I have a gf. We have been dating for about 7 months. We were friends for two years before dating. I decided to ask her out coz' I felt it was better with a friend than a stranger.

The relationship was fine until I realized she was spending more time with her phone than me even when she visits.

Yesterday, she came visiting and slept off and I checked her phone. Behold, I saw all manner of chats on her phone. Including with a guy she claimed she just met. They were exchanging sex chats. I was in a state of shock. The most painful thing is that she told she loved him in less than two weeks. and sent him the msgs on my bed, Someone she had never met.

I simply woke her up and showed her the msgs. She kept saying she never meant it and started crying. I called the guy and congratulated him and told him to keep her for himself and told her I never wanted to see her again.

She has been begging ever since. I am not the type to hold a grudge. I just want to move on.

N.B: I bought her the phone. Give her monthly allowance and even dedicate my time to her even tho' I am comfortable and working.


Can someone please advise me coz' I still love her but want to let go.

... u bought d phone for her
.... in less than two weeks ...told d guy I love u ... someone he never met b4.
... u r comfortably a working class.

my dear, she don open an account for ur head. see u see High Bp if eventually u give her another chance

Move on! Girls don't worth it



"She only loves you cös of the things you give her"

She is a flirt,let her be....
Maybe she is dating you out of pity n not cos she wants to or feel anything for you

if u really want to move on, i think u will av to get rid of anythng; everythng that reminds u of her. ... Time heals d wound of a man's heart.

Make sure u do not go back 2dat gal,those kinda gals no longer v remorse,I hope u v phucked her though,cos if u haven't, i would kindly delete dis post,it doesn't always pay 2b nice to gals...

Nawa for girls ooo...
Nigerian girls sha... I hail all of una

I no dey waste time to dump such girls...

I think you should give her a 2nd chance

And try to know what she wants...maybe you arent giving her what she truly want...you said the relationship was fine at a point,so something happened...just try to do all those things she and d guy were doing with her...goodluck

This is what u should do to her