FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.

Does she have a good job?...if not get her a job it wl help to redirect her energy..

Mhissgaga:


So u don't know
Meet me in da other room..I wee deal wiv u silly

Judgedredd22 why u day follow me like MTN

wait make i go bring padlock o.... wa fe ku laleyin!!!


why i dey follow you everywhere? haba... i don tell you before say i like wetin i dey see... wetin remain again?

She's definitely asking for too much

I remember a thread where a man was begging for three times a week yet he was chastised for asking for too much. Now yours is offering 14 times a week...whew! I'm kinda afraid for you.

You should just tell her no...you can't handle that much. Tell her it affects your productivity at work. You could offer to play instead

Sfateema:
Twice a day
That's not too cool of a demand.
Man check yourself, you must have been loosing weight

how many times can you go daily?

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wait make i go bring padlock o.... wa fe ku laleyin!!!


why i dey follow you everywhere? haba... i don tell you before say i like wetin i dey see... wetin remain again? [/quote

why r u not in church?

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well.... where are you right at this moment?

judgedredd22:



well.... where are you right at this moment?

Am in church

Mhissgaga:


Am in church

you are in the church building, but you are not IN the church!

4lorunsho:
pls what do you mean?

it's a question you ask in the dating stages how often do you like sex

judgedredd22:



you are in the church building, but you are not IN the church!

u r not serious

Sfateema:




That I can't answer

For ur mind...anyways Ramadan Kareem

Mhissgaga:


u r not serious

babe no worry, we know how far!

fine babe na fine babe, anyday! ..na that one be my own o!

judgedredd22:



babe no worry, we know how far!

fine babe na fine babe, anyday! ..na that one be my own o!

Lol

Mhissgaga:


Lol

check your PM, if you don't mind o!

FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.

Is it not a man like you that is married to Maheeda? and he is coping with her. If she did not express her real self and seek for another man for sexual satisfaction, you will seek for divorce in the name of infidelity. My friend satisfy her now that she is still hot because she will definitely relax when the time comes.

@ok, would you rather she cheats, I would suggest you see this movies ( addiction and confessions of a marriage counsellor) by Tyler Perry.
There are several ways to satisfy a woman sexually, I must not be by penetration. MouthAction should come into play.
Now a second question, find out what arouses her and take it off her gradually.
Also,is she working if yes, there might just be this talk about sex and sexuality at work or someone hitting on her and she will rather come home to have sex with her hubby.
I understand twice everyday is not normal but we are all wired differently.
I was at one time used to having sex at least once a day. But it has reduced.

She might be dealing with sexual addiction, which is a major problem for her and that's why she has you. Don't escalate it further by involving porn and intimacy gadgets. You will be doing more harm than good.
My take is this, if it's twice a day, morning and evening, first , eliminate morning session by engaging in other physical exercises in the morning such as jogging round the neighborhood, you start it first , and then get her to join you.
Make her believe she needs to encourage you to doing loads of physical exercise so that you would have enough stamina to satisfy her.
She is an addict and any thing that will further the fulfilment of her desire will naturally engage her senses.
I know if she is physically exhausted in the morning, sex will be the last thing on her mind.
Also, get her to always feed you with fruits and vegetables. Smoothie, fruit salad, banana juice, herbs, etc. To enable you replenish lost energy.
With morning sessions gone, you only have evening sessions to deal with. Soon , evening sessions will go.
I was a chronic sex addict who couldn't do without sex a day. At times 2.or more times a day. But engaging the aforesaid, and by the help of the Holy Ghost, I can comfortably tell you that I have not slept with another outside my wife for some months now.
You have a good wife and a wonderful marriage. Don't screw it up. You wife is bold and knows what she wants and faithful.
Else, with her condition, she will be screwing everything in trouser and you will be the last to know.
Talk to her sincerely about it without judging her.
Help her not to cheat on you cos she is sick and you know it.
Thanks and God bless. Get some books on sexual addiction too. Some possible and applicable solutions shared by those who over came their addictions are there to guide you. Thanks and God bless.

judgedredd22:



check your PM, if you don't mind o!

Ohkay

bencarson007:


I disagree with you... We all work hard. I run a cabbing firm as a part time business together with my job... And I work till dawn most times cos my cabbing company is in its growth stage but I still do my bedroom chores very efficiently... Working hard is not an excuse and vibrator is not an option for married people else God would have given it to us as a spare... And besides the poster is selfish thinking about himself only and not his wife's feeling or urges... That's not cool bro.

Dealing with addiction could be frustrating bro.
Ops wife is sick like some of us who chose to deny it.
At one point in our life we all suffered on form or addiction or another. Op can't cope hence he needs solution not judgement.
He knows his capacity. All engines are not the same not do they have the same capacity.
You can also suggest some useful tips to help him cope. Thanks

IdeyFindWife:
Daaamn! Ur living da dream hombre!

Man up, skill up, eat good, get fit, rest well and bang that shyt hard; you paid for it.

That's a dream woman you have there; remember, you promised her heaven&earth, told her you were "the MAN"!

Well, go on, give her "heaven", don't let her look-outside! Boy, get to ur battle-station and bang that shyt hard!

Get to work, brother, and represent in there, we're with u in spirit, may the Force be with you!

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FRANCSCRIB:


Does she have a good job?...if not get her a job it wl help to redirect her energy..

She might direct the energy to the co workers.

judgedredd22:



check your PM, if you don't mind o!

sent a mssg..check

specter:



Dealing with addiction could be frustrating bro.
Ops wife is sick like some of us who chose to deny it.
At one point in our life we all suffered on form or addiction or another. Op can't cope hence he needs solution not judgement.
He knows his capacity. All engines are not the same not do they have the same capacity.
You can also suggest some useful tips to help him cope. Thanks

Op should seek medical attention on why he can't have sex just a paltry twice a day... Hard work is not an excuse... And besides I see ur maturity...you gave me a matured answer without insults... Thank you

Invest in a swimming pool. Hire a pool boy and make sure to sync your business trips to his cleaning days so you're never home.

Done.

na d kine woman wen me dey fine be dat o

He just have to satisfy her else she will look outside for sexual satisfaction. He should employ the use of some pre intimacy sex materials to always bring her to orgasm and he should be ready to always talk to her as to issues regarding sex.
It should also be noted that constant use of intimacy gadgets can be very unhealthy so they both need to come to an understanding. Ti believe that if my point is employed, then with the help of God, he can handle her.

romeorails:
Mmaaaaaa afo keyen?

big head

COdeGenesis:

Twice a day is just too much for a working class married guy. Just like a banker that has to leave home as early as 5.30am to beat traffic at Island, he comes back 8pm and u expect him to hop on the woman for 1hr, wen he should be resting, when you older you will understand.

Sorry sir,my comment was not meant for working class people like you..

who is not in Lagos? who doesn't know Lagos traffic? who is not working on the island?

which man will not satisfied his wife?

if your wife keep telling you what you just typed now,you will say she is cheating...

Coolgent:

Chai Fatima u too much

How?

Sfateema:
Twice a day
That's not too cool of a demand.
Man check yourself, you must have been loosing weight

I don't see what's too much about twice a day.

bencarson007:


I disagree with you... We all work hard. I run a cabbing firm as a part time business together with my job... And I work till dawn most times cos my cabbing company is in its growth stage but I still do my bedroom chores very efficiently... Working hard is not an excuse and vibrator is not an option for married people else God would have given it to us as a spare... And besides the poster is selfish thinking about himself only and not his wife's feeling or urges... That's not cool bro.

OGa u are being unreasonable here, do u knack your wife at least twice everyday? No one is saying you shouldn't knack your wife but there is time for everything. Everyday sex is abnormal and crazy. Only craze pple do that. Everything is planning, there have to be spacing though sometimes u two might be in the mood and disregard the plan. Any woman /man that demands sex atleast twice a day is suffering from sex disorder and needs to see a psychologist

FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.

I can assist you in having sex mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays and Sundays. You dont have to pay me for my services