I met her on phone mistakenly and we dated without sighting each other for 3 years until I saw her late last year (2009). I have a long time relationship with another babe which may lead to marriage but this my "phone girl" strongly believes I will lead her to the alter too. Since we saw each other she has always been trying to satisfy me including trying to force money on me and looking for job for me.
1. She is not my tribe but from my country
2. She is as pretty as my real babe
3. She hasnt disclosed her age to me but she appears as old as I am if not older,
4. She is not educated (unlike my real babe) but she speaks impeccable English
5. She threatens to commit suicide if I tell her it's over.
Pls what do I do?

Implications of cheating.why did u start a fon reletionshp when u have a real babe as u call it?she's been wasting 3 yrs of her life wit u,now u want 2 cut her off just like dat,ur real babe is also hopin 2 be ur wife,if u weren't serious wit the fon girl,why did u let it last dis long?well u caused ur problem so figure it out urself.

[/b]If u are a polygamist then good for u,

if not who amongst the two ladies are u in love with?[b]

ITS YOUR DECISION BRO,

double blessing
just marry both of them

@poster
the fact that she says that she will commit suicide if you leave her means that this lady is mentally/emotionally unstable.

you have a good thing going on with your current gf, so stick to it. if its not working between the two of you then let her know about it and quickly break up with her. no need to waste her time or yours.

as for the mentaly unstable lady, i suggest you meet people for real and spend time with them first before evaluating them, you might just suffer from "filled balls syndrome" (thats when you wait for something so long that you fail to focus on whats really important.)