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Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 6:36pm On May 04, 2017 |
After a breakup , its normal for the used-to-be-couple to either stop talking, cut ties or even hate themselves. What im confused about is when after falling madly in love with each other, quarrelling and then breaking up , both individuals actually become friends again and act like nothing ever happened. Is that feasible? I tend to question the love they had in the first place. |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by dtruth50: 6:42pm On May 04, 2017 |
YEA is possible but is either dey are still in love or never be in love before 4 Likes |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by NelsonNeo(m): 6:42pm On May 04, 2017 |
Marisol911:never worked fr me! We become total strangers after a failed relationship 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:44pm On May 04, 2017 |
If they want, yeah. ©YBR |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by ctex4real(m): 6:44pm On May 04, 2017 |
I dont think its necessary for them to be good friends. It would only incite emotions that may restore the relationship. Dont give chances unless you are ready to take chances. #mytake |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Nickizoe(f): 6:53pm On May 04, 2017 |
I have seen ex lover's become real friends again.... The guy is married now to the Lady that bears his child They act so friendly that the guy even visits the girl in her family home.. They gist , laugh abuse them selves like two fresh love birds Friends and both families even get confuse about them He still gets her stuffs The guy knows the Lady is really in a real relationship that will soon lead to marriage The question we keep asking is, Are they Insane?? Is their something still fishing ? Are they still in love?? The girl is my cousin.. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Nobody: 6:58pm On May 04, 2017 |
Of course,yes. |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:03pm On May 04, 2017 |
NelsonNeo:works differently for me.. we dont necessarily become total strangers,, but we wont be good friends anymore.. maybe just d "hi hi " friends.. but nothing more |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:05pm On May 04, 2017 |
Nickizoe:un my opinion, they are still in love. what they have is still there. its glaring 1 Like |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:07pm On May 04, 2017 |
ctex4real:Right? i think so too.. unless youre willing to take on whatever results from becomin close again, DO Not be close friends with exes |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:08pm On May 04, 2017 |
Tiny23:Really? why? 1 Like |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Nobody: 7:25pm On May 04, 2017 |
It's called being emotionally and mentally mature. Things did not work out between my ex and I, I will most certainly not hate him on that account. Further more not every one fights and calls each other all sorts of names when they split up.If you had the foresight to see that you had become parallel lines in the relationship and took time to see if this can be rectified and that was not possible then you part ways. It's when you both pretend ( or one of you does) that all is only to have one head on collision in the end , this is when bitterneee and anger fester. They exist because one of you was not honest and forthright. I have no hatred or anger towards my ex, I would not describe us as friends but when we do meet we are able laugh and joke and have rich conversations. 1 Like |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:38pm On May 04, 2017 |
Raine80: Kudos! thanks! |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Splinz(m): 7:49pm On May 04, 2017 |
Marisol911: A breakup brings into question the genuinity of the love in the first place. Marisol911: There's no such thing like the bold. What happened was infatuation, which manifested in its due time. Marisol911: Well, that people were once blinded by infatuation leading to their own hurt, doesn't necessarily means that when they breakup, then they must be sworn enemies. And yes, the so-called love is exposed for what it is- infatuation! |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 7:55pm On May 04, 2017 |
Splinz: Yea, i agree with ur analysis , i agree it's most times infatuation but do you mean falling madly in love can never happen? or that people who actually fall genuinely in love cant break up? |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Nobody: 7:56pm On May 04, 2017 |
There are wounds that can never heal. Especially if one party is the cheated one. He would forever feel bad. Been in a situation like this, you give in your all to a relationship, the girl and her family just waste your time, and in the end, they marry her off to someone else, in the name of, she's a big girl,she knows what she wants. Those chilling words, the mother said to me... today was her traditional wedding, they didn't even tell me, a friend of hers who didn't like what she did told me and asked me to leave.. all will be fine. The girl and her family still added me to their Facebook accounts, I wonder why.. I know with time, this wound will heal. We can never be friends again, I even plan on opening a new Facebook account so I forget them on the first one. 3 Likes |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Splinz(m): 8:06pm On May 04, 2017 |
Marisol911: Cool. Marisol911: Here, I agree with this Bible verses: “Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil... Love never fails” (1 Corinthians 13:4-5, 8 ). 2 Likes |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 8:23pm On May 04, 2017 |
gimakon: Wow.. i can tell you really loved her... all the same , move on bro! im sure theres someone better deserving of your love.. what will be will be...what isnt, wasn't meant to be 1 Like |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 8:25pm On May 04, 2017 |
Splinz: Smiles., he even has biblical backup |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Safiaa(f): 8:27pm On May 04, 2017 |
My ex is my best friend. |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 10:16pm On May 04, 2017 |
Safiaa:Y'all most definitely still have feelings for each other |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Safiaa(f): 10:21pm On May 04, 2017 |
Lol nahhh Look at him like my brother now. Marisol911: |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 04, 2017 |
Marisol911:well I'll never agree for any girl of mine to still be friends with her ex... Nah, you either stay with me or I'll assume you're against me and walk away. You can't stand it when I'm friends with my ex trust me... Jealousy and insecurity issues will bring u down. 1 Like |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 3:57pm On May 05, 2017 |
Safiaa:hmm.! b deceiving yaself nw oo |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 3:57pm On May 05, 2017 |
Safiaa:hmm.! b deceiving yaself there oo |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by brownlolly(m): 8:35am On May 06, 2017 |
Marisol911: Well, I'm going thru the exact same situation now. I still wake up some mornings (like today) and chat her up. Truthfully I'm not over her but it's just like a love story that was never meant to be. Yet, I can't let go and we both understand that. With time things should play out well enough to define whatever relationship we will have |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 10:24am On May 06, 2017 |
brownlolly:I guess the major factor here is TIME |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by akaahs(m): 10:36am On May 06, 2017 |
Having an ex as ur friend is like using a surger cane as a walking stick. Once u feel thirsty u 'll eventually chew it. |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Marisol911(f): 10:40am On May 06, 2017 |
akaahs:Hehehe.. akaahs, you think? |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by brownlolly(m): 12:36pm On May 06, 2017 |
Marisol911: I guess so |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by Ladyfranzy(f): 12:37pm On May 06, 2017 |
Yes but the feeling could still be there |
Re: Can Ex Lovers Become Good Friends Again? by FreeSpirited: 12:41pm On May 06, 2017 |
Yea.....They can always come back to bang themselves.Its a natural thing |
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