AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE
After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is whom to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.
So many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, 'the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse'.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right,u must set ur goals . What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about whom you need, that will make you better while you make him a priority, It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.
You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will.
Don't marry for sex. Don't marry because you are of age. Don't marry because you are getting old. Don't marry because you are lonely. Don't marry because you need someone to support you financially. Don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant. Don't marry because you don't want to lose the person. Don't marry because of family pressures. Don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see. Don't marry because your friends are getting married. Don't marry because the man is handsome or the woman is beautiful.
But, get married because you want to fulfil destiny. As a woman, get married because you want to be a help mate. As a man, get married because you want to fulfil your purpose.Because you wanna be a blessing to someone.Ultimately, don't wait for the right person, be the right person and you'll have a peaceful marriage. Stay blessed
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