This is for men, It may be useful for you too….. Have youever listened to any Master of ceremony crack their usual jokes at wedding receptions?

It goes thus:..  “who should pay bills or take care of the children? Who is to pay school fees of children? Who should toil to provide for the home? The whole audience shouts…. “Daddy!”. Who should the child buy a car for after graduation? The women answer loudly… “mother!!!” Who should be invited to America if a child is rich and works abroad? … “Mother of course”, roared the women in the audience. Who should die first among the parents? “Daddy!”… all the women in the hall screamed…. Truly, such is the fate of an African man…. Are we not born losers? When a lady is single and has four problems and her fiancee has six problems, immediately they get married, the man’s problems become automatically ten (10) as the man immediately starts to carry the family problems….


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Please who asked them to carry this load.
There is a saying that " Heavy is the head that wears the Crown".
In other to share some of the responsibility you should also share some of the power.
If you want your children to appreciate you maybe find a woman that can shoulder some of the financial responsibilities and you can shoulder some of the child development activities.
Later now if feminists are fighting for equal power and responsibility they would be the first to jump and say children and household caretaking are the woman's responsibility now you are crying.

Timely advise.

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Honestly, I am not understanding