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Dating Vs Relationship And Other Ironies by Anuoluwapo23(f): 6:57pm On May 06, 2017
Dating Vs Relationship And Other Ironies.
Guys want to date someone fun, wild and spontaneous but they want to marry someone calm, smart and reserved.
Most people won't get married to the kind of partners they dreamt of. Only 3 out of 10 serious relationships lead to marriage and 1 out of the 3 are not happy together. Ever wondered why married people always have to add "happily" when saying they are married?

Getting attention as a young girl is very easy therefore, many young girls approach adulthood with the illusion that getting married must be easy. Girlfriends and boyfriends are celebrating anniversaries of relationships that obviously won't lead to marriage.
The young girl in a relationship with a married man is a young girl that wish to get married someday, right? Must be awkward lying silent on a cosy hotel bed, while her married lover discuss good family stuffs with his wife and kids at home.
It's 2017, men are still very polygamous but not in marriage. Many guys find it easy keeping two or more girlfriends but finding a wife is one of the hardest quest for any man.

Dating is fun, independent and comes with free exits. Marriage is bliss, but when it's hard, quitting can be painful and expensive.
Dating is unserious and temporary; marriage is so serious, you'll need harsh preparatory classes, counselling, tests, ceremonies and certifications.
Boyfriend and Girlfriend are not relationship titles. Relationship titles include fiance, husband, brother, wife, fiancee etc. Dating titles include girlfriend, sidechick, sugardaddy, boyfriend, friends with benefit etc.
Relationships often have something like a ring or documents to show for it, not nude pictures and empty promises.

Dating and dating is not a smart step towards marriage... you are steps AWAY from getting married if you've had four or more boyfriends. Ladies who got engaged quicker are ladies who weren't dating and dating.
A girl who loves dating can keep dating forever but a girl that would love to get married must live a reserved and self restrained life.
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Re: Dating Vs Relationship And Other Ironies by dingbang(m): 7:00pm On May 06, 2017
Please what is today's Date
Re: Dating Vs Relationship And Other Ironies by SweetyZinta(f): 7:41pm On May 06, 2017
Hmmm





True to some extent but can you guys just let the Bankys to be? I have heard the name like a million times just this week

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