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Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Macgreat(m): 10:38pm On May 07, 2017 |
In a typical Nigerian setting when your boss sent you to go and be a lier , "thief" and an imposter or an impersonator at an Event and you refuse then you get suspended and later forced to resign. 1. There was no official "written" communication. 2. This assignment was given after office hour (5pm). Question: is there is professional way of saying "NO" |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Macgreat(m): 10:46pm On May 07, 2017 |
Seun, Lalasticlala |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by BRIGHTRIVERS(m): 10:55pm On May 07, 2017 |
Skibo! ..Op send me your madam number..shebi na to attend d event? I've been attending events I was not even invited since I was a kid. Following this post bumper to bumper.. 6 Likes |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Nobody: 7:16am On May 08, 2017 |
Following |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Goldenheart(m): 7:16am On May 08, 2017 |
Do what you got to do.... If you don't feel like doing shiii, that's your cup of kunu ... |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Celestyn8213: 7:16am On May 08, 2017 |
Yes... Just keep quiet. Action speaks louder than words. |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by dheespectre: 7:16am On May 08, 2017 |
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Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by In2systemsTech(m): 7:17am On May 08, 2017 |
Official way: factory reset slap for your boss |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by SexyNairalander: 7:17am On May 08, 2017 |
booked |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Raydans: 7:18am On May 08, 2017 |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Nobody: 7:18am On May 08, 2017 |
Macgreat: There is; give clear reasons why. It's even better if you can POLITELY appeal to the boss's sense of judgement. For instance: "Sir, this instruction seems to suggest I should be a liar and an impostor, both ILLEGAL acts that can ruin the reputation of this company. "Sir, this could even be reported on Nairaland for the whole world to see. I suggest we look for other ways of building the company that will not put us to shame, Sir" Something like that 9 Likes |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by gaetano: 7:21am On May 08, 2017 |
"No oooo" |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Abdul124(m): 7:23am On May 08, 2017 |
yeah.! by doing d assignment wrongly. 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Sheikhmd007(m): 7:25am On May 08, 2017 |
BRIGHTRIVERS:So you are a pot. |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by MidasTouche01(m): 7:25am On May 08, 2017 |
Saying, I'm sorry sir/ma, this is wrong / unethical, I can't do it |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by idee91: 7:28am On May 08, 2017 |
You blow a whistle if there are policies to protect whistle blowers |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by okenwa(m): 7:29am On May 08, 2017 |
Remind your boss that you were employed by the organisation on grounds of integrity and honesty. the errands you are sending me definitely defy these principles. Sir, you may please assign someone else to represent...... Or Sir, I haven't represented this organisation in this capacity before and I may not be able to do it better than the other person who has been representing. Please assign another person 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by bigtt76(f): 7:38am On May 08, 2017 |
Send an email to the boss to reconfirm what s/he wants you to do. That way you've documented who sent you. There's the likelihood you would get no response hence no need for you to act. If you get a response, reply with reasons why you shouldn't do that. If you're sacked, you got evidence with which to sue their a55! Macgreat: 9 Likes |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by GoldenJAT(m): 7:43am On May 08, 2017 |
never u pretend!!if ur conscience aint buying in2 it....then somethin is definitely wrong somewhere.its just dt some pple av tis mentality of always tryin 2 please everi1.maintain ur stance...and if u r laid off..Move over 2d next job like a boss...talkin frm experience. |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Nobody: 7:50am On May 08, 2017 |
Just say NO. 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Spainze007(m): 8:05am On May 08, 2017 |
See dis people forming Saint ooooo hmmmmm We are Nigerians... We kw ourselves |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Xzbit91: 8:09am On May 08, 2017 |
Spainze007: What do you mean by the bolded? |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by jericco1(m): 8:37am On May 08, 2017 |
NO is No |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by PeacenLove2: 9:12am On May 08, 2017 |
Just say Okay, sir. Don't go if you don't want to go. If he calls you kater, tell him you have jedi jedi and you have been in and out of the toilet. Tell a lie too, any kind that flies. He who like lie must chop lie too. 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by sbashir10(m): 9:19am On May 08, 2017 |
that's why i don't call myself a realist, I'm an idealist, you send me on an errand i don't like, and i couldn't tell it to your face that i cannot do it. I'll simply put up an act, and I'll lie to you instead that i did it but wasn't successful. this in particular i usually do to an aunty, who likes sending to her debtors, i won't even hesitate, I'll simply walk around the street then come back and tell her i couldn't find the debtor around |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by gift01: 9:37am On May 08, 2017 |
Add for a bogus bonus or something expensive that will put him off. But try to document everything. Don't try being a sheep cos he's already crossed the line. It could also be a test. Play smart |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Nobody: 10:56am On May 08, 2017 |
If it's a one man's company and he is the MD, there is little you can do. However, If he is not the MD but just a line manager or supervisor. You can do a mail to him telling him you have other duties as assigned in your contract.. like you preparing for a deadline. You are a bit safe here since his errands are unofficial. The copy of the mail will be your saving grace. Same applies to multinational firm. |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by foody(f): 11:32am On May 08, 2017 |
A child answered this question some years back. The landlord came knocking on Mr..... door and said Junior how are you? Open the door and is your father in? Junior answered wait I am coming. Junior's father beckoned to Junior and told him to tell the landlord that he was not around . Junior went back to the door and said good morning Sir, my daddy just went to the room now and said I should tell you that he is not around..... Hope the story helps |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Thobiy(m): 12:12pm On May 08, 2017 |
alignacademy:This sound good |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Spainze007(m): 9:48pm On May 08, 2017 |
What am saying is how many Nigerians would Say *NO* when u kw uve not seen another JOB in the filling station to be selling fuel... Xzbit91: |
Re: Is There A Professional Way Of Saying "NO" ? by Macgreat(m): 12:58am On Jun 02, 2017 |
alignacademy: Nice one sir 1 Like |
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