missomo:


You have a point the world is too wicked but you also won't blame them too much. The economy is so tough that one income isn't enough to sustain the family anymore. Women have also realised that they need to be financially independent with the rate at which men cheat and abandon their marriages and for unforseen circumstances like death of a spouse or him even losing his job. God will direct and take care of us all.

you have a point but when you are too attached to whatever thing you're doing, it becomes a problem for you. All men need maximum attention from their spouse. For instance, all this celebs that's having problem in their marriages has something to do with cheating

Arrant nonsense. Lazy wife

sukkot:
end time cook

end time wife wey no gree cook

women no longer belong to the kitchen

asatemple:
you have a point but when you are too attached to whatever thing you're doing, it becomes a problem for you. All men need maximum attention from their spouse. For instance, all this celebs that's having problem in their marriages has something to do with cheating

I totally get you dear. But being a career woman has nothing to do with not being able to give him maximum attention. He is not a toddler. Husbands and wives need to understand that due to kids and work a little something has to give.

And maximum attention doesn't guarantee fidelity. Some women sit at home everyday yet their spouses make up fictitious office trips and meetings just to meet up with one side chick or the other. Having a marriage work these days entails genuine love, the fear of God, understanding and compromise.

As for the celebrities, those ones mostly had faulty foundations and more often than not had the demise of their relationships coming.

Oyind17:
women no longer belong to the kitchen

oh really ? where they belong now ?

sukkot:
oh really ? where they belong now ?

In the other room

Oyind17:
In the other room

ze oza room without eating ? you wan kee pesin ? lol. she haf to cook first na so we can haf stamina

sukkot:
ze oza room without eating ? you wan kee pesin ? lol. she haf to cook first na so we can haf stamina

househelp will do the cooking. I need that strength to fire down

Oyind17:
househelp will do the cooking. I need that strength to fire down

you can eat what some downtrodden helpless exploited househelp has cooked ? wow it would be easy to poison someone like you

sukkot:
you can eat what some downtrodden helpless exploited househelp has cooked ? wow it would be easy to poison someone like you

Lol, I don't live with anyone and I'm not planing to. Just kidding

Goodnuel:
He cooked the properties..

Why do people even hire guys as cooks??

d wife no wan lose her husband to housegirl and they double as gateman security. cuz one get two free

Mophasa:
Serves them right, I wish the guy luck

When there are many unemployed youths over here who can even cook better

I wonder why we value foreigners so much in this country from philipinos to red Indians, lebanese, now even contonu sef

It's high time we do away with the so called "expatriates" and embrace our local skills and talents

My opinion

our youth are expensive

MisterLomantic:
How did she get the $6m in the first place.

I smell lies

Na arrangee plan dem cook up

Haba! Bros learn to read clearly first b4 commenting. your question is on a reference joor.

diva90:
Beware of all these Cotonou and Benin republic domestic servants. We have heard too many bad things... If it's not one that murdered the boss, it is another that stole oga's property or kidnapped oga's child. If one must source for a domestic servant, then why not do so locally

Or get a junior relative or even wait patiently for ur kids to grow to the age of helping out wt house chores.

Busy parents or couples are forgetting that times have changed.

mikolo80:
our youth are expensive

Expensive and lazy, wt "too much money syndrome "
making them equally dangerous.
One should just either get a junior relation or wait patiently uuntil his/her kids are grown to the age of helping out wt house chores.

discman2k2:


Expensive and lazy, wt "too much money syndrome "
making them equally dangerous.
One should just either get a junior relation or wait patiently uuntil his/her kids are grown to the age of helping out wt house chores.

or buy bulk food from buka or caterer or do food pool with other wives

Pavore9:
Is it that Nigerian guys can cook, that Beninoise guys are regularly brought in as cooks?l

Most Nigerians are not willing to undergo necessary training to qualify as a cook. Those Beninoise have the certificate and EXPERIENCE needed to work as cooks. It is the same situation in the construction industry where we prefer foreign masons, tillers, POP installers, etc. How many formal school teaches welding?

mfm04622:


Most Nigerians are not willing to undergo necessary training to qualify as a cook. Those Beninoise have the certificate and EXPERIENCE needed to work as cooks. It is the same situation in the construction industry where we prefer foreign masons, tillers, POP installers, etc. How many formal school teaches welding?

I recall some years ago while working in Awka Anambra State, our tilling project which was huge was handled by some Togolese who were in their early 20's while the young men of the community were idling away arguing over English premiership teams.

mikolo80:
d wife no wan lose her husband to housegirl and they double as gateman security. cuz one get two free

Lol... The husband no d fear to lose the wife??

nextstep:


Because they are very professional and have less drama in general. That is, until stealing became so rampant.
Also, zero temptation for oga

What about temptation for madam??

zicca:
because madam no won hear say Oga do strong thing with female cook

Loll.. Madam no fit do strong thing with male cook??

GavelSlam:


Because they can cook and often hygienic in their handlings.

Am not comfortable with guys cooking for me, females are best.

Goodnuel:
Lol... The husband no d fear to lose the wife??

women hardly fork below their status

It's unfortunate when people make reckless comments rather than sympathise. I know the family personally and they had another Cotonou cook who had previously lived with them for over 5 years without a singular incident. This could have happened to anyone. I thank God they didn't harm them. All those valuables can be replaced but not life.