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The latest bedroom trend doesn’t have to do with a certain position or technique — and it’s not sexy at all.

The disturbing, nonconsensual trend is called “stealthing” and its rise is documented in a report by the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law.

Lead author Alexandra Brodsky argues that “stealthing,” when a man secretly removes his condom in the middle of sex, is a form of sexual assault and should be treated as such.

Even more troubling is the online community Brodsky uncovered, where men encourage other men to “stealth” their partners. These perpetrators — both gay and straight — believe it’s a man’s right to “spread one’s seed.”

“One of my goals with the article, and in proposing a new statute, is to provide a vocabulary and create ways for people to talk about what is a really common experience that just is too often dismissed as just ‘bad sex’ instead of ‘violence,'” Brodsky told the Huffington Post.

The study opens with Rebecca, a doctoral student who works at a rape crisis hotline. Rebecca noticed she was receiving more and more calls about women being “stealthed.” (Rebecca said she had also experienced the same thing with an ex-boyfriend.)

“Their stories often start the same way,” Rebecca said. “’I’m not sure if this is rape, but…’” They all felt violated but “didn’t have the vocabulary” to figure out what was happening.

Not only does “stealthing” leave a victim vulnerable to pregnancy or STIs, it causes the same type of emotional, physical and financial harm that stems from other, more clearly defined, violent sex acts. One of the victims Brodsky interviewed for the report called the act “rape-adjacent.” Another victim described what happened with her partner as a “blatant violation of what we’d agree to.”

Brodsky concludes that since existing laws don’t necessarily cover “stealthing,” a new statute is the best bet for addressing something that too many people experience, but don’t know how to talk about.

“At its best, such a law would clearly respond to and affirm the harm victims report by making clear that ‘stealthing’ doesn’t just ‘feel violent’ — it is,” Brodsky writes in the report.

In January, a Swiss court convicted a man of rape after he took off his condom without telling his partner. The court concluded that the woman would have said no to sex if she knew the condom would be removed.

So Ladies there you have it, be careful, define your relationships, put value & dignity in yourselves and your bodies so men see and give you same and be in control of yourself..

http://nypost.com/2017/04/24/stealthing-is-the-newest-dangerous-sex-trend/

Only insecure fools will do such to a lady. You should first think about your health even if you dont want to respect the lady. How clean is she? Some guys no deserve get penis at all.

Those guys aren't well. I'm usually the one who insists on using a condom, despite the lady's complaints about the feel of rubber.

Any man who does that should automatically receive a jail sentence.

WhistleB:
Only insecure fools will do such to a lady. You should first think about your health even if you dont want to respect the lady. How clean is she? Some guys no deserve get penis at all.

Honestly I agree with you. With all the sickness in this world most guys will risk it for just 5minutes pleasure.

Cleopatra4:

Honestly I agree with you. With all the sickness in this world most guys will risk it for just 5minutes pleasure.

Thats if they even reach 5minutes. The way I respect, protect, and cherish my small friend down there, if half the men in this country copy me we would live so happily with less diseases.

Why would any sane person do that?

Lots of guys do that sh1t when hitting from the back... I never mad reach to go Rawlings on these h0es except my 01

Mynd44 day don break oh

Lalasticlala a new day has come oh

This one pass my power

So what's now d use of wearing it in d first place if u're going to remove it midsex? Some ppl sef

Stealthing is not rape!

The act is wrong but terming it Rape is something else.

Don't blame those men. Who enjoys licking tomtom with the nylon?

The height of stupidity!!
What insolence!!!

Homers123:
The act is wrong but terming it Rape is something else.

It might be worst than rape afteral.
Becoz the person trusted u only for her to realis after sex that u pulled the..CD wen both of u agreed not to.

She would be down emotionally due to the fear that somethin might hav been transferred.

PenisCaP:


It might be worst than rape afteral.
Becoz the person trusted u only for her to realis after sex that u pulled the..CD wen both of u agreed not to.

She would be down emotionally due to the fear that somethin might hav been transferred.

You really have a point but the raper stigma sha.

soo pple stil use condoms?

They want to stealth bah?
Thats how somebody will stealthily go and carry STDs
Kwantinu ok