Don't do or allow it except you're inviting punishment from Allah

2- Don't have sex during menstruation however, you can do other things

3- Mouth Action: This attitude is disliked among the scholars. Some related it to animal behavior and it is common among the west. Watching porn has been the source of learning this behavior and their is a serious warning regarding the act.

It is very possible to contact some disease like cancer of the throat and many more through this act of which we are forbade to injure ourselves and if you die as a result, it is related to commit suicide

4- It is harram to watching or learning various sexual styles through porn be warned.

5- Masturbation is harram

Wallahu Tahala Ahlam


Copied with little additions

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 3:52am On Apr 26, 2017
[quote author=CarolineOlawale post=55919870][/quote]

What is this one saying

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 9:07am On Apr 26, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Lol.. That nigga, Sometimes I wonder if he makes Taubah to Allaah, perhaps Allaah will cleanse his heart n nafs. Bcuz I just shame for him, gaskia.... Keep the good work Muhammad. B grin
Abi o Egbon! grin
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 6:38pm On Apr 26, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:


Lol.. That nigga, Sometimes I wonder if he makes Taubah to Allaah, perhaps Allaah will cleanse his heart n nafs. Bcuz I just shame for him, gaskia.... Keep the good work Muhammad. B grin
Don't Shame for me.
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 6:54pm On Apr 26, 2017
@Empiree, Some forces are after me and they ban me. angry

Haters everywhere.

Auzubillah Minashaitan Nirajeem!

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Empiree: 7:23pm On Apr 26, 2017
tintingz:
@Em.piree, Some forces are after me and they ban me. angry

Haters everywhere.

Auzubillah Minashaitan Nirajeem!
Lol
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 1:22pm On Apr 27, 2017
tintingz:
@Empiree, Some forces are after me and they ban me. angry

Haters everywhere.

Auzubillah Minashaitan Nirajeem!
grin grin tongue

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 2:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
Demmzy15:
grin grin tongue
oga, abeg swerve.
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Nobody: 10:00am On Apr 28, 2017
Demmzy15:
Abi o Egbon! grin
Egbon bawo angry.. Don't OLD me nigga cool

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 10:26am On Apr 28, 2017
RABIUSHILE04:

Egbon bawo angry.. Don't OLD me nigga cool
grin grin
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Crownadex(m): 10:45am On Apr 28, 2017
yazach:


Sorry Bros I beg no offence, this post is strictly meant for people with wisdom, prudent people, wise men, talented creatures, etc.
You mean silent is the best answer for a fool ?
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by SwillG: 11:00am On Apr 28, 2017
Whereas is this same scholars that practices promiscuity the most... They jump on women like horses and rape under age girls all in the name of tradition...

OP please get a life

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by zeenaman: 11:04am On Apr 28, 2017
this is why Islam is different from other religions. so bold, plain and explicit. never shy of the truth

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by transient123(m): 11:06am On Apr 28, 2017
dalaman:
So all this ritual just because two people want to have sex??

Yea, those rituals are necessities, they made us different from dogs, cats and snakes. Reason why we are humans, not animals.

But, you know what, doing those things make sex more enjoyable and highly rewardable. Differentiate us from animals.

Thanks.

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by jamislaw(m): 11:10am On Apr 28, 2017
Keep quiet and face your own religion must everyone be christain?

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Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by watered(m): 11:13am On Apr 28, 2017
These people are not serious o. You mean my WMD is standing on full attention and I will be doing all these crap before thrusting?

Muslim wives do not wear undies while with their husbands and severally I've heard their women complain of severe injuries as a result of the inhumane way their horse-rope-like husbands thrusts.


I disagree with this poo. In fact lemme go and take tramadol (200mg),Viagra 100. Hauwa must hear from me today.
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by paskyboy: 11:20am On Apr 28, 2017
Can I used Condom or suck her nippleeee is it allow
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Nobody: 11:21am On Apr 28, 2017
watered:
These people are not serious o. You mean my WMD is standing on full attention and I will be doing all these crap before thrusting?

Muslim wives do not wear undies while with their husbands and severally I've heard their women complain of severe injuries as a result of the inhumane way their horse-rope-like husbands thrusts.


I disagree with this poo. In fact lemme go and take tramadol (200mg),Viagra 100. Hauwa must hear from me today.

You know, nobody is forcing you to comment, nobody is forcing you to be a muslim or behave like one. Just do whatever pleases you wether paganism, Christianity, hell you can even be an atheist. But pls try not to display ur animalistic tendencies here. ITS ANNOYING

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