I am going to state two instances that made me ask this question.

1. I had a this girl I liked when I was in school. We were in the same department but she was a year my junior. I asked her out, but she had a boyfriend, so we just remained friends. We were friends till I graduated, and after school, we kinda lost touch. One day, I remembered her number and called her after several years. She was very excited to hear from me and asked if we could meet at the mall. I got there, and she was with her whole family, and she introduced me to her mom. So, we wondered off, aimlessly, just talking, and catching up on old times. She told me she was married, but her husband was in another town. Anyway, when we were leaving the mall, her whole family (brothers, cousin, and mom) were a few feet behind us, and while we were walking, she wrapped her arm around mine. I found that really really odd.

2. Second situation. I got introduced to this lovely girl back in 2014, and we became close really fast. The chemistry was awesome. Then I found out she was getting married in a couple of weeks. My heart was broken, so I kinda stopped calling her. But she didn't stop calling, and even after getting married, we still used to chat once in a while. One day, she invited me for her birthday party at her house. I asked her how that would be possible. She said they would be too many people in the house for anyone to ask who I was. I sensed she really loved her husband, but she liked me nevertheless. In an innocent way though.

I just have been thinking. Is it allowed for a married woman to have male friends?

For some.but.for me its a no because of those moment when things might not be Rossy between us, I want to be the only crying arm. This helps settle differences in no time. Workmates relationship at the office level fine though and same applies to me.

yes it's aloud

RB007:
yes it's aloud

Okay. It is aloud, but not allowed.

olab059:

Okay. It is aloud, but not allowed.

naso oh bros

RB007:
yes it's aloud

On hiptv abi

Afonjashapmouth:
For some.but.for me its a no because of those moment when things might not be Rossy between us, I want to be the only crying arm. This helps settle differences in no time. Workmates relationship at the office level fine though and same applies to me.

I totally understand.

To be frank, married women make d best of friends...

dingbang:
To be frank, married women make d best of friends...

Hmm! If I may ask, why do you say so?

olab059:


Hmm! If I may ask, why do you say so?

they are experienced.. Not your regular type of female friend... They have seen it all and beared it all... They give good advice too...

Were you born to be friend zoned?,cos your friendzone level is very high.

Were you born to be friend zoned?,cos your friendzone level is very high.

Same thoughts here. E be like say the tin dey him body

Depends on the state of the marriage. Some friendships cause a lot of insecurities in marriages if that union is already fragile. So this is what I say if a woman is fine with her husband having female friends then she can argue her point. If this is something she is not prepared to consider then the answer is no .

dingbang:
they are experienced.. Not your regular type of female friend... They have seen it all and beared it all... They give good advice too...

Hmm! Okay.

Raine80:
Depends on the state of the marriage. Some friendships cause a lot of insecurities in marriages if they are already fragile. So this is what I say if a woman is fine with her husband having female friends then she can argue her point. If she this is something she is not prepared to consider then the answer is no .

Okay. Great comment.

It's a NO for me. There will always be awkward moments and even if i trust my wife i can't trust the dude.

Galacious1:
It's a NO for me. There will always be awkward moments and even if i trust my wife i can't trust the dude.

Okay. What if your wife is always quiet but lights up and becomes very active and happy when a friend of yours is around, and even some times asks you when he is coming next, how would you react?

no frnds in my matrimonial home i dnt need dat shit! n as for my wife havin male frnds she wont dear try dat shit we'll be best frnds as we already are ,in courtship! hav seen wat some sort of friendship can cause

Depends on d kinda man dey r marrying...

Headlesschicken:
Depends on d kinda man dey r marrying...

Okay.

vicben27:
no frnds in my matrimonial home i dnt need dat shit! n as for my wife havin male frnds she wont dear try dat shit we'll be best frnds as we already are ,in courtship! hav seen wat some sort of friendship can cause

Hmm! Okay.

darbeelicous:
marriage z definitely not d end of one's life. I c nothing wrong with it. as long as u keep it open and ur partner knows all about your other friends.

Okay.