Good evening guys, I trust you all are having a sunny and cool evening.. Guys I simply need your advice pertaining an issue..

I want to call it quit my lady but I don't actually know the appropriate time for me to carry out such decision.. the reason being that, at the moment she ain't around and I don't consider it OK telling her via the phone..

she would be coming back for a friend's wedding which I would also be attending.. will it be appropriate for me to break the news to her while she is around for the wedding? or should I wait till the wedding is over? mind you she would be leaving immediately for school and we might not have the time to discuss.. Also I don't want to keep on prolonging the matter, I just want to tell her my mind and be free.


forgive my grammatical errors, thanks..

Why do you want to end the relationship

Ur an arsenal fan i guess
sorry dear
just move on, ur attitude will tell her ur no more interested in her again
whats ur reason for quitting?

op let me u wat u will do.....

just pack flowers and rose full everywhere make it look like a proposal. ....


then tell her I am not doing again
let cameras be on ground too..
..make it memorable bro





op please note I am not responsible for that post u read up there cheers

If you would pour out her crime then we might wanna advice you, until then bruff I am someones brother sir.

after drilling dat hole finish u nw comin to us fr advice on how to quit d job.... na we give u d project? na u start am, how we wan take epp u finish am....osiso common go back to d hole ur drilling

hmmmm.. why do you wanna break up with her?

I felt going by my previous posts on this section there was no need for me to spell out the reasons but it's obvious that it's pertinent for me to do so..

she has betrayed my trust not once,not twice but on three good occasions..This alone has given me enough reasons to always doubt her.. She also lies alot.. sincerely I don't take her words for truth anymore.. This has made me to question her movements and actions and this ain't healthy for any relationship which is progressive in nature.

I have tried my best to see if I can live with this life style of hers but it's so obvious I can't.. I can't trust her anymore.. Even after the last issue we had, she has lied to me unknowing to her that I know the truth but I didn't make a fuss out of that..I had wanted to take it to the next level but with these and all, I think I have to halt.. presently I placed the relationship on hold.
the straw that broke the camels back was when she said she ain't sure securing a future with me.

so as it is now, I want to put an end to it now and stop the deceit..i don't want to waste time and resources.. though I have been given her attitude this days..

my question is when do you think it's appropriate for me to call it quit based on what I earlier posted? thanks

Gpopsicle:
I felt going by my previous posts on this section there was no need for me to spell out the reasons but it's obvious that it's pertinent for me to do so..

she has betrayed my trust not once,not twice but on three good occasions..This alone has given me enough reasons to always doubt her.. She also lies alot.. sincerely I don't take her words for truth anymore.. This has made me to question her movements and actions and this ain't healthy for any relationship which is progressive in nature.

I have tried my best to see if I can live with this life style of hers but it's so obvious I can't.. I can't trust her anymore.. Even after the last issue we had, she has lied to me unknowing to her that I know the truth but I didn't make a fuss out of that..I had wanted to take it to the next level but with these and all, I think I have to halt.. presently I placed the relationship on hold.

so as it is now, I want to put an end to it now and stop the deceit.. though I have been given her attitude this days..

my question is when do you think it's appropriate for me to call it quit based on what I earlier posted? thanks

Anytime bro.. She might have even dumped you first.. Base on some of the things you said... Just do it right now.. Call her and tell her no hard feelings bro

invinzible1:


Anytime bro.. She might have even dumped you first.. Base on some of the things you said... Just do it right now.. Call her and tell her no hard feelings bro

thanks, I do appreciate it

Homeboiy:
Ur an arsenal fan i guess

sorry dear

just move on, ur attitude will tell her ur no more interested in her again

whats ur reason for quitting?

this is wrong...attitude ke, he should make the breakup official biko

Gpopsicle:
I felt going by my previous posts on this section there was no need for me to spell out the reasons but it's obvious that it's pertinent for me to do so..

she has betrayed my trust not once,not twice but on three good occasions..This alone has given me enough reasons to always doubt her.. She also lies alot.. sincerely I don't take her words for truth anymore.. This has made me to question her movements and actions and this ain't healthy for any relationship which is progressive in nature.

I have tried my best to see if I can live with this life style of hers but it's so obvious I can't.. I can't trust her anymore.. Even after the last issue we had, she has lied to me unknowing to her that I know the truth but I didn't make a fuss out of that..I had wanted to take it to the next level but with these and all, I think I have to halt.. presently I placed the relationship on hold.
the straw that broke the camels back was when she said she ain't sure securing a future with me.

so as it is now, I want to put an end to it now and stop the deceit..i don't want to waste time and resources.. though I have been given her attitude this days..

my question is when do you think it's appropriate for me to call it quit based on what I earlier posted? thanks

We advised you to let go of her then when you created a thread about her lying to you and cheating with her ex. You agreed to do so but I knew you wouldn't going by the way you were emphasising how "she cried, she's still crying" etc.

Almost two months down the line, you're still dithering and are now seeking advise on WHEN to break up with her. You and I know you won't break up with her, Gpopsicle. If you could, you wouldn't need advise.

Cut d mouth nd throw away so sha won't tell u anoda lie nd u be free.

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kindredspirit:


We advised you to let go of her then when you created a thread about her lying to you and cheating with her ex. You agreed to do so but I knew you wouldn't going by the way you were emphasising how "she cried, she's still crying" etc.

Almost two months down the line, you're still dithering and are now seeking advise on WHEN to break up with her. You and I know you won't break up with her, Gpopsicle. If you could, you wouldn't need advise.

well, thanks for your input I really appreciate.. The point is after the last thread I opened concerning the issue, my mind wasn't into it again.. To me she no longer existed.

all I want to know is if it's appropriate breaking up over the phone or face to face?

GodnGold:
Ibu odogwu!

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