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“I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by donogaga(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2017
A Nigerian Lady Blogger, Ifediba Oluchi Anne, has emphatically stated that she’s a LovePeddler, having slept with 2788 men.
Read Her Post Below:

I a LovePeddler! When people ask me how many men I have slept with, I tell them “2708 men excluding women”. The look on their face is always priceless and they go on to give me a speech about how I have been useless all my life. Some of them go the extra mile to tell me to give my life to christ and retrace my steps so I can get married and have kids. One time, a man told me I may not be able to have kids in the future as I had sinned too much and not kept my temple holy. I do find it funny that people are quick to shame me based on my sexual choices as a woman while cheering on a man who was the same body count as I do.

I grew up in a religious home. My parents attended The Lord’s Chosen and my mom was a fanatic for the church and its doctrines. The only sex education I got was one which relied greatly on abstinence. My mom would always sound it in my ears that I had to be a virgin. To her, virgins were entitled to a special kind of blessing from God and a sweet lasting marriage.

When I was 17, I had sex with a man who was way older than I was. He touched my boobs in the stairs and gave me gifts at every turn. I would admit that the situation which I grew up in didn’t teach me how to say “No” without feeling bad. It has taken me a good number of years to set boundaries and shun the things I do not like without being ridden by guilt.

After my first sex experience which should be considered as rape in every sane country, I went through bouts of emotional breakdown. I had done something which society frowned at and I needed time to accept it. One would expect that I would never repeat such action anymore but I only went ahead to have more sex and do all sorts of stuff mom and church told me not to do. I never got any form of sexual education so you should know I made a lot of mistakes (which I love to call lessons)


I am not a LovePeddler because I have slept with the fictional amount of men ( yes, 2708 men is a fictional figure) although I have slept with a good amount of people. I am a LovePeddler because I talk about sex too often.

A good number of adults in Nigeria are having sex but as long as they don’t talk about, it is fine. Nigerians talk about sex. They talk about how sex is like an exercise for men. They talk about how it is okay for men to have as much sex as they want while they tell women to keep themselves. They talk about how rape is caused by women seductive dressing. They talk about how any woman with more than 1 body count is not wife material. They talk about how women privates can be used as a collateral for jobs and favors. They talk about how any woman who has had sex before should not cry rape if a man takes her against her will.

As long as you talk about sex the same way they are accustomed to then you are fine. For a while now, I have been talking differently about sex on Facebook. When Instablog9ja and other media carried one of my posts, people slut-shamed me.

I have come to realize that slut-shaming is only offensive when the victim feels hurt. I do not feel hurt.I am a LovePeddler…I said it. I sleep with men and talk about sex shamelessly on my blog in ways that really matter.

Ifediba Oluchi Anne is a lifestyle & sex blogger, and she blogs at Crazyanne.com


http://gistreel.com/2017/04/22/LovePeddler-ive-slept-2788-men-nigerian-lady-says/

Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2017
typical flat head. Always giving Nigeria a bad name lipsrsealed
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by thesicilian: 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2017
I like this lady. She is what I often like to call myself: a Non-Conformist. This life is too short to be spent trying to please others, or care about "what people might say."
No one who hasn't been in your shoes has any right to judge your actions.

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Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by donogaga(m): 3:05pm On Apr 22, 2017
xstry:
typical flat head. Always giving Nigeria a bad name lipsrsealed


For being real?

She's not an hypocrite.
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:05pm On Apr 22, 2017
thesicilian:
OK
It's not okay, call your people to order.
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by HelenBee(f): 3:06pm On Apr 22, 2017
Wtf!!! No shame at all? I weep for this generation. Now I know why Jesus wept sef.

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Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2017
donogaga:



For being real?

She's not an hypocrite.
would you say the same for her if she were your sister?
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by donogaga(m): 3:15pm On Apr 22, 2017
xstry:
would you say the same for her if she were your sister?


Such a foolish question.
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:18pm On Apr 22, 2017
Only God knows how wide the hole will be
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by czarr(m): 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2017
And this is the type that would say they wouldn't accept proposal if he doesn't kneel o
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2017
Igbo fvckin anytin since 1000BC.
If dey see d1ck for ground sef, dem go pick am go fvck for bush.
Dey even rape d gentle Jew trader wey come sell market and for dat d whole flat head tribe dey claim say dem be Jew.
Awon werey
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:34pm On Apr 22, 2017
donogaga:



Such a foolish question.


Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 3:38pm On Apr 22, 2017
lofty900:
Only God knows how wide the hole will be
e go be like borehole
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Martinez19(m): 4:09pm On Apr 22, 2017
thesicilian:
I like this lady. She is what I often like to call myself: a Non-Conformist. This life is too short to be spent trying to please others, or care about "what people might say."
No one who hasn't been in your shoes has any right to judge your actions.
well spoken.

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Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by thesicilian: 5:44pm On Apr 22, 2017
Martinez19:
well spoken.
Thanks!
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Nobody: 5:45pm On Apr 22, 2017
Ah Don BE Live It
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Michellla(f): 5:47pm On Apr 22, 2017
2788 Men?

Its not possible

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Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Vivipop(f): 5:58pm On Apr 22, 2017
shocked shocked shocked
Impossible!
These bloggers and their "out of the world" kind of lie. Divide that number with 100 and I'd still say it's impossible.
Re: “I Am A LovePeddler, And I Have Slept With 2788 Men” — Nigerian Lady Says by Stanleysteno(m): 6:00pm On Apr 22, 2017
2788 men, u should have ur own complementary car by now cause ur customers don plenty... I just dey imaging how ur kitty go be now

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