Juliearth:
I feel you bro. These were the signs my ex friends exuded and I did not think twice to distant myself from them. A friend that cannot be happy about my success and be there for me in my trying time is a foe. Fie! #saynotofoes

Stevebamdex:
How do you know a friend that is bad and selfish?
They always want to dominate you when having a simple conversations.
Because they do not want your opinion.
It's about them and what they are living for all the time..
A friend that always boast about their achievement when he/she don't believe in what you can do.{They want you to be doing follow follow}
They talk mostly about I,me,myself,mine.
Run away from such people.
They don't deserve to be in your life.

tosyne2much:
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Written by: Tosyne2much

Source: http://www.tosyne2much.com/2017/04/10-signs-your-friends-are-enemies-of.html

SIRmanjar:


Nice writeup I agree with sum of ur point but I disagree with number one..Helping a frend ad borrowing a frend money has broken strong frendship more than any other thing and am telling u this based on experience..

A frend meet me for a bizness loan I borrowed him the money,,he promised to pay up within six month..omo before I know waa gwan six month turn to 2 good solid years and to make matters worst he started dodging me ad my calls.And the bizness was making profit o.
To cut the story short when I changed it for him the money fell out by force,after that he accused me of impatience..We ended our 16 years frendship becos of money..Many People regret helping frends at times even relation.
And again hadid bin I was a weakling am sure the guy would have sent assassins against me or poison me when I mounted pressure on him to pay me back..So ur number 1 reason would have led to numbr 8.Frends have killed frends that borrowed them money they don't wanna pay back.

Why depend on ur frend?abi dint ur frend hussle from scratch na mostly lazy man dey sleep wake up depend on frend.

tosyne2much:
Some friends can be so desperate though. If we are talking about people borrowing money and refusing to pay, I think that should be a story of other day.

But on the issue of friends helping each other, I think that should be the basis of friendship. Any friend that can't help you when in need is not just worth it. It has nothing to do with depending on your friend or something. So we can't base our conclusion on not wanting to helping to help them because money dissociated you from your friends. I also have a friend that has the same trait as your friend. Anytime he borrows money, it's always a thug war of contest getting your money back.

You can't survive alone without the help of at least someone. And I believe friends should be in the best position to give their friends assisting hands but recently, the people you call your friends are enemies in disguise

Happy Sunday bro

Stevebamdex:
How do you know a friend that is bad and selfish?
They always want to dominate you when having a simple conversations.
Because they do not want your opinion.
It's about them and what they are living for all the time..
A friend that always boast about their achievement when he/she don't believe in what you can do.{They want you to be doing follow follow}
They talk mostly about I,me,myself,mine.
Run away from such people.
They don't deserve to be in your life.

tosyne2much:
My brother, may God bless you for this wonderful comment. They don't give up in argument even though they know they're wrong. People with these traits are very dangerous people. People who don't swallow their pride and accept they're wrong

BiafranBushBoy:


We have a whole lot of them here!!

But the issue is that I don't give a fvck about them!!

Fvcking negative people.... Broke.. Depressed... Stupid and unintelligent!!

Infact.. The average Nigerian is an enemy of progress... Once you become more successful than them... they find ways to talk bad about you!!

Meanwhile...

I am counting my money so I can't hear them!!

ephi123:

BiafranBushBoy:


Ify... lol...

are u among the bad belle??

ephi123:

Not at all!

BiafranBushBoy:


you dey Lagos??

ephi123:


I be virtual resident, can't say more than that, lol.

tosyne2much:
A bad person can go to the length of acting like a secondary school just just to bring you down.. Ooooh! You think enemies of progress only act like university students?

AngelicBeing:

SIRmanjar:

Happy sunday..Its very hard to see a frend help a frend these days they rather buy you drink, flex ad lavish money in front of u so that you will spread the gospel of how rich he is in the street..but when it comes to setting that frend up they wont.I don't blame them shaa becos you don't know the pains ad risk they went tru to make money and how frends gossipd about them when they were broke..

The easiest way to get help from a frend is to ask for a loan which might cos wahala between them in future if he helps out..Some might pay and sum will not..The frend in need might be lucky to get the loan if not at least half of the loan.

tosyne2much:
May God enrich you with wisdom my brother

Happy New Month bro

tosyne2much:
You quoted me without saying anything nah

AngelicBeing:
l agreed with your post & that of the other guy l quoted.

tosyne2much:
My sister you're not alone

snezBaba:
Everyone seems to have such friends but erhm deep down ask yourself....

Aren't you also that type of friend ?

jeeqaa7:
this is absolute fallacy..
i will tell you ... to grow you need your friends
either actively or passively you need them
all you need do is expect nothing from them
they owe you nothing .. absolutely nothing
and the day you realise it... that day
you solve 90% of your problems .. your best friend is yourself..
believe me

THEY WILL COME ...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xucVmbXIy0k

jeeqaa7:
this is absolute fallacy..
i will tell you ... to grow you need your friends
either actively or passively you need them
all you need do is expect nothing from them
they owe you nothing .. absolutely nothing
and the day you realise it... that day
you solve 90% of your problems .. your best friend is yourself..
believe me

THEY WILL COME ...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xucVmbXIy0k