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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by chibuzorAbia: 4:26pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Davindal: You are insane! Olorikori! You will kill someone's daughter because you are too weak, fickle and stupid to control your self and your Yaba left emotions? I will join hand in stoning you to death (a deserved jungle justice). Haba, re-read the shitt you wrote up there. Don't ever get into a relationship as you are mad and dangerous. Are you sure you are not a mental patient? 5 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by bitcoinvin(m): 4:46pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: women and cheating are like 4 and 5..Believe me if its in my village,u must be mad by Now. When ever a woman cheats from my Village and cooks for the Husband mits either the man fall sick and die,that is if he knows or the woman will die too. 99% of woman that cheat are from a village that has no Law or Nso. Only the grace of God saves a woman from Cheating!!!!!! Even the married ones cheat most. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by bitcoinvin(m): 4:47pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: nothing can stop u from cheating,believe me..:the issue of Being Promiscious is in your Blood. Ur daughters will all do the same. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by bitcoinvin(m): 4:48pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: nothing can stop u from cheating,believe me..:the issue of Being Promiscious is in your Blood. Ur daughters will all do the same. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by MossLuv: 4:49pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
I can feel ur pains. Pls forgive yourself. Ask God to direct you in your next step. Unfortunately for you, your husband is not a good Christian (he can not easily forgive). If you want to continue being his wife don't make mistake of confessing to him cos he will definitely send you packing if you do. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: Read my lips! Never, do not tell your husband. Don't ever try it. If you try that will be the end of your marriage, even your own family will ridicule you. Everyone has sinned including your husband, but you don't see them confessing to anyone. Some things are better left untold. Nigeria men and their ego will never accept a cheating wife but will expect their wives to accept their cheating asses. You have confessed to God, now it's time to move on with your life. Don't even look back, don't even think of the incident again. Some people have done worse but are still living happily. For the sake of your sanity, do not I repeat keep this to yourself. If you must confess to him, do so on your 80th birthday. 7 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by chibuzorAbia: 5:10pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
MisterGrace: This is the absolute truth. The man has the RIGHT to know, and the wife has the OBLIGATION to tell him. She has already broken the marriage and the covenant between them. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by shhladyj(f): 5:15pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: i think u ve done penance urself and God has seen u re truely sorry, u ve confessed to ur pastor, go and sin no more. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Aragon: 5:32pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Onegai: Truly Awesome. Thanks for this beautiful post. Op here is what you need. Read well and follow this advice 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by TiffanyJ(f): 5:49pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
bitcoinvin:That's very harsh. Mr man, you sound as if you are without a single sin. You are not God, you can't define her or her kids 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by byvan03: 6:17pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Better shut the f*uck up and make peace with your offense or move out and do your confession via phone before he beats you to pulp due to shattered ego. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Pharaoh7: 6:24pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: Hi October 1st, I having being following your topic keenly because I needed to know why you cheated. Women don't cheat for the same reasons as men. Women cheat. 1. With an Ex boyfriend they still have feelings for 2. For emotional need if they are in an abusive relationship 3. They fall victim to manipulative individuals (usually a boss or cleric). When i saw you cheated with a Pastor, I just smiled. My dear you have not cheated, you were taken advantage of. You are a victim. A pawn in the hand of a manipulative man. A few years ago my wife was a victim in the hand of a Priest. When I found out I took time to discuss at length with her to know why? If one doesn't tackle the why, then it sure to happen again. When I knew the why then it became easy for me to forgive. I had to run the Priest out of town (he was a foreigner) to break the spell he had on my wife. Cleric are highly manipulative people and the tragedy here is they make you think you are doing the right thing or they are bringing you closer to GOD. Dear poster, you have conscience. That alone is a very good thing. And I can sense true repentance. My advice to you is don't tell your husband, recognize that you were a victim and not a cheat. I don't know your husband but what I know is 90% of men can't handle a cheating spouse. The knowledge will break him. 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by negotiations2(f): 6:30pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Don't confess to him.Do DAT to God alone and make sure ure genuinely repentant.if u do confess to him he will never forgive u and d outcome will be too bad.God forgives and forget but man can never forget though can pretend forgiveness. Be happy DT God had forgiven u never go back to sin for it kills. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by OKANGPRECIOUS(m): 6:38pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Everyone has a secret they never and will never tell anyone till eternity Not supporting you but if you must confess be ready to face the consequence from your husband, his family, your family, colleagues, friends, children and the entire world. Why don't you pray to God, forgive yourself move ahead. Time heals every wound. A friend of mine did it confessed to her well known cheating husband the man sent her packing instantly .please be careful. This is s very delicate issue. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by chibuzorAbia: 6:43pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
InvertedHammer: So she should hide the truth from her husband to reduce or manipulate divorce rate. The dishonesty must continue? This is new to me, meeeen! She has broken the covenant with that man. The marriage is no more even if the status quo remains. The marriage is now a fraud since the other party (husband) is unaware that it has been invalidated by the wife's actions. The husband's ignorance is completely irrelevant. The only way forward is full disclosure. With the best of luck they can perhaps rebuild and remake their bows and start afresh. The original marriage is DEAD! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Topgainer: 6:47pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
famosh:First and foremost, adultery and fornication is not permissible in Christianity. Therefore, I encourage married ones to be contented with the partners (one's husband or wife) and the singles to be patient. It saves a lot regrets. The Restitution/Confession you are asking the woman to do is not Christianity. How many of your dirty crimes have you restituted? One of your Holier- than -my- neighbour- brother quoted 'confess sin one to another' out of context to mean restitution on another thread. I was short of asking your gang members how often you have gone to your parents to confess all the evil you did away from home. Similar, to the foolish restitution of sending a second wife packing with her kids. Pentecostal overlords like the Pharisees are in the habit of digging out things out of context, yoking the gullible followers to laws and long lists of burdens. I dislike hypocrisy most especially from holier- than -thou- gangs. You said the woman will not make Heaven, will go to the hell you created if she doesn't confess to the husband. I make bold to tell you that if there is any such hell that you make the rules for admission, then you are the number one on the admission lists for such hell. Confessing sin to one another has nothing to do with Heaven or Hell, it is an advice that is intended to help people forestall a repeat of the sin and being an advice, when wrongly applied like confessing to the wrong person will give a disastrous outcome that the devil will wish for. And that is the case with this woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by kekeolu(f): 7:34pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Sincerely sis, you need to prayerfully consider your action. Seek God's face in prayers and fasting to know what to do. If you're led by the Holy Spirit to tell him then do so, if not forgive yourself and move on with your life. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ijobaorun(m): 7:53pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
There have been lots of advice ahead of me for you. But my simple contribution is that if you want to make eternity, you will have to face your fear by telling him. Pray and fast at least 3 days to hand over his spirit to God. You will be amazed at the outcome. God bless you. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Fourwinds: 7:56pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
darlenese:hmmmm....what a heart |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by cokpe41(m): 8:01pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Confession is the best but 1st. You have to meet a good and trusted pastor on restitutes to him, fast and pray with you and after hearing from God will either invite or meet ur husband we you to discuss with him base on how God instruct him. He must hear from God 1st. Expect any reaction and remember that after the rain come sun shine. "I feel secure when you come home early". "I feel loved when you use soft words to correct me" "I feel intelligent when you give me a chance to advise you" Just like someone rightly say;[color=#990000][/color] "I feel sexy when you come into the kitchen and slap my arse when I'm cooking and leave again", "I feel safe when you send me 5 messages during the day when you are at work because it feels like you think of me a lot", "I feel Happy when you come home and unwind then join me on the couch because I feel like that means you love how you feel at home", "I feel passionate when you see me looking unkempt and you push me into the bathroom, shower with me and insist on rubbing lotion on my body". May God help you. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LeanonGOD(m): 8:08pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ijobaorun:She will make eternity by God's GRACE, the precious Blood has washed away all her past mistakes. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LeanonGOD(m): 8:10pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
You are Absolutely RIGHT. negotiations2: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Luciferdevil(m): 8:13pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
victorDanladi:lol |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Luciferdevil(m): 8:16pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
GMbuharii:Lol, d guy wan finish himself with konji. Let him continue, Im waiting for him. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LeanonGOD(m): 8:21pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
May God Bless you. I pray that she read and follow your Gospel advise. I was about a quart to cheat on my wife long time ago but the Word of God that bind us together hindered my foolish desire. I thank God that I didn't, if I did it I would have find myself where this lady is today but I would not disclose it to my wife. This lady has to MOVE on and be closer to God more than anything. Pharaoh7: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by darlenese(f): 8:38pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Fourwinds: Do u have a problem with my opinion? There are over 170 million people in Nigeria ,we have diverse views and opinion and u must learn to respect peoples opinion |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Fourwinds: 8:52pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
only 2% of women agree for her to confess....I can imagine a lot out there |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Opoki(m): 8:56pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: How old are you? The man is suspecting u? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
wadetaw202: Talking nonsense. She's asked God for forgiveness, her sins are forgiven. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by holluphemydavid(m): 9:36pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Mistake u called it? Welsone sir/ma |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by wadetaw202: 9:43pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
1260days: I can as well be elected as a politician, steal money meant for the people and keep it for myself, then repent and beg God for forgiveness without returning the money and confessing to d people and start claiming God has forgiven me. Forgiveness is not complete without restitution. Your reasoning is stupid. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 10:14pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Topgainer:Baba, carry your mumu crap commot for here mehn! You yarn more crap with each post! You want to set your own convenient rules for Christianity, ba? No wahala! She doesn't even need to confess to God too! She can as well be pregnant for the pastor she cheated with, have the child & deceive the husband that he's the father, & she wouldn't need to ever confess to him (since it's an advice according to you) because of the great repercussion on her marriage, so far she has confessed & sought forgiveness from God. Continue! |
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